Text/Moran
A long-term love should stand the test of time and all kinds of trivial temptations.
Those who can get to the end of the love, often they hold on to the original thing.
Maybe for some people, it is because of love at first, but slowly because of the loss of reality, they will pay more attention to other things and ignore the most important points at the beginning. Love needs to be managed, not just love.
Long-term love must be able to keep the original intention, always be able to maintain the original idea, will not be affected by other external environments.
Therefore, the essence of long-term love is actually to keep the original intention and be consistent.
Don't forget the original determination to be together
The reason why two people are together, then they must be prepared, they want to go on for a long time, they will choose to accompany each other, because love will be together.
If this love will shift with time, slowly make you lose, and even lose your original self, such love will lose its original meaning. Love that has lost its original intention is to torture each other together.
Always understand that you first like someone because of a certain trait in this person, and don't ignore the other person's traits or even dislike the other person because you have been together for a long time.
You know, no one is perfect, there are no two people who are born to fit, only two people who know how to tolerate and run into each other.
Many people like each other at first because of a point in each other's body, and then dislike her because of this point of the other party, which is to lose their original intention, love and love to lose each other.
If you say that in a relationship, you always have requirements for others, but forget your true appearance, this will cause contradictions, and even make you lost.
When you want to change each other, there is already a problem between you.
Keep up the loneliness and enjoy the ordinary life
Two people started together, probably because of passion and freshness, when the other person was the best at everything.
Because of your love, let the other person become the best look. But familiar with each other, time passes, and slowly each other returns to flatness.
No matter how good the feelings, it is impossible to keep fresh all the time, at this time, you need to keep each other flat, and you can find each other's good on a dull day.
No matter how much you love someone, love will become flat over time.
Love will slowly disappear with the length of time, but this does not mean that there is no love. At this time, what is most needed is each other's patience and sincerity, and the two people support each other together and survive the dull period.
In fact, many times, you find that as long as you are familiar with each other, your feelings will change, and you may sometimes change from lovers to relatives.
If you can't keep each other's loneliness and gap, then it is easy to get bored and want to give up.
But the same is true for another person, because no matter how much passion in a long life will fade, the most important thing is for us to find problems and solve problems, rather than giving up when we encounter problems.
Truly long-lasting love must stand the test of time, so that such feelings will last.
summary:
The most important advantage of people is that they know how to restrain and be able to control their emotions. If you blindly develop according to your emotions, you are likely to lose yourself.
If you want long-term love, you must remain rational, use love to overcome instinct, and treat each other with heart.
In this world, there has never been a natural fit for two people, no matter how good the feelings will always have contradictions, we must know how to protect love, keep the original intention of each other, so that we will never leave.
If you say that when you encounter a problem, you run away and give up, this is not love, the essence of love is to keep each other.