One-third of human life is spent in sleep. Therefore, sleep is an important part of a person's life.
What would Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao look like when they slept? What's the difference? What kind of information is revealed behind the difference?
All the answers can be seen in the performance of the two before, during and after bedtime.
1. Performance before going to bed, Lin Daiyu is a lady who reads, and Xue Baochao is a woman who does needlework.
In feudal society, there are not many recreational activities, especially before going to bed, if it is not a major festival or a special day, everyone is living an ordinary life unchanged.
Lin Daiyu's main activity before going to bed is reading and writing poetry.
On a long summer night, Lin Daiyu visited Jia Baoyu, who had been beaten, and went back to the house to sleep, and Qingwen sent two pieces of old pa. After Lin Daiyu figured out Jia Baoyu's love, she lit a lamp and wrote three love poems, "Title Pa Three Absolutes", which became the favorite of modern young talented women.
On the night of autumn rain, before Lin Daiyu went to bed, she casually took a book, read the "Miscellaneous Manuscripts of Lefu", had words such as "Autumn Grievances" and "Don't Leave the Grievances", and felt something in her heart, and according to the rules of "Spring River Flower Moon Night", she wrote the famous article "Autumn Window Wind and Rainy Night".
In October, Xiangling moved into the Grand View Garden, and Xue Baochao was unwilling to teach her to write poetry, so he worshiped under Lin Daiyu's "door", Lin Daiyu carefully taught, and sent the books she sketched to Xiangling to study, profoundly revealing her daily life of reading and writing poetry at night.
Xue Baochao's main activities before going to bed are very different from Lin Daiyu's, and her main activity before going to bed is to do needlework.
Xue Baochao's activities before going to bed are often needlework.
Xue Baochao is dignified in words and deeds, respectful and re-taught, she believes that women without talent is moral, and it is more important to do needlework than to read and write poetry, so she generally has to do needlework before going to bed.
When summer came, Xue Baochao saw that the weather was cool and the night was getting longer, so he went to his mother's room to discuss some needles and threads. During the day to Jia Mu's wife Wang's province twice, it is inevitable to sit with the color and gossip for half a time, and the sisters in the garden also have to spend time gossiping once, so there is not much idleness during the day, and every night it is set that the female workers will go to the three more squares to sleep.
Life needs fireworks information, and girls also need to be grounded, but for young girls, a girl who reads and writes poetry is always more cute and easier to accept than a girl who does needlework, so from the daily activities before the two go to bed, Lin Daiyu is more cute.
2. The performance in sleep, Lin Daiyu is a flower girl who makes people pity, and Xue Baochao is a mature woman who makes people impressed.
Sleep as an important way to recuperate, during sleep is generally relaxed. Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao's way was different.
Lin Daiyu was very uneasy when she slept.
Shi Xiangyun went to rongguo mansion and stayed with Lin Daiyu at night. Jia Baoyu left the two people's room very late that night, and the next morning without freshening up, he went to the two people's room, in his eyes, Lin Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun were sleeping like this:
Lin Daiyu was tightly wrapped in an apricot red quilt and slept peacefully. For Lin Daiyu's sleeping state, Li Yanzhai has a comment: writing Daiyu's sleeping state is like a delicate woman, pitiful.
Lin Daiyu's sleep was indeed pitiful. She once told Shi Xiangyun that in a year, she could only sleep peacefully for about ten nights.
Xue Baochao loves to ponder when he sleeps.
When Jia Mu led Grandma Liu and others to visit Xue Baochao's room, she saw that her bed only had a green yarn curtain hanging from it, and the bedding was also very simple. Sleeping in such a bed is generally like water, but in fact, this is not the case, she helped Shi Xiangyun design a crab feast when she slept, fully demonstrating her maturity.
Considering that Shi Xiangyun had no money and wanted to hold a banquet, she took the initiative to provide her with crabs; considering that yaxing was needed to compose poetry, she discussed the topic with her. Her approach not only takes into account the material needs of most ordinary people, but also takes into account the cultural needs of a small number of elites, and helps Shi Xiangyun solve practical difficulties, which is not only respected by Shi Xiangyun, but also affirmed by Jia Mu.
Lin Daiyu's girlish attitude makes people pity and love, Xue Baochao's maturity makes people feel impressive, Lin Daiyu's frankness can certainly attract people, but Xue Baochao's maturity makes her more charming.
3. After sleeping, Lin Daiyu loves to sleep lazily, and Xue Baochao loves to act.
Modern society is rich in nightlife, young girls go to bed late and get up late, generally like to sleep late, and the same is true of Lin Daiyu.
On the day of the Mangsang Festival, the sisters in the Grand View Garden, in accordance with the rules of the boudoir, got up early to set up various gifts to worship the god of flowers, Baochao, Yingchun, Tanchun, Xichun, Li Feng, Fengjie, etc. And Sister Qiao, the eldest sister, Xiangling and the ladies played in the garden, and Lin Daiyu was not seen alone. Ying Chunyin said, "Why didn't Sister Lin disappear?" What a slacker! Will this child still sleep? ”
Jia Yingchun was right, Lin Daiyu did get up late in the morning because she lost sleep at night.
Although Xue Baochao slept late at night, he got up earlier in the morning.
Shi Xiangyun rested in Lin Daiyu's room, and Bao Yu went to call the two people to get up early in the morning without freshening up. During this period, Xue Baochao finished grooming and went to the Yihong Courtyard to talk to the attackers and understand her situation and intentions.
Ancient women need to dress up when they go out, Xue Baochao has already sorted out her makeup and gone out when Lin Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun have not yet gotten up, so it can be seen that she is a person who gets up early; she gets up early to visit Jia Baoyu's room, the purpose is to marry Baoyu, this move shows that she is a person with a clear goal and strong execution.
4. Conclusion: Compared with the two, Lin Daiyu is more cute than Xue Baochao. However, if it is to choose a wife candidate, Xue Baochao is more suitable than Lin Daiyu.
Cuteness is the true color of women, every girl is cute, this is the appearance of a girl in everyone's heart.
Lin Daiyu is cute, not only from her physique, her habits, her quality, but also from the "human design" in most people's hearts - a young girl should have let people pity and love, not eat human fireworks, giving people a beautiful yearning. Compared with her, Xue Baochao is too pragmatic, too dignified, and too much life breath, which makes her more mature and less cute.
However, if you choose a wife candidate, Xue Baochao is more suitable than Lin Daiyu.
The wife is different from the girl, as long as the girl is cute, she can be sought after, and the wife must fall into the dust to make people feel solid.
First, in the choice of chai rice, oil and salt and human affection, Xue Baochao's approach conforms to the ideological consciousness of the male protagonist and the female protagonist, and conforms to the traditional practice of the virtuous wife.
Second, in the minds of men, the wife, as a person in the same boat in life, has greater affection than love, and in long-term relationships, cuteness is dispensable and maturity is indispensable.
Third, in the real world, cute women are easily sought after, and the pursuit of frankness and cuteness will lead life astray; mature women are different, sought after but will not be tempted, and knowledge and action will be more respected and reduce unnecessary life troubles.
Fourth, for a woman, life needs to grow continuously, girls are just the appearance of youth, and maturity is the eternal taste.
Therefore, if you choose a wife, Xue Baochao is the first choice.
Writing is not easy, sharing is easy, your attention, collection, like, forwarding, in a moment can give me the motivation to write for a lifetime! (Author: Xiao Han Reads.) A person with temperature, with a pen with warmth, accompanies you every day to appreciate a new story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", and accompanies you to feel the beauty of literature together. ）