High-quality marriage is far better than high-quality singles, and women who have been single for a long time can simply be said to be unenterprising in the love field, not the so-called striving for the upstream.
First, long-term single is to go to the extreme of singleness, so it will be counterproductive, at least the longer the single time, whether it is appearance or stature will deteriorate, even if the charm still exists, but also relatively want to be like a flower jade age, feel much worse than before.
Moreover, the ability to reproduce will still be reduced synchronously until it completely disappears, so women should not be willful in the love field, nor should they be obstinate, such as planting land, it is best not to miss the farm time, if you miss the farm time, the light will reduce the yield, and the heavy will have no harvest. If you talk about marriage as soon as possible, the range of choices is wider, and the room for choice is greater. If not, it will fall into a situation of high and low, after all, there is a saying that the high place is not cold, the longer the waiting time in the love field, the more unwilling it will be, the less willing it will be, the more it will indefinitely prolong the time spent waiting in the love field, and thus it will fall into a vicious circle. Unless you can understand the current affairs on the basis of self-knowledge, it is very likely that you will transition from the charm to the old and the yellow, from the men in their twenties who are ready to fall in love or prepare for a blind date, to the situation of the door.
Second, women who have been single for a long time need to think about their parents even if they don't think about themselves. The poor hearts of the parents in the world will still be reflected in solving the problem of children talking about marriage, and if the problem is not solved in time, the remaining problems will become difficult problems.
Parents hope that their grown daughters can find a sympathetic partner, and talk about marriage when they should talk about marriage, neither delaying marriage nor delaying marriage. If the daughter's marriage event has not been eyebrows for a long time, she will be anxious in private, and she will worry about or get angry behind her daughter's back. In addition, since ancient times, there have been three filial pieties, no queen is often big, and having children after marriage is both a descendant and a continuation of the parents' lives, but also the wishes of the parents, at least it will make the parents feel pleased.
Third, long-term singleness from a short-term point of view will lead to yin and yang imbalance, after all, talent and yin and yang, the earth is also divided into yin and yang, yin and yang balance can achieve complementarity. Therefore, it is best for women to maintain the balance of yin and yang in marriage, and not to make a mistake in looking for a less couple, resulting in a step mistake without an old partner decades later.
When you are young, even if you feel that you are free to be single, sooner or later you will pay the price, single freedom is an illusion, and women must avoid losing themselves. Long-term singleness means that although there is a long drought, but it is not a long time, the soil of the soul is bound to dry up. With the older you get, the more you feel powerless, especially when you are old, there are many words that are difficult to open, there are many things that cannot be done, and the cost of long-term singleness will be late at best, basically not absent.
Conclusion: Women should not be negative in the love field, nor slack, and strive to be methodical and heavy and heavy.
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