In the past two days, a kind of content called "Lin Daiyu Crazy Literature" on the Internet has caught fire! Netizens competed to make sentences and comments, and their enthusiasm was abnormal.
Some people think that "Lin Daiyu Crazy Literature" is to step on the classics under the feet to show superiority, which is uncomfortable. Some people also think that this is an interesting phenomenon, which fully reflects the influence of literary classics.
In fact, if we only look at these words themselves, it is not difficult to find that in the eyes of readers, Lin Daiyu's own personality and language characteristics: sensitive, self-sufficient, straightforward, and sharp words.
Has Daiyu's character and language always been like this? Is she really just going to "go crazy"?
Wrong! The film who explains Qiu Xin, the mental journey of the young girl Daiyu, is not only sensitive and straightforward, with her growth, her interpersonal relationships, attitude towards the world, personality traits have also changed, a although imperfect, but real three-dimensional Daiyu has always touched every reader. Today's recommendation comes from Cui Xiuxia's "Youth Red Chamber: Reading the Whole Book of Dream of the Red Chamber" (abstract with abridgements).
The forty-fifth time, "Jinlanqi mutual dissected Jinlan language, wind and rain and rain and sullen wind and rain words", wrote that the autumn weather turned cold, Dai Yu committed an old disease, and Bao Chao and Bao Yu came to visit Dai Yu in the illness respectively. This passage is full of warmth between people. ...... Here, we mainly look at the relationship between Daiyu and Baochao.
This time, it is written that around the autumn equinox, Dai Yu committed a cough disease and will be raised in the room. Bao Chao came to visit her, and the two of them talked to each other on their knees, and Dai Yu said something like this to Bao Chao:
Dai Yu sighed, "Although you treat people every day, it is excellent, but I am the most multi-hearted person, only when you hide adultery in your heart." The day before yesterday, you said that it was not good to read miscellaneous books, and you said those good things about me, and I was very grateful to you. In the past, I was wrong, but I am really wrong to this day. If you calculate carefully, my mother died early, there are no sisters and brothers, I am fifteen years old, and no one has taught me as you said the day before. I can't complain that Yun Yatou said hello. I used to see him praise you, and I was not used; yesterday I personally passed by and found out. For example, if you say that, I will not let you go lightly, and you will not mind, and persuade me to say those words, but I will be mistaken. If I hadn't seen it from the day before, I wouldn't have said this to you today. ......”
This remark just showed the change in the relationship between Bao Chao and Dai Yu. We can think about the relevant plot in front of "Dream of the Red Chamber":
How did this change happen?
What does Dai Yu mean when she says, "No one has taught me as you said the day before?"
At this time, between Dai Yu and Bao Chao, the previous misunderstandings and heart knots were solved, and they were full of understanding and concern between the sisters. "No one taught me like what you said the day before", which refers to the fact that Dai Yu accidentally said the lyrics in "Peony Pavilion" and "West Chamber" during the fortieth time of the previous drinking order, "The beautiful scenery of the good day" and "There is no red lady newspaper in the screen window", etc. At that time, there was a detail that would not be paid attention to if you did not pay attention, "Bao Chao listened, looked back at him" and so on. This was obviously discovered by Bao Chao, but Bao Chao did not break it on the spot, but privately found an opportunity to remind Dai Yu not to read such books in the future, which made Dai Yu under the fence feel the general concern of her sister, and said that Dai Yu was secretly obedient. This is exactly the forty-second time of "Junlan Yan to solve doubts", Bao Chao's words unravel the previous Dai Yu's suspicions of her, making her believe that Bao Chao is really good for herself. This incident was the direct cause of the change in the relationship between the two people. Dai Yu is no longer mean and bitter to Bao Chao because of suspicion, but is full of gratitude for her confidant and the warmth of the pulse between her sisters.
In addition to this most direct reason, we can also speculate: is the emotional stability between Bao Dai also an important factor affecting the emotions of Bao Chao and Dai Yu? The three words "you are assured" poured out by Baoyu in the thirty-second "Appeal to the Heart", the clarity of the two people's emotions, let Daiyu's heart settle down, so she no longer waited strictly, no longer regarded Baochao as her emotional "imaginary enemy", and the whole person relaxed and relaxed.
It can be said that the changes in Daiyu's interpersonal relationships with others are closely related to the development of her emotions.
Let's look at xue Baoqin's appearance in the forty-ninth time. In the face of a girl who is so perfect and popular with Baoqin, everyone can imagine what Daiyu's attitude towards Baoqin will look like. According to Daiyu's previous personality, everyone will definitely think that Daiyu will be uncomfortable in her heart again.
As he was speaking, he saw Amber come and smiled: "The old lady said, tell The treasure girl not to care about the piano girl, he is still young." Let him love as much as he wants. If you want something, just go, don't worry too much. Bao Chao hurriedly got up and agreed, and then pushed Bao Qin and smiled: "You don't know if it is a blessing from there!" You go down, carefully we have wronged you. I don't believe it, I'm not as good as you. Between words, Baoyu Daiyu came in. Bao Chao was mocking. Xiang Yunyin smiled, "Sister Bao, although your words are naughty, some people really think so." Amber smiled and said, "I'm really annoyed, there's no one else, it's just him." The mouth said, pointing to the treasure jade. Bao Chao Xiangyun laughed and said, "He is not such a person." Amber laughed again, "It's not him, it's him." He said, and pointed to Daiyu again. Xiang Yun did not make a sound. Bao Chao smiled busily, "Not even more so." My sister, like his sister, liked me more than I did, and it was annoying there. You believe yun er mixed said. What evidence does his mouth have. Bao Yu Su used to know that Dai Yu had some small temperament, and he did not know about Dai Yu and Bao Chao recently, and he was afraid that Jia Mu would hurt Bao Qin, and his heart was not at ease; now that Xiang Yun said so, Bao Chao replied so, and re-examining Dai Yu's voice and color was not the same as in the past, and it was indeed in line with Bao Chao's words, and his heart was sullen and confused. Because he thought that his two days were not so good, now it seems that he is ten times better than others. For a while, Lin Daiyu rushed to baoqin to call her "sister", and did not nominate a Daoist surname, but was like a sister.
Amber, Xiangyun, Baoyu and others, like some of us readers, speculate about Daiyu's previous performance, fearing that Baoqin's popularity would make Daiyu unhappy. But with the previous "Jinlanqi Mutual Dissecting Jinlan Language" and the friendship of sending bird's nest, BaoChao knew that his relationship with Daiyu was different, and said frankly: "It is even more so." My sister, like his sister, liked me more than I did, and it was annoying there. Dai Yu's voice was indeed not the same as in the past, but it was consistent with what Bao Chao said, without a trace of jealousy and unhappiness, but just lovingly holding Bao Qin's hand and calling out to her sister, like a sister.
Baoqin as Baochao's cousin, Daiyu's attitude toward Baoqin is actually a reflection of Daiyu's attitude toward Baochao, indicating that Daiyu has completely given up her mustard for Baochao and regarded her as her sister. Here Bao Yu wondered about Daiyu's unusual performance, and asked Daiyu through the joke words in the "Tale of the West Chamber": "Then there is a sentence on the 'Noisy Jane' that says best: 'When did Meng Guang take over Liang Hong's case?'" This is the best sentence. The seven words 'Meng Guang took over liang hong's case' are just ready-made classics, and it is difficult for him to ask the three imaginary words of 'when' is interesting. When did ——— pick up? You talk about me and listen. This is actually asking Dai Yu when she accepted Bao Chao. Dai Yu said, "Who knew that he was really a good person." I only hid him for adultery. So from the time he said the wrong liquor order, along with the things he had talked about sending bird's nest and being sick, he told Baoyu in detail. In this vein, it can be seen that Daiyu's misunderstanding of Baochao is the direct reason for her harmony with Baoqin.
At the same time, we can also speculate that the appearance of the character of Baoqin is more of a test of the emotions between Baoyu and Daiyu. The feelings of the two have gone through various twists and turns, and then through the clarity of emotions in the "appeal to the heart", they have reached the point where their feelings are stronger than gold. Needless to say Baochao and Xiangyun, even if there was such a perfect and popular Baoqin coming now, Dai Yu knew that this would not affect Bao Yu's heart for himself in the slightest, and there was no need to worry about it anymore. So she let go of all the sword-rattling protection and calmly faced it. In the following fiftieth time, Baoqin, who was standing in the snow, was incomparably beautiful in the eyes of everyone, and it was quite opposite to the Baoyu behind him, which led Jia Mu to inquire in detail about Baoqin's Nian Geng's eight characters and the situation of the family, as if there was a intention to seek a match for Baoyu. If this matter had been left behind, Dai Yu Zhun would have had a big fight with Bao Yu because he felt a new threat. Do you remember the fierce quarrel that broke out between Bao Dai when Princess Yuan gave her the Red Musk String and Zhang Daoshi's courtship? But here we don't see Daiyu's jealousy at all. In the next fifty-first time, when Baoqin's nostalgic poems were criticized by Baochao for having two poems in shi wukao, Dai Yu was still "busy" and spoke for Baoqin, and did not regard Baoqin as his "imaginary enemy" at all. What Dai Yu cared about was Bao Yu's heart for herself. Now she was sure that Baoyu was single-minded about herself, so the heart of the young girl Daiyu, who was tormented by uncertain love, was now also put down steadily. Dai Yu, who has a sense of emotional security, replaces the previous sword tension with more gentleness and friendliness to people and things. The setting of the flawless Xue Baoqin character seems to have more instrumental meaning, and her appearance seems to be more to test the solidity of the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu, which is a "touchstone" of their emotions. And we see that Bao Dai's emotional development has now, whether it is Bao Yu or Dai Yu, it is obvious that they have withstood such a test. Yu Baoyu said, "Out of its east gate, there are women like clouds." Although it is like a cloud, bandit me to think of existence", Baoqin's good he looked in his eyes, and sincerely admired "God, God, how many essences do you have, give birth to these people on the top", but this beauty has nothing to do with him, he only has "weak water, three thousand, I only take a scoop to drink" Daiyu; for Daiyu, she will no longer have suspicion and gap with Baoyu because of various potential threats that emerge endlessly.
All this is because of "rest assured". This is the growth and change brought by Bao Dai's emotional stability to Dai Yu.
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At this time, Daiyu was even a little different from her original self. This is a mature woman who is no longer antagonistic to the world, or reconciled with the world. This autumn rainy night for the forty-fifth time was really a cold and warm night in Daiyu's life, like a small red clay stove in the first snowy day. For Baochao, for Baoyu, for her mother-in-law, she has warmth and understanding.
This is Daiyu's growth, or, in the autumn rain and cool night, people have a little warm pulse warmth. In that cold human world, in that vast human life on the swinging river, this warmth is enough to resist the infinite cold that follows. Let's look at the forty-eighth time, when Xiang Ling, who moved into the Grand View Garden to temporarily live, begged Dai Yu to teach her to compose poetry, Dai Yu smiled and said, "If you want to write poetry, you will worship me as a teacher." Although I don't understand it, I can still teach you in general. Without hesitation, I agreed to come down. It is reasonable to say that Xiangling lives with Baochao, and it is more convenient to learn poetry from Baochao. But compared with the previous one, when Xiangling begged Baochao to teach himself, Baochao pushed back with a sentence of "I said you 'have long wang shu'". When teaching Xiangling to compose poetry, Dai Yu was the most patient teacher, tirelessly recommending poems to her and talking to her about the benefits of poetry. When Xiang Ling came to her with great enthusiasm after composing a poem, Dai Yu patiently took the poem manuscript and paid attention to her, giving her own suggestions. While everyone laughed at Xiangling's madness in writing poetry, Dai Yu kept treating this matter solemnly until it was changed to the third time, and Xiangling finally made a new and interesting poem. Here, Dai Yu never differed from Xiang Ling's status, but discussed with her equally and sincerely. I privately speculated that although it was not explicitly written in the book, Daiyu's devotion to help should also have the same disease and pity for Xiangling's life——— they are all fatherless, motherless, rootless orphan daughters in this world, living here alone; and in such a situation, they all have the most poetic and pure soul. So she is willing to guide Xiangling and help her use poetry to get a chance to escape from the dirty reality and breathe temporarily.
Dai Yu, who is considered to be "lonely and self-promising, with no dust in her eyes", is actually the most sincere in her treatment of people. Compared with Daiyu's growth, Baochao seems to be a mature and rational person as soon as she appears, and we rarely see any traces of growth in her. Her personality traits tend to be more stable. However, the growing Daiyu is more touching to us. Her confusion, her struggles, her pain all touched us so much. On the contrary, an overly rational person makes us feel that we have lost the "truth" and have less of a kind of intimate and intimate kindness. This is the charm of the character of Daiyu, and what impresses us although she is not perfect.