Lin Daiyu has some "small sex", which is a well-known thing, and even her confidant Baoyu "knows that Dai Yu has some small sex".
So the question is, as a talented girl from the Shuxiang family, there is a father who explores flowers, and she began to read the "Four Books" at the age of five, how did Lin Daiyu's "little sex" form?
In the comment area of a certain platform, a person with the word "psychological" in his nickname told me that TA studies human nature, and TA believes that Dai Yu is a natural love brain, no matter how the environment changes, it cannot change her "little sex". Therefore, TA believes that Daiyu and Baochao's "mutual dissection of Jinlan language" is false, and the vinegar that does not eat Baoqin is also false, and she deliberately showed Baoqin to feed Baoyu wine in public during the Lantern Festival, and the purpose is to swear sovereignty: Baoyu is mine, you go farther.
This "study of human nature" really stunned me.
Is this still the Lin Daiyu who "has a more heart than a dry mind" and is extremely intelligent? When she said the liquor order, she lost her mouth and said the sentence in the "West Chamber", and she could realize that she had "failed to check the spot" afterwards, could she do such a stupid thing as swearing sovereignty in public?
No way, in the eyes of many readers, Lin Daiyu is so stupid, it is simply worse than Aunt Zhao.
However, I have to admit that Lin Daiyu's "little sex" has existed for a long time, but it also has a time limit. That is to say, Lin Daiyu is not a natural "little sex", and there is no "small sex" in the end. For Daiyu, "little sex" is just a special product of a special growth period.
Inspired by this "human nature research" professional, since academic research can be so casual, I may as well use academic research to analyze: how did Lin Daiyu become "small" step by step?
What is a "little sex child"
To understand how Lin Daiyu became "small sex" step by step, it is very inevitable to figure out what a "small sex child" is.
According to the Chinese Dictionary, "little sex" describes people as narrow-minded and temperamental.
Is Lin Daiyu a "little sex child"?
Many readers are reluctant to admit that Lin Daiyu is a "little sex child", so is Lin Daiyu really a "small sex child"?
Let's look at the answer from the book.
Lin Daiyu's "little sex", in addition to Jia Baoyu's approval, Shi Xiangyun also clearly said to Jia Baoyu: "You have to say, you said to those people who love to annoy people who love to be annoyed by small sex children will listen to you." This "little sex action loves annoying people will rule you" refers to Lin Daiyu. In addition, Zi Juan also said to Lin Daiyu in person: "It is because of the girl's small nature that she often has to distort him, which is how it is." ”
This is enough to show that Lin Daiyu's "small sex" is the consensus of everyone, even her closest people say so.
Therefore, Lin Daiyu is undoubtedly a "little sex child".
When did Lin Daiyu start to become "small"?
Is Lin Daiyu born "small"? Of course not, the author gave her father a name of "like the sea", as broad and tolerant as the sea, how can she give birth to a daughter with a narrow heart?
Moreover, judging from Lin Daiyu's performance in entering jia mansion, every word and deed fully reflects everyone's demeanor, even if jia baoyu fell jade half to death, he did not lose his temper, but blamed himself: "Only today, I will provoke the madness of your brother, if you break the jade, is it not because of me!" ”
This spirit of self-examination and self-blame is very valuable, and those who find reasons from themselves in advance will not be harsh on others. Is there a relationship between Baoyu wrestling jade and Daiyu? There is no relationship with a dime, it is completely that Baoyu is too abnormal, and Daiyu's response cannot be faulted at all. However, at this time, Dai Yu did not harshly accuse Bao Yu of having a "crazy disease", but instead took the responsibility on himself, and it was he who provoked Bao Yu's "mad disease".
This is a narrow mind, a completely sea-like mind!
It can be seen from this that at least, Lin Daiyu, who has just entered Jia Province, does not have a "small sex". Therefore, her "little sex" was formed in Jia Province.
The book does not say when she began to become "small sex", because since the third time she entered Jia Province, by the fifth time, Dai Yu had appeared as a "little sex child". Under the contrast of the latecomer BaoChao, not only is Baochao's "character square, his appearance is rich, and many people say that Dai Yu can't reach it", "but also Bao Chao's behavior is open-minded, and when he follows the division, he is not more self-assured than Dai Yu, and his eyes are dusty, so he is bigger than Dai Yu and has the heart of the people."
In the face of such a contrast, Dai Yu showed a narrow mind, "there was some depression in her heart." In contrast, Baochao showed a broad mind and "unconscious".
This "unconsciousness" can be understood in two ways: one is that Baochao is "unconscious" about everyone's comparison, and the other is "depressed" and "unconscious" of Daiyu.
In short, Dai Yu went to his heart, but Bao Chao didn't care.
Pay attention to this "unconscious", not that Bao Chaobi wins so she doesn't care, but she doesn't care about winning or losing, and she doesn't know that there is such a thing.
Here, although the author did not explicitly point out Daiyu's "small nature", he revealed Daiyu's "small nature".
Therefore, next, we will see more of Daiyu's "small sex" performance, such as the embarrassment of the Zhou Rui family in the Palace Flower Incident, and the stabbing of Grandma Li for no reason. These performances are very different from when they first entered Jia Province, when they only blamed themselves and did not blame themselves.
How did Lin Daiyu become "small sex" step by step?
Finally, we come to the ultimate question, how did Lin Daiyu become a "little sex" step by step?
If you only look at it from the surface, it is indeed incredible. Lin Daiyu came to the capital from Yangzhou, which can be regarded as coming from a small place to a big place. Also, compared with the rich families in Jia Province, the Lin family is only a small household. In addition, the Lin family is sparse, and the Jia family is prosperous. Especially in terms of living conditions, Dai Yu, who had just entered Jia Province, felt "extraordinary" when she saw the style of the third-class servant women of Jia Province, and after entering Jia Province, she enjoyed the same treatment as Bao Yu, which can be described as a step up to the heavens. So no matter from what aspect, Lin Daiyu is from small to large, from narrow to wide, the heart should be more broad, how can it become more and more "small"?
This is the cunning of the author, these improvements in the external environment, not only did not make Daiyu go to a higher level, but became more and more "small" on the spiritual level.
That is to say, we only see that Dai Yu has improved at the material level, but we can't see any changes in her spiritual level after entering Jia Province. Because these changes are all steganographed, the so-called "true things hidden, false words exist", what exists on the surface, are all illusions, and what can really affect a person is the hidden truth.
Why didn't the author write whether Dai Yu's spiritual level had improved after entering Jia Province? Because there's really nothing to write about. For example, Jia Mu has "all kinds of pity" for Daiyu, but the way of pity is "sleeping, eating and living, just like Baoyu, Yingchun, Tanchun, and Xichun, the three granddaughters are backward and backward", all reflected in the material level, there is no spiritual pity.
It is precisely because only matter has no spirit that Dai Yu places all her body and mind on Bao Yu, and it has led to the phenomenon of "the destruction of seeking perfection, the gap between not worrying". This is also why many readers say that Dai Yu is only "small" to Bao Yu, and only things related to Bao Yu will she be "small sex". This has nothing to do with love, Daiyu's "little sex" is caused by a serious lack of security. She wanted to firmly grasp Baoyu and use Baoyu as the only straw to protect her.
This is Daiyu's real life in Jia Province, only material supply, no spiritual nourishment. Therefore, in the painting representing Lin Daiyu in the "Twelve Books of Jinling", the painting is "two dead trees, and a jade belt hangs on the wood". Jia Fu is a dead wood, a tree without water, and it is dry without the nourishment of water. Daiyu, who entered Jia Province, could not get the nourishment of love, so she withered more and more, not only physically withering, but also mentally withering, becoming a "small sex" is one of the signs of spiritual withering.
Not only did Jia Mu not give Dai Yu the nourishment of love, Bao Yu also did not give Dai Yu the nourishment of love, and these two people who loved Dai Yu the most on the surface only gave Dai Yu a prosperous external environment, and failed to give Dai Yu real love from the spirit, thus making Dai Yu become "small" step by step.