Strictly speaking, Xiuyan's marriage was approved by her parents. "His husband and wife originally came to lady Xing, so why didn't they?"
But," Mrs. Xing thought... "Lady Xing immediately ordered someone to tell Xing Zhong and his wife", "Early Pole Mouth said Wonderful", not Lady Xing and her brother and sister-in-law discussed before deciding, but decided to inform the brother and sister-in-law after deciding. That is to say, Xing Xiuyan's parents only have the right to know about their daughter's marriage. The decision was in the hands of her aunt, Lady Xing.
Why is that? It's actually quite simple. In today's parlance, "the economic base determines the superstructure." "Lady Xing's brother and sister-in-law's family in zhongyuan is difficult, this Shangjing, the original battle is Lady Xing and them to manage the house, help and entanglement", the brother-in-law's economy is given by Lady Xing, then, don't say "The Xue family has a good foundation, and now it is very rich, Xue Tadpole was born well, and Jia Mu was hard to protect the mountain", that is, the conditions were a little worse than Xue Tadpole, even Sun Shaozu," but I was afraid that Lady Xing's brother and sister-in-law did not dare to oppose.
The Xing family had such economic entanglements, so the aunt had the right to decide on the marriage of her niece. But what about the Xue family? Although Xue Tadpole and Baoqin's father died, their mother was still there. Why was Xue Tadpole's marriage decided after consideration by Aunt Xue? Why not discuss it with Xue Tadpole's mother? Why does she dare to cross the line? Could it be that Xue Tadpole's brothers and sisters are also like Xing Xiuyan's family, financially dependent on Aunt Xue?
Probably so.
Xue Tadpole sent his sister to Beijing, and the public reason was "marrying". But strangely, "After there was Xue Panzhi's brother Xue Tao... Smelling that Wang Ren had entered Beijing, he also brought his sister to come." If you want to "marry" a sister, how can you not be prepared earlier, as soon as you hear that there are crooked relatives entering Beijing, you hurriedly decide to marry?
Some people say that Baoqin's fiancé Mei family intends to repent of marriage, and Xue Tadpole entered Beijing to rely on the power of Jia Fu to consolidate this marriage. That's also nonsense. Nowhere in the work is revealed that the Mei family has the intention of repenting of marriage. Even if the Mei family really regrets it, the Xue family wants to find a powerful relative to help, will it find the in-laws of the aunt's sisters? This bend is also too big, right?
The Xue family is also one of the "four major families" on the talisman' charm, can't there be a few prominent relatives except for the estranged Jia family? Far from saying that prince Teng, who was soon "promoted to the capital of the nine provinces", was the brother of Baoqin's aunt, at least one less bend than the "sister's in-laws", right? Why didn't the Baoqin brothers and sisters go to the Wang family?
Baoqin is still young, not in a hurry to get married, and there is no sign of the Mei family repenting. Xue Tadpole's brothers and sisters entered Beijing, and "getting married" was just an excuse.
"Can't we Xue Tadpole and his sister come?" This was Bao Chao's reaction when he heard that the Xue family had come. According to the general custom, sisters are close, and brothers should be estranged. Moreover, there are many relatives of the Xue family. Bao Chao knew that it was Xue Tadpole as soon as she heard it, but did not say "we Baoqin and his brother", which showed that she already knew that Xue Tadpole might enter Beijing.
However, as already mentioned in the previous quotation, Xue Tadpole's entry into Beijing was basically a temporary intention, and he hurriedly "came", how could Bao Chao know in advance that he was coming?
Unless, Xue Tadpole entered Beijing, it was simply arranged by Bao Chao. Of course, only Aunt Xue can come forward, but Aunt Xue attaches so much importance to her daughter that she will definitely seek her daughter's opinion before making a decision, and her daughter's suggestions will definitely be followed. That is to say, Xue Tadpole's entry into Beijing was jointly decided by Aunt Xue and Baochao, and summoned by Aunt Xue's sending a letter.
One of the purposes of Xue Pan's entry into Beijing was to revitalize business in Beijing. But it has been a few years, and with Xue Pan's human nature, of course, it is impossible to complete this task. Just like the current saying that "the large trumpet training is ruined", Aunt Xue may also "buy a trumpet to practice". Xue Tadpole entered Beijing to take care of Aunt Xue's assets.
Because the saying that "the son can't be relied on and find a nephew to cultivate" is too humiliating, aunt Xue and Xue Tadpole do not say it publicly, but as long as others are not too stupid, they can understand it, including Xue Tadpole herself and Xue Tadpole's phlegm disease mother.
Therefore, Xue Tadpole nominally only came to Beijing to live temporarily, but in fact, he became an employment manager for Aunt Xue, and even equivalent to a son.
Therefore, Aunt Xue had the power to decide on Xue Tadpole's marriage.
Therefore, Aunt Xue vigorously promoted Xue Tadpole's marriage - choosing the excellent Xing Xiuyan was a gesture and solicitation of Xue Tadpole.
Therefore, Aunt Xue will choose Xiuyan, who is "elegant and stable", "poor in the family road", and "jing skirt cloth" - like Xue Tadpole, Xiuyan is the talent needed by the Xue family that has gradually declined.
For Aunt Xue, for Xiuyan, and for Xue Tadpole, this marriage is the best combination of talent and human feelings.