In the dream of the Red Chamber, when Aunt Xue told Xue Xiuyan about Xing Xiuyan, Xing Xiuyan had such a psychological activity: Xiuyan first took Zhongbaochao in her heart, and then took Xue Tao.
That is to say, Xing Xianyan took Xue Tadpole, first because he saw Baochao's character and was convinced in his heart, so he naturally had a good feeling for his cousin Xue Tadpole.
As we said earlier, for such a lady as the raider, even if she has a skin kiss with Baoyu, and is even designated as the future aunt by Lady Wang, there is another character who plays an important role in whether she can sit firmly in this position.
This person is Baoyu's future wife and future Bao'er grandmother.
For the attackers, who Bao Er's grandmother will be in the future, naturally it is not something she can decide, just like for Daiyu's lifelong events, although Zi Juan has the heart to plan for her, but she who is soft-spoken, at most, is only tempting to test Baoyu, talking in front of Aunt Xue, no matter how much she can't make.
But since the attacker can take the first step at great risk, there will naturally be a second step and a third step, jia fu such a workplace, if you do not advance, you will retreat, only by constantly planning for yourself, it is possible to stay until the end, otherwise people like Fang Guan and Si'er who only know how to have fun do not know how to "die".
It should be said that The attacker is a very caring person, she clearly knows how to achieve her life goals step by step. Of course, for a lady like her who doesn't have any background or backstage, if she doesn't learn a set of skills to make a living, let alone be able to go to Baoyu's side, Jia Mu's first-class maid can't do it, but I'm afraid she'll be obscure.
Among the Jia Family, the only popular candidates for Bao'er's grandmother are Bao Chao and Dai Yu. Of course, there may be a Shi Xiangyun in the early stage, but after the news of her engagement came out, it was naturally excluded. In the later period, there was another Xue Baoqin, and she was also a relative, and naturally she was excluded.
For the attackers, the future candidate for the second grandmother of Bao, if there is no major accident, is naturally produced among the two people.
In terms of their relationship with Baoyu, Dai Yu and Bao Yu are uncles and cousins, and belong to relatives on the father's side. Baochao and Baoyu belong to the two aunts and cousins, and belong to relatives on the mother's side. From the perspective of blood alone, there is no distinction between near and far.
Of course, this depends on whose eyes it looks at, if you look at it from the eyes of Jia Mu, it is naturally Dai Yu who is closer, because she is her own granddaughter, and Dai Yu has the blood of the Lin family, the Jia family and the Shi family. And if you look at it from Madame Wang's eyes, it is naturally Baochao who is closer, because Baochao is the daughter of her own sister, and sheds half of her Wang family's blood.
Therefore, for the attacker, the choice of BaoChao or Daiyu is not only related to her future, in fact, there is still a question of taking sides behind it, choosing Baochao means that she clearly stands in line with Lady Wang, and the selection of Daiyu is consistent with Jia Mu.
In the previous article, we analyzed that the attackers already had "two hearts" before determining Mrs. Wang, and were ready to jump from Jia Mu to Madame Wang's name. Don't underestimate the transfer of this organization, she is directly related to the future of the attacker.
Or as early as shortly after bao yu first tried Yun Yu, after Bao Dai successively entered the house, the raiders already had a comprehensive consideration in their minds for the future candidates for Bao Er's grandmother.
I still remember that before and after Xiangyun first came to Jia Province, the raiders had advised Baoyu, but Baoyu did not listen to her, so she was worried, even worried day and night, and the appearance of Baochao made her have a bottom in her heart.
Because for the attackers, BaoChao is different from Daiyu, Dai Yu never advises Bao Yu to read and does not say, the two often quarrel, dead and alive, it is very worrying.
But BaoChao is not like this, she is persuaded, this is in the insight of a young lady, who can persuade her master to study, in the future, bao's second grandmother must not be wrong. Sure enough, Li Yanzhai once revealed that after eighty times, there was a plot of "Xue Baochao's borrowing words with ironic advice".
If we read the Red Chamber carefully, we will also find that baochao and the attacking man have once hit each other in the process of hitting each other. When Xiangyun first came to Jia Province, Bao Chao listened to the words of the raiders complaining about Bao Yu, and there was a period of psychological activity, she felt that the raiders had some insight, so she paid attention to observation, and gossiped about his hometown age...
That is to say, it was Baochao who first hit the attacker, and the attacker quickly took the Baochao. It was Xiangyun's second visit to Jia Province, and Baoyu was angry because Xiangyun persuaded her to study and take the meritorious name, and issued an eviction order, and the result was that the attackers said goodbye.
What did the raider say? She said that Bao Chao had also advised Bao Yu in this way, and as a result, he did not give any face, lifted his feet and left, leaving Bao Chao alone in that embarrassment, not walking, not walking is not... Then she simply said away.
"Fortunately, it is a treasure girl, then if it is Lin girl, I don't know how to make a fuss and how to cry." Speaking of this, the real treasure girl is respected... Really nurturing, generous heart... That Lin girl saw that you gambled and ignored him, how much do you have to lose! ”
Can you imagine that this is something that has always been said by an attacker who has always been a virtuous name? Don't say that a lady should not talk about the master behind her back, even if she talks about the master, she can't hold a step on it, doesn't she know that Dai Yu is jia mu's most painful granddaughter?
Of course she knew, but why did she say that? She is clearly expressing her position. Don't forget, not long ago, Qingwen fell on the fan, and she also said "we" without emotion, who is "we"? She already regarded herself as a person of Baoyu, a member of the Jia family, right?
Therefore, we can be sure that at some point in time before Baoyu was beaten, the attacker had already taken Baochao. Once a person has a close and distant relationship in his heart, even if he exerts great restraint, it is difficult not to show it.
Raiders are known for their virtuous name, such a gentle and peaceful, city government is quite deep, can actually comment on the two big ladies in front of Baoyu and Xiangyun, is this not obviously showing his position and attitude?
Why would the raider choose to abandon Dai? Is it just because she wants to show loyalty to Madame Wang? Of course not! Her ultimate goal is naturally to be able to sit firmly in her future aunt position.
Some people may say, is it possible that Dai Yu can't tolerate attacking people when she is Bao Er's grandmother? We naturally feel that Dai Yu is not such an intolerable person, but the attacker may not think so.
Remember the plot of Baochao Di Cuiting eavesdropping on "marrying" Daiyu? When Xiaohong mistakenly thought that it was not Bao Chao but Daiyu who heard her conversation with Xiang'er, you can see what she said: If Bao Girl hears it, it will just fall. Lin Girl's mouth loves to be mean, and her heart is thin, as soon as he hears it, if he leaks the sound of the wind, how about it?
Xiao Hong, such a knowledgeable and articulate mane, can't fully understand Daiyu, let alone attack people, it should be said that attacking people, Xiao Hong, such a mane, although they are smart, but it is difficult for their understanding to surpass their own class, this is the class limitation.
Even, for the attackers, Baoyu's many times of throwing jade and even making a big move of liver fire are related to Daiyu, so if the mean and small lady becomes Bao'er's grandmother in the future, can she teach her husband and son to be able to manage the council? Can she tolerate this aunt of hers?
Moreover, Dai Yu was still a sick seedling, and it was difficult to say whether she could open branches and leaves for Jia Fu. Especially in the case of the recent incident of complaining about the heart's obsession with Baoyu, Baoyu's confession to Daiyu was heard by the attackers, and the attackers were frightened and scattered at that time, and shouted directly, "Divine Heavenly Bodhisattva, pit me to death!" ”
All kinds of contradictions, misunderstandings and dissections between Bao Dai and Bao Dai all made the raider feel that it was not appropriate for them to be together, at least Dai Yu marrying Bao Yu was not a good thing for Bao Yu, and if he did not do the right thing in the future, what could he do? If you want to die for Daiyu, why should you live?
As the saying goes, if the skin does not exist, the hair will be attached? Although the attacker can only be an aunt, if Jia Baoyu has some unexpected absurd behavior because of Daiyu, looking for death or leaving the family, won't her aunt's position also follow the chicken flying egg?
And Baochao is different, dignified and elegant, knowledgeable and reasonable, falling generously, never out of line with words and deeds and actions do not say, but also through the routine to persuade Baoyu to read, which for a lady, such a lady is the most suitable candidate for the second grandmother of Bao.
I believe that after the raider selected Baochao, he must have worked harder more than once to promote the marriage of Jin Yuliang, because in her view, Baochao has become Bao's second grandmother, not only Lady Wang is satisfied, Baoyu will be able to embark on the right path in the future, make meritorious achievements, and her husband will be honored and his wife is noble, and her life is also stable, because Baochao's tolerance and generosity will definitely tolerate her.
But what happened later greatly exceeded the attacker's expectations. Again, the class limitations of the attackers harmed her. No matter how virtuous and sensible she is, she is only a squire after all, and the bright and dark struggles and dark tides above her are swaying, is it something that she can influence as a squirrel?
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.