In "Dream of the Red Chamber", there has always been a saying that Qing is a daiying, attacking as a vice, Qingwen and Daiyu do have a lot of similarities, in addition to quite similar appearances, they are simple, refreshing people, with a sincere heart and a noble character.
Despite this, there is not much intersection between Dai Yu and Qing Wen. Dai Yu often went to Yi Hong Courtyard, and Jia Bao Yu often went to Xiao Xiang Pavilion, since the master's relationship was close, it was reasonable to say that the relationship between Qingwen and Dai Yu should also be good. But they did not have too deep friendship, Dai Yu had also teased the attacker as a sister-in-law, but she had never joked with Qingwen. Although Qingwen had also sent two pieces of old pa to Daiyu according to Baoyu's instructions, Qingwen was confused and could not understand the communication between the two of them.
And Dai Yu has never shown liking or dislike for Qingwen, but Qingwen dares to turn her away, whether intentionally or unintentionally, it really hurts Dai Yu. After Qingwen's death, After hearing baoyu's recitation for Qingwen, Dai Yu was still in the mood to laugh and study one or two, and said, When my purple crane is dead, I will cry again.
Therefore, Qing is Dai Ying, but the two do not have much intersection, neither intimate nor understanding each other.
Dai Yu's doppelganger is not only Qingwen in "Dream of the Red Chamber", but Qingwen's reputation is the greatest, but if you talk about who has gone closest to Dai Yu, it is most like The shadow of Dai Yu, when xiangLing is counted.
Dai Yu and Xiang Ling should have been the least intersecting. Dai Yu is Miss Qianjin, Xiangling is Xue Pan's concubine, Xiangling can't have as much freedom as the ladies, even yahuan is not inferior, after all, as a concubine, the most important job is to do needlework, wait for the mother-in-law, serve the husband. Therefore, Xiangling can't have too much time to hang out. Otherwise, according to Aunt Xue's style of broken mouth, she would have to chant again.
Daiyu's main place of activity, in addition to her own Xiaoxiang Pavilion, is Baoyu's Yihong Courtyard, or to participate in group activities and play with the sisters. Dai Yu also often interacts with Xue Baochao, but on such occasions, she often does not bring Xiangling. So, how did Xiang Ling, who was married and not free, gradually get closer to Daiyu?
The intimacy between Xiangling and Daiyu is very natural, and there is nothing abrupt about it. Xiang Ling felt very kind to this young lady who lived in Jia Province, and there was no barrier at all. And Dai Yu is also full of kindness to this woman with a difficult fate. Between them, there is no high or low, but it is like a pair of good girlfriends.
When Dai Yu is near Li Xiang Yuan and indulges in Kunqu Opera, Xiang Ling can pat her on the back of Dai Yu, why does Xiang Ling do this? She was sure that Dai Yu would not be angry, and Xiang Ling also smiled and told Dai Yu that Zi Juan was looking for her, and Grandma Lian Er had sent tea leaves. On the one hand, he took Daiyu's hand and returned to Xiaoxiang Hall.
Xiang Ling's move was tantamount to coming uninvited, even Xue Baochao rarely took the initiative to climb the door of Xiao Xiang Hall. There is no such intimacy between Xiangling and Baochao. After all, Baochao is the most disciplined, and it cannot be messed up at all. But Xiang Ling could involuntarily do this in front of Dai Yu, and it must be Dai Yu who had released a friendly signal to her.
Dai Yu and Xiang Ling, together, also have endless words, what do they say? Talk about embroidery, play chess, say two sentences of books, this is the daily life of girlfriends! Dai Yu and Yingchun Exploring Chun Xi Chun and others did not have such a casual small gathering, which showed that Dai Yu and Xiang Ling were really in love. As long as you are in love, it does not depend on the length of time of acquaintance, nor will it be limited by identity or anything, you come and go, it is all affection.
In fact, from the reader's point of view, Dai Yu and Xiang Ling were originally similar girls. They are also from the Gusu clan, and they were also born in the Shuxiang family, and when they were young, they were deeply influenced by poetry and books, but they were equally short-lived. Dai Yu lost her parents, sent people under the fence, although she was dressed in gold and jade food, she was difficult to rest assured, sick and sentimental, but her temperament was still pursuing truth, almost infatuation. Xiang Ling was even more bitter, she was abducted at a young age, separated from her parents, and later sold to two families, Xue Pan caused her life. Ben was also the pearl in the palm of his parents, but Xiangling had a lot of fate, and even made a concubine for Xue Pan, who did not know how to pity Xiang Xiangyu at all.
They are happy to be close to each other, perhaps because there is a familiar atmosphere in each other? That breath comes from the water town, from the poetry books, and even more from the fate. Daiyu's allegorical flower is hibiscus, and Xiangling's allegorical flower is a lotus flower, and they are pushed to the unknown by the torrent of fate, unable to control. When they meet in Jia Province, they must have a feeling of being deceased. The fate of people is both subtle and seems to be predestined.
Although Dai Yu was said by some people in Jia Fu to be a small character and not easy to get along with, in front of Xiang Ling, she was like a gentle big sister, a silly girl, and her tone was so intimate that she even had some feelings of spoiling. Even if they don't see each other very often, they are never strangers. What Dai Yu doesn't know is that in addition to liking, Xiang Ling has actually always admired herself, and Xiang Ling longs to become a person like Dai Yu, learning to be rich in five cars.
Xue Baochao saw it, Xiangling especially liked to enter the Grand View Garden, but every time she was in a hurry, she always had no chance to take a good look. But Baochao may not understand the reason why Xiangling likes daguanyuan. It may not be how good the scenery of daguanyuan is, or how lively the people in daguanyuan are. Xiang Ling's wish could finally come true after Xue Pan was violently beaten out by Liu Xianglian.
Xue Baochao brought her into the Grand View Garden, which not only fulfilled Xiang Ling's heart, but also had an extra companion for himself. Xiang Ling was overjoyed and wanted Bao Chao to teach her to write poetry, but Bao Chao laughed at her and used words to break away. Also, Bao Chao himself is a female red, thinking that reading and doing poetry is not a serious thing, how can he support his brother's concubine? Isn't that a mess?
Xiang Ling was not discouraged, she quickly found Dai Yu, and she should also know that Dai Yu would not reject herself. Dai Yu saw Xiang Ling come in and liked it too. Xiangling told Dai Yu that she wanted to learn poetry, and Dai Yu was very supportive and asked Xiang Ling to worship herself as a teacher. These two people are not polite, but they are like a pair of intimate little sisters!
Dai Yu explained the main meaning to XiangLing again, and also took the poetry book to Xiang Ling, and also made a mark on it, so that Xiang Ling did not understand it and just asked. Although Dai Yu's body is not very good, he is very serious and responsible, and he is not sloppy.
This period of time when Xiangling learned poetry was the happiest time in her life, and for Daiyu, why not? Whenever Xiangling read poetry and had experience, she always came to Find Daiyu, and even when Daiyu had just finished grooming, Xiangling came. Xiang Ling slept late at night, and got up early in the morning, and ran to Xiaoxiang Hall with her head combed, and her enthusiasm for poetry books was indescribable, and for Daiyu, she had never seen it. Otherwise, how could she bother early in the morning?
Xiang Ling's obsession surprised the other sisters, and everyone paid attention to this stupid girl who was crazy about writing poetry in order to read poetry. Bao Chao laughed at her, "But the real poetry is magical! It's all about him! "Where does Baochao, who is too restrained, understand the fun in this?"
During this time, Xiangling is like Daiyu's little tail, she will always come with questions or experience to consult Daiyu and communicate with Daiyu. And Dai Yu is also tireless, doing her best to teach Xiang Ling. It is precisely because of Xiangling's hard work and Daiyu's tireless efforts that Xiangling's talent and learning are getting better and better, reading poem after poem, writing poem after poem, not succeeding today, coming again tomorrow, day and night, painstakingly paying, and finally getting results.
If there is no Daiyu, even if Xiangling has this heart, there is no environment and conditions for learning poetry, Xue Baochao can send her away in two or three sentences, and she will not give up the near and far, and harass Daiyu all the time. But for Daiyu, she originally loved to write poetry, and when there was a person who had the same great enthusiasm for poetry as herself, and came to ask for advice with joy, how could Daiyu not be happy, how could she not pour out her heart?
It is precisely because Xiangling learns poetry that Dai Yu and Xiangling are getting closer and closer. These two young girls with the same fate trajectory finally had a stable and comfortable time under the sky of the Grand View Garden. Xiang Ling chased after Dai Yu, as if something was guiding her. The atmosphere of books in xiaoxiang hall, the gentle and melancholy temperament of Daiyu, for Xiangling, it seems to be familiar, maybe it is a past life, maybe it is a distant childhood memory?
For Daiyu, the days of sending people under the fence, although the gold and jade are precious, but in fact, her heart is lonely, there are not many real friends, although Sanchun is related to her, but the relationship is light, the friendship is shallow, although Baochao shouts "Er" kindly, but between the two, it is a complex and delicate relationship, baochao's heart is deep, and can not make the sensitive Daiyu really let down her guard and hold out her heart.
Dai Yu and Xiang Ling, their real contact opportunities and time are not much, if it were not for Xue Pan going out on a long trip, perhaps they would never be able to get so close and talk freely. The friendship between Dai Yu and Xiang Ling is a mutual attraction of a natural magnetic field, which does not require any fancy embellishments, and is not deliberate. When they see each other, they have a kind feeling, hey, you're here too!
Xiangling was once Daiyu's little tail, and it was also like another shadow of Daiyu. What is lamentable is that they ended up with the same thin life, Xiangling was abused and died, and Dai Yu died in tears. In this deep gate compound, they also experienced the unbearable weight of life and felt the coldness and ruthlessness of the world. But fortunately, they have brought each other a lot of joy, that period of time with each other, bright, love, years of stability, permeated with charming fragrance, but also somewhat comforting.
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.