Question: Xue Wenlong repented of marrying Hedong Lion? Xia Jingui: The old lady regrets marrying you!
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The seventy-ninth time in "Dream of the Red Chamber", "Xue Wenlong repents of marrying the Lion of Hedong Jia Yingchun mistakenly married the wolf of Zhongshan", it is written that Xue Da Szi married the shrew Xia Jingui, and the cowardly and deceitful Ermutou was bullied when he married.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the Xia family, like the Xue family, are both nominal merchants in the household department, and they are all imperial merchants. "Osmanthus Xia Family" is also one of the largest portals, in Chang'an City, from the princes to the traders, no one does not know the name of the Xia family.
Xiang Ling said, "His family's original surname is Xia, and he is very rich." The rest of the fields needless to say, there are only a few dozen acres of land to plant osmanthus flowers, where this Chang'an City outside the city osmanthus bureau furniture is his family, even the palace should be furnished bonsai is also his family tribute, so there is this Hun name. Now the grandfather is gone, only the grandmother lives with a biological girl, and there is no brother and brother, but unfortunately he has no door. ”
The official heard that there were many reasons why the Xue family had a crush on the Xia family.
First, Xia Jingui's own conditions are good, he is like a flower, and he also reads and writes at home, which can be described as a complete talent.
Second, the Xia family's family conditions are good, there are countless fields, there are dozens of fields where osmanthus flowers are planted alone, and the osmanthus flowers in the whole country are from the Xia family, and the family is rich.
Third, Grandpa Xia is gone, Grandma Xia has no son, the Xia family only has one daughter, Xia Jingui marries whomever the family can eat. Therefore, the Xue family hurried to marry.
Xiang Ling smiled, "As soon as your brother entered the door, he actually begged our grandmother to go and ask for affection." Our grandmother had also seen this girl, and she was right at home, so she relied on it. I consulted with my aunt here, Mrs. Feng, and sent someone to talk about it. It's just that the date of marriage is too urgent, so we are very busy. ”
However, after Xia Jingui, who was quite a step behind Xi Feng, married into the Xue family, the three members of the Xue family shook their heads and regretted marrying, and Xue Pan even went in and out coughing and sighing, complaining that he was unlucky.
The mother and daughter of the Xue family always ignored him. Xue Pan had no other way, but day and night regret that he should not marry this troublemaker star, he had no idea for a while. Therefore, the people of Ning Rong's second house, up and down, all know, all sigh.
However, with Xia Jingui in his heart, who has qiu and a meridian, why not regret it? You know, Xue Pan is a man with drunken courage and no food, and he is also a person who pities the new and abandons the old, who can marry her to be happy? Therefore, Xia Jingui said such a thing in front of her mother-in-law, Aunt Xue.
Jin Gui meant not to do one, two without stopping, and shouted more and more, saying: "I am not afraid of people's jokes!" Your little wife cured me and harmed me, I am afraid of people laughing! Otherwise, if you keep him, you will sell me. Who doesn't know that your Xue family has money, takes money to pad people, and has good relatives to blackmail others. If you don't act early, what are you waiting for? I don't think I'm good, who told you to be blind, and ran away from our house to do something! This will also come, the gold and silver will also lose, and the slightly eye and nose will also be occupied, and it is time to squeeze me!"
The official heard that if Xia Jingui and Xiangling were tonalistic, or if Xia Jingui and Jia Yingchun were one sex and were not shrews, would she be cherished?
inexistent. Xia Jingui was so powerful, he was still not happy, even his own servants could not be sure, if Xia Jingui and Xiangling and Jia Yingchun were so good at bullying, Xue Pan would only be more arrogant, and even bully Xia Jingui with concubines and concubines. And Xia Jingui could only swallow his anger, afraid of being suspended, even the dowry was taken over by the Xue family, and he had nothing.
As the author of "Jin Ping Mei" sighed: "For people can not be a woman's body, a hundred years of bittersweet by others!" Since ancient times, a woman marrying is equivalent to sending people to the fence, passive sacrifice, being eaten out of the household, whether the other party is no house, loan to buy a house, or a full house, but who married, especially married to a man with poor economic conditions than himself, the woman is a loss, passive; Correspondingly, when a man gets married, he is able to maximize his benefits and take advantage of him without worry.
If a woman marries a man who has no house, then, the other party is likely to be lazy and lazy, or uncle filial piety, the woman is no matter how desperate to make money, no matter how to save money, men and his family always have a way to help you spend the money, let you live in a rental house for a lifetime, live in the countryside to build a house, the house must be in his father's name, his brother's name.
If a woman marries a man who bought a loan house, then the man can justifiably only care about repaying the mortgage of their family's pre-marriage house, let the woman raise a baby and support the family, which day the woman suffers enough grievances to want to divorce, the house and children have to be left to the man, you can escape the day.
Even if a woman marries a man who has the ability to buy a house in full, that is, the bride price goes through a formality, takes it for decoration, and the in-laws think that you have not paid a penny, taking advantage of their family, and the woman who gives birth to a baby and raises a baby is inevitable to pay, these are the benefits that the man's family gets from the woman, and once the contradiction is severe, the girl is still out of the house, and there is no penny benefit from the man's family.
Marriage for women, is nothing more than a free live-in nanny nature, even if you have money and a house, even if you have not spent a penny from the beginning to the end, you will also be married to others, you must be short in front of other people's parents, but also in front of other people's parents to do all kinds of filial piety, this is the rules of marriage. Do you see the reaction of Aunt Xue and Xue Pan?
When Aunt Xue heard this, she gasped and said, "Whose rule is this?" The mother-in-law speaks here, and the daughter-in-law mixes her mouth through the window. You are the daughter of an old family! Shouting in his mouth, what is he talking about!" Xue Pan stomped his feet anxiously and said, "Stop, stop! Watch people hear jokes. ”
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Xia Jingui is indeed a shrew, and this incident is also Xia Jingui's intentional planting of stolen goods, but even if Xia Jingui is really wronged, Aunt Xue will rightly think that the daughter-in-law must be scolded in front of her in-laws, and there can be no words and deeds that are refute by her mouth, and if there is, she will also be treated as a joke by Xue Pan's husband and countless traditional viewers.
Since ancient times, marriage means that women must pay, to become the follower of the in-laws and elders, to have children and children for the family, men can not find the class without money, and do not have to pay anything.
In the society where the elderly and men are the masters, since someone excuses men, it is natural for men to pity the new and abandon the old, and men who have no money and cannot fulfill their responsibilities are powerless, all of which are excusable small things, but where under the heavens are women who cannot give birth to boys? It's not over all the time! Where in the world is there a woman who can't do housework? Wouldn't it be better to practice day and night? Women who can't do it perfectly, all because you don't work hard! You can continue to fight!
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record", "Golden Bottle Plum"