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01. Preface
What kind of emotions there are between the opposite sex can often be reflected in the title.
Women are very subtle in expressing their feelings and often don't say "I like you" bluntly. However, if a woman, especially of similar age, often calls you "brother", then the feelings she wants to express are not ordinary.
From what a woman calls you, you can see what kind of feelings she has for you.
Xin Yiwu wrote: The most beautiful thing in love is that "you" and "I" are the most called "we".
If a woman treats a man as a very important person, she will be called "brother".
It is possible that they are not related by blood, but they treat each other as relatives. I don't want to have any boundaries with each other, and I hope that the two people can always be so close.
The greater chance that a woman often treats a person, called "brother", is actually a hint of a relationship.
Women often call you "brother", and you have to know the signal behind the hint.
02, hide the sincerity, ashamed to express love
Women call you "brother", probably with affection.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Lin Daiyu once joked with Shi Xiangyun, saying that she could not distinguish between the two brothers and changed her name to Baoyu's second brother, but she was called Brother Ai.
It provoked Shi Xiangyun to be shy for a while, and finally fought back, bluntly mentioning that "another day let you find a brother-in-law Lin with a big tongue, and let you distinguish between two or love all day."
In fact, thinking on the other hand, Shi Xiangyun said such a thing, in fact, exposing her heart.
If she hadn't "moved" Baoyu, she wouldn't have been so angry. Her shouting to Baoyu's brother and brother is not only intimate, but also a kind of ignorant love.
Women, expressing love, are always very subtle.
Sometimes, women often call men "brother", which is actually a hint that she wants to get closer to him. Hopefully, the man will understand her intentions.
The title of "brother" is actually a manifestation used by a woman to break the distance between her and the man she likes.
When women often call men "brother", perhaps because they are ashamed to express their love and hide their sincerity to him, they will be called "brother" and enter his world.
03, walk together, as a brother
Women often refer to a man as "brother", probably wanting to see the man as a brother, as a relative.
In "Langya List", many people call Lin Shu a young marshal, and many people say that he is a traitor. There was only one person who had always called him Brother Lin Shu, and this person was the Lord of the Phoenix County.
When she recognized Mei Changsu as Lin Shu, this female general who galloped on the battlefield cried like a child and said in her mouth: "You are my brother Lin Shu."
Even though everyone else thought Lin Shu was dead, only Nie Phoenix believed that her Lin Shu brother had always been there.
Women call a man "brother" because from the heart, they have always trusted, worshipped, loved, he is the closest person in the world.
In the world of women, he is regarded as a brother, even if he is not related by blood, in his heart, he is already regarded as a relative.
Because, in my heart, I admire him and respect him, so I hope that on the road of life, we can walk together with each other.
Women often call a man "brother" because they already think of him as "brother".
04, eager to get your care
A woman, who always calls a man "brother", is actually spoiling, eager to be protected and pampered.
Women call the opposite sex "brother" and the expectations of this man are different.
Friends can not make new friends, but shouting "brother" is to treat each other as relatives, or as "lovers", the rest of his life does not want him to leave.
When a woman is called "brother", in fact, a sense of weakness is transmitted by the woman.
Women frequently call a man "brother" in the hope that he can protect her like a hero and protect her well.
The reason why women often call a man "brother" is more from the heart, has a dependence on him, has a sense of trust.
Men and women call you that because you give her more than just friendship, it's a more special emotion. Perhaps, this feeling is a kind of affection, maybe a kind of love.
05. Summary
Men, when a woman often calls you "brother", please carefully examine each other's feelings to be able to judge her feelings for you.
Discern whether it is love or affection.
If it is affection, it is often more generous; if it is love, it is often more subtle and more shy.
Just as Zhang Ailing said: "When I saw him, she became very low and very low, low to the dust." But her heart was joyful, and flowers blossomed from the dust. ”
When a woman meets a loved one, she will more or less put herself in a relatively low position. Dare not express the true thoughts of the heart, but also want to let the other party know the thickness of this affection, will use the title of "brother" to express.
Whether it is "affection" or love, ask men to respond positively. Don't let women have a real heart and slowly get cold.
On the road of life, it is a blessing that someone treats each other sincerely.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.