In fact, to know whether he wants to talk to you or not, the key is to rely on your own experience. Do you feel that he cares, and whether there is a problem with the way you chat, whether he is proactive in finding you a lot of times and will have nothing to say, and so on. In any case, if you like him, it is nothing to take the initiative appropriately, and everything still depends on yourself to cherish and grasp. If you are willing to take the initiative and the other party has not changed your attitude towards you, then don't put your hopes on him.
If he will still be proactive in facing you, it can be said that he wants to fall in love with you, maybe it is really because something has delayed the things you have agreed to learn to understand. If you can't accept this situation and there is still a possibility of it happening, you can communicate with him to run in. If he is not willing to face it together, he can only say that you are not suitable and there is no need to force it together.
It doesn't matter what kind of feelings, what matters is that you can understand that he still cares about you, and it is enough that you still love each other. Know that from the beginning of love, once you enter his life, you are already destined to become an indispensable part of each other's lives. If you can't feel the taste of love, it means that you have just entered a dull period, communicate more and find a suitable way to get along and continue to go. Or cultivate some new hobbies together to enhance the relationship, so that it will not feel so boring. From time to time, a little freshness changes the way you fall in love, and you may be able to find a new feeling.
Love can not make you lose yourself, and if you want to let go, you must first learn to let go of yourself. If she thought that she didn't have to deliberately suppress it, it wouldn't be so painful. A lot of times it's enough to go with the flow and do what you're supposed to do. Time will slowly make you dilute your thoughts about her, but you have to accept this fact and don't run away. Whenever I think of her, I will find something for myself to do to distract my attention, as long as I control it well and do not lose myself in it, I can slowly walk out. And you must also clearly realize that you have never been together, there is no need to be too persistent, and it is what you should do to use this mind on people who are really worthy of your attention, or on relatives who love you.