There is a lyric in "Walking and Walking and Scattering": "Some people walk and walk and disperse, and some things are talked about when they look at it." ”
Oh, yes! We will meet many people in this life, but some people will walk and disperse. Can't help but feel that the feelings of adults are really fragile. When you are separated, you will never have the opportunity to start again.
However, the people who had originally said that they would stay together for a lifetime ended up walking away halfway through?
Slowly as we grow up and experience more and more things, we begin to understand that life is like this, it is difficult to help ourselves when the love is thick, and it is the trick to love the strange road.
As someone once said: "There are many things in life that are silent, there is no long pavilion ancient road, no peach blossom waterhole, and there is no persuasion to drink a glass of wine." Some are just on a normal morning. Some people, forever, stayed yesterday. ”
This is the norm of life, because there is no unbroken feast in the world. Dispersal is the norm in the world. It's like some people say they're going to stay together for the rest of their lives, and they're going to be scattered.
Once read such a story, Xiao Bai and XiaoHong can be said to be green plum bamboo horses, three years together in high school, and also together in college. In college, the two men were in a relationship. Their love is also approved by both parents.
It may be that in everyone's perception, they can naturally be together forever. But what everyone did not expect was that with the arrival of graduation, they walked out of the school gate and entered the work. They chose different cities, and they thought that love could overcome distance.
But they underestimated the time after all, and they would be in constant contact at the beginning. It's just that as their respective work becomes busier and busier, their contact is getting less and less, and the feelings that they originally thought they wouldn't talk about have slowly faded. They began to dislike each other, accusing each other of not paying for themselves, and the quarrel between the two people became more and more.
Until one day Xiao Bai proposed to break up, and Xiao Hong also answered, so many years of feelings ended.
Indeed, there are many times in our lives where we lose in "I thought." I thought the relationship would stand the test of time, but reality often doesn't think it way we do. The world is the way it is, nothing is set in stone.
Because time is changing, so are people. Love doesn't always exist, it goes away. As Haruki Murakami wrote in Norwegian Forest:
"Everyone has their own piece of victory, maybe we've never walked through it, but it's always been there, always there. The lost are lost, and the people who meet will meet again. ”
Yes, life is like this, there are encounters, there are separations. It was as if I had met a friend I hadn't seen for many years some time ago, and I greeted him warmly, and he only said a few words of greeting and left.
In fact, this is all very normal, because nothing is set in stone. I believe that we have all encountered such a situation, and some people's departures always unconsciously break off contact. There wasn't even a big temptation, it was just that you replied to his last message, and he never replied to you again.
Like a line in "Chongqing Forest": "I don't know when it started, everything has a log on it, saury will expire, meat sauce will expire, even the plastic wrap will expire, I began to wonder what else in this world will not expire." 」 ”
And the truth is that the relationship between adults has a shelf life. It's just that some people have a long shelf life, and some people have a short shelf life.
It was as if something seemed indestructible. But it is also vulnerable in the face of time. It is precisely because of this that we understand the preciousness of possession. Only then did I know how to cherish.
Just as the so-called moon has clouds and sunshine, people have sorrows and joys. Life is like this, but remember that everyone who has come to our life will leave a mark on our lives.
So, remember what to remember, forget what to forget, and accept what is unacceptable. After all, this is the need of life, and I hope that all of us can meet the person who can always be together, say goodnight as soon as possible, and finally go to the Twilight Sun together.
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