Xiang Ling once commented on Bao Yu like this: Strange people say that you are used to sneaking and making people numb. Xiang Ling was right in saying this, but she misunderstood Bao Yu's meaning.
Baoyu to the girls around him, that is twelve points of the heart, a hundred points of intimate, every word and deed are very careful, he will leave tofu skin buns for Qingwen, leave sugar steamed cheese for the attackers, give musk moon grate head, these things, outsiders always feel too meaty, in fact, Baoyu is considerate and careful performance of the girl.
This is still true for the lady around him, not to mention Sister Lin, who is always worried about his heart.
How careful and considerate is Baoyu to Daiyu? Through a few small things, we can see it.
The first time the King of Beijing saw Baoyu, he sent a string of wagtail incense rosaries just given by the emperor to him, which is naturally an extremely precious thing in Baoyu's view, because it is not only sent by the King of Beijing, the original owner is still the current emperor, such rosary beads are estimated to be few strings in the world, it can be said that it is a limited edition.
Such a valuable gift, of course, can not be given casually, Baoyu actually has long thought of it, to give this thing to Daiyu. However, at this time, Dai Yu returned to nan due to his father's illness, so he carefully put away this item, and when Dai Yu returned, he cherished it and gave it to Dai Yu.
In Baoyu's view, such a rare treasure naturally had to be given to his beloved, and probably only Dai Yu deserved this thing, which also showed his care and consideration for Dai Yu. But what he didn't expect was that Dai Yu thought that some stinky man had taken it, and she didn't want it.
In fact, Dai Yu is not something that Bao Yu sends, but something that Bao Yu does not want Bao Yu to give, and after Wen Bao Yu let Qing Wen send two old veils to Dai Yu, Qing Wen did not know it, and she was afraid that Dai Yu would be angry, but she did not expect that she regarded it as a treasure.
Baoyu's care is also reflected in the cherishing of the gifts given by Daiyu, and the Grand View Garden test is only correct once, because Baoyu performed well, and the small people went out of the door and untied the purse and fan sac on his body.
After Dai Yu learned about it, he asked Bao Yu if he had given him a sachet that he had also given to those small people, and before Bao Yu could say it, Dai Yu believed it to be true, he got angry, and cut the sachet that had been half made.
Later, it was learned that she had wronged Baoyu, and Baoyu untied the collar and untied the purse that Dai Yu had given her from the inside of the red jacket to show Dai Yu. It turned out that Baoyu cherished daiyu's gifts so much, kept them so carefully, and in order to prevent them from being lost and removed by the squatters, he specially carried them inside.
Baoyu's carefulness towards Daiyu can be seen from this. Men and women in love, most of them are like this, the gift does not depend at all on whether it is valuable or not, only on who sent it, if it is sent by the person, even if it is as light as a feather, it is a piece of paper, a few words, in her heart is also regarded as a treasure. If it is not sent by the person, it is the golden mountain and the silver mountain, and it is also regarded as dung.
Yuan Chun Dragon Boat Reward once, because the reward for the two of them has a difference, Baoyu is afraid that Dai Yu will think more, so he let ZiXiu take his gifts to Dai Yu, let Dai Yu "love what is left behind", although Dai Yu did not want anything in the end, but from this incident, we saw Bao Yu's care.
He pays attention to Daiyu's dynamics all the time, takes care of Daiyu's emotions all the time, his heart is actually always on Daiyu, with delicious fun, the first to think of Daiyu.
Even others, he was afraid that they would accidentally offend his Lin sister and make her unhappy. Sure enough, Bao Chao's birthday, because Xiang Yun said that Dai Yu was like a play, Bao Yu made his eyes remind Xiang Yun, and as a result, several people made an unpleasant scene, and Bao Yu did not expect that he ended up with a pig eight precepts looking in the mirror - inside and outside is not a person.
Xiang Yun was angry with Baoyu because he felt that he only cared about his own Lin sister, afraid that anyone would hurt her, but forgot her as a cloud sister. And Dai Yu's anger at Baoyu is that she thinks that Bao Yu also thinks that she is a person who loves to be angry with children, so she reminds others to be careful in speaking.
In fact, for Baoyu, why didn't he understand Daiyu? It was precisely because he understood that he was afraid that others would not understand, so he reminded Xiangyun when he spoke. In the end, he was still afraid that others would verbally annoy Sister Lin, but in fact, he was still considerate and careful to Daiyu.
Baoyu's care and consideration for Daiyu can be said to be everywhere, that is, Dai Yu has eaten a meal to take a lunch break, and he is also afraid that Dai Yu's stopping to eat is not good for his health, so he wants to talk to him to relieve his boredom.
Dai Yu will suffer from coughing diseases every time she arrives at the spring equinox and autumn equinox, and at this time, Bao Yu is a regular visitor to Xiao Xiang Pavilion, and Dai Yu once said, "Thank you for coming to see me several times a day, and the rain will come." It can be seen how concerned and considerate Bao Yu is for Dai Yu. This kind of care of Baoyu is not lip service, but real understanding and consideration for Daiyu.
He told Daiyu what he wanted to eat, just tell him that he went back and forth to the old lady. This is equivalent to eliminating the trouble and embarrassment of Dai Yu directly asking her grandmother for money and things, and also blocking the mouths of those slaves who have complained a lot.
There is a person who knows cold and knows heat, presumably sending people to Daiyu under the fence, whenever he thinks about it, a warm current will rise in his heart, right?
After Bao Chao reconciled with Dai Yu, he once said that he would let Dai Yu eat bird's nest porridge, and he sent someone to send bird's nest every day, and after Bao Yu learned of this, he quickly returned to Jia Mu and specially arranged bird's nest for Dai Yu.
But in this matter, Baoyu did not get Dai Yu to ask for credit, he took care of Dai Yu's emotions, or Zi Juan asked, Bao Yu said the original commission. Bao Yu felt that Bao Chao was a guest of Jia Fu, and it was not appropriate to only eat her bird's nest, so he made a noise with Jia Mu, which arranged for Dai Yu.
This is Jia Baoyu, who seems to be a rich and idle person who has nothing to do in his belly, but in the treatment of Daiyu, he is more attentive and thoughtful than anyone, not only can take care of Daiyu's small emotions, but also pay attention to Daiyu's daily needs, and everything is done to meet Daiyu.
After all, Dai Yu is a young lady under the fence of her parents after all, if there is no careful care of Bao Yu and silent protection, then I don't know how many open guns and dark arrows Dai Yu will suffer in Jia Province.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.