I remember once talking to a friend about sending off.
He mentioned that when he was a child, every morning when he went to school, his mother would always stand on the balcony and watch him leave through the glass. At first, he did not notice, but then one time he forgot to bring something, turned his head hurriedly, and saw his mother on the balcony, looking at him from a distance.
Later, his mother passed away, and every time he went back to see his father, he would stand downstairs for a while, look at his balcony, and silently say goodbye to his mother.
He said: Since my mother left, I feel that I have always been the child standing downstairs, I have never grown up, and I want to see my mother again and go back to hug her.
Perhaps, in this life, it is really a little difficult for people to live happily.
Inadvertently, you will encounter some departures, and inadvertently, the person who was once the most familiar with you will become a person who will never be separated and never seen again.
However, life is like this, you can't go back in time, you can't go back to the past, you can only accept helplessly, silently miss, faintly forget.
Some regrets are something that we can't make up for in our lives, only by living well, living hard, cherishing every encounter, and having it well, can we make our future less worried and less missed.
There is a movie "Time Traveler", when the male protagonist is twenty-one years old, his father tells him that their family has a special function and can travel to the past at any time.
So he began to try suspiciously, the first time, he crossed back, tried to change the relationship with the crush, but found that no matter what he did, the other party would not fall in love with him; then, he crossed several times, met a girl, and became her boyfriend; and then, he went back several times, saved a failed drama, so that his sister's life could be better, let people have fewer regrets...
In short, every crossing, it seems, can bring some changes in the relationship with relatives and friends.
Until one day, his father died, but if he traveled back, he would change everything in the present.
At this time, he finally understood the truth that his father had taught him: all separations are for better reunion, and if there is no reunion day, there will be no regrets.
Yeah, maybe this movie is a vision of our life, because there are regrets, so we are eager to start over, erase regrets, and let people live again.
Unfortunately, life is too cruel, and there are no ifs in life.
In the long river of time, everyone is eager to keep themselves from going through too much parting, because after turning around, it is likely that there will never be a day of reunion.
Therefore, when we are alive and can repay the favor, we must not wait until later, and if we can change, we must not wait until we lose.
At the intersection of life, you often inadvertently miss the past. Only after you have done your best to give it will you truly be relieved.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Dai Yu passed away, and Bao Yu married Bao Chao under the arrangement of his family, but soon after, Jia Fu was tragically raided. He was kept in a large prison with only a glass lamp.
It was once a rainy night, he went to visit the sick Daiyu, she gave him a lamp, she let him hold it casually, in case the road slipped on a rainy day.
And love, perhaps, was silently produced in that rainy night.
Yeah, what it's like to miss it to the extreme, maybe it's like that, you're gone, but what you send me, I must hold tightly, as if you're right next to me.
Unfortunately, later, the lamp was broken by the official messenger, and Bao Yu also had no worries from then on, and followed the monk to the end of the world.
It is as if all separation is an ulterior motive, as if all encounters are just one encounter.
The road of acacia, the most bitter is the person who loves to miss. The long road of life, less hand in hand, the boundless night, a person silently missed.
It is said that only love can make life more complete, but only the love that misses existence will make the good become the past.
When you have experienced many partings, you will know how beautiful it is to meet, and when you have gone through half a life, you will understand that there are too many things to look back on.
Every time, back to the small town of my hometown, when I see some familiar people, there will always be some sighs, people who were once prosperous, at the moment, there are many more two sideburns and pale, and some distant relatives who have simple memories of childhood have passed away.
Yeah, man, after saying goodbye, who would think it's likely to be "never seen again."
"Things are people and not everything", beautiful as flowers, will always wither.
Time is like a naughty child, from time to time, you have experienced, one by one, one by one, and then arrange and combine, into a faceless look.
When you sigh, "If you know it, cherish it well", those beautiful scenery are already far away from you. All that remains is the passage of time, the sadness and sorrow of you alone.
Life, that's it, when you go out in the morning, you are full of spring light, and when you come home at night, you are only tired.
We can never guess, tomorrow and accidents, which one will come first, we only have to long for time and time again, may the days be dull, do not seek great wealth and nobility, only seek peace and security.
There are always many things in the road of life, which are unexpected, and it seems that they are doomed in the dark. It's just that you think that it is "the spring breeze is proud of the horseshoe disease, and you can see all the Chang'an flowers in one night", but it is likely that it is "you think but can't get it, what do you live in your life"?
So, if everything is out of control, learn to accept it.
After all, everyone wants to live to understand, but it is too difficult to live to understand.
Every deep love that "misses to the extreme" is only because of regret and is not enough, so it will be deeply loved, willing to sink, and not want to forget.
So, if you have someone you want to meet, cross the mountains and seas and go to him! If you have something you can't let go of, then don't be scrupulous and try to achieve it!
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!