What should women do to achieve emotional freedom?

Many girls cannot achieve emotional freedom in their lifetime, because many of the ideas they receive from childhood are wrong.

The wrong concept makes them deeply trapped in the whirlpool of the love field, unable to be the master of emotion, and are slaves to emotions all their lives.

1. You must read well, do not fall in love, you read well, there will be good men in the future, this is the education that many girls have received from childhood.

It's as if if if you read well, a good man will fall from the sky, and reading well has no necessary relationship with you to find a good man.

Many girls are really very good, from a young age to study hard, into the prestigious universities, master's and doctoral, out of society, but found that can not find a suitable object.

It is not because they are older, but because their love field experience is almost zero, and their understanding of gender relations is wrong.

They mistakenly treat the workplace as a love field, famous universities, masters and doctorates, can indeed make you add a lot of points in the workplace, but not necessarily in the love field.

If you lack experience in the love field, no matter how high your education is, you are easy to meet scumbags, and you are very easy to fail in the love field.

Just like the Peking University Baoli incident, the girl just lacks experience in the love field and is killed by the scumbag, but where she has several years of experience in the love field, she has long recognized the scumbag's routine.

Peking University BaoLi's love field experience points are far from that taizhou female sea king, although the girl is only a secondary school graduate.

If you want to achieve emotional freedom, you should go along with nature, talk about love if you want to fall in love, and start talking when you want to talk.

Instead of using reading as a cover, some girls, reading is not good, love is not good, grow up and do not understand anything.

Although reading is very important, it is also very important to interact with people, especially with the opposite sex, and reading books and falling in love are not contradictory.

In the future, my daughter, I should encourage her to fall in love, I don't want her to suppress her nature, grow up to become a love idiot.

Many girls will not fall in love since childhood, and they are still a love field white in their 30s, which is the slave of emotion.

Under the test-taking education system, a large number of emotional slaves are produced, who only learn and do not fall in love.

Many students are really very good, but in the love scene, they are simply silly and sweet, they can't chat, they can't flirt, and they miss a lot of high-quality objects.

In fact, any girl, in my hands can achieve the counterattack of the love field, the key is to completely change the wrong concept of marriage and love, truly liberate themselves, and resolutely not be a slave to emotions.

2. Always pursue the love in fantasy, this kind of woman is the slave of love, is the slave of fantasy, they basically have no experience in the field of love, their concept of love comes from novels, from idol dramas.

Women like this are most easily deceived by scumbags, and they are also the focus of the pig killing plate, they are always slaves to emotions, and they have not achieved true emotional freedom.

In order to achieve true emotional freedom, we must completely abandon the love in the fantasy, based on reality, and realistic love is true love.

Some girls live in their own fantasies, can't get out of it for a lifetime, and become emotional slaves for a lifetime, which is really very sad.

3. Women should be independent and self-reliant, resolutely do not rely on men, and women who have this idea are essentially slaves to emotions.

Because they don't have a man to rely on, they have nothing in the love scene, nothing to exchange for a man's dependence.

They may have achieved a little in other areas, but they are a complete loser in the love field.

True emotional freedom is that I want to rely on myself, and I want to rely on men, not when I want to rely on men, and no man can find it.

Many students who have achieved emotional freedom, they are really very powerful, before they did not understand ah, everything on their own, living a bitter and tired life.

Now it's different, there are things to find men, is to trouble men, men are very willing to help them, there is a trainee with the help of the big guy, completed a hundred million yuan of business.

This is the highest realm of being a woman, the world's men are used for you, you don't need a person to struggle alone, let yourself live a bitter and tired life, why is this bitter?

Women come into this world to enjoy happiness, and if you are bitter and tired, it must be a problem with your cognition.

There was a student who read my article and cried bitterly all night, she used to rely on herself, resolutely not relying on men, and living a bitter and tired life.

She invested millions of yuan to run a school, because of excessive pressure and overwork, she was admitted to the hospital several times and almost sacrificed her life.

I told her, why are you so bitter? Other women are here to be blessed, and you are here to suffer.

4. Women must marry, must get married, must get a marriage license, and a woman with this idea is actually a slave to the marriage system.

No one stipulates that a woman must marry, a woman must marry, even if it is your parents, there is no right to ask you to do so.

Many women, under the persecution of their parents and under the pressure of society, blindly walk into marriage, find a man they don't like, blindly live a lifetime, and become emotional slaves for a lifetime.

To achieve true emotional freedom, it must be understood that getting married and getting a marriage license is only a choice, not something that must be done.

You can choose to be single, you can choose to get married, you can choose to be together without a license, this is your freedom, this is the real emotional freedom of people, the cognition and attitude that should have.

5. When a woman is divorced, a woman has no market and value, and a woman who has this idea is still a slave to emotions, or has not realized emotional freedom.

True emotional freedom, never care about other people's eyes and opinions, will not feel that they have no market and value because they are divorced.

True emotionally free people don't take the marriage system seriously at all, they feel that divorce is normal, and if there is marriage, there is divorce.

6. Meet a man you like very much, bound by morality, dare not pursue, dare not to provoke, afraid of being condemned, this kind of woman is a slave to morality, essentially a slave to emotions.

Some moral concepts have no reason at all, they are used to bind people, and they cannot make you emotionally free.

When you really break free from the shackles of emotional morality, you will become very powerful, you will completely evolve in the love field, and you will see through a lot of emotional truths.

A woman who spends half a second to see through the essence of emotion, and a woman who spends her whole life unable to see the essence of emotion, is doomed to a completely different fate.

If you, as a woman, are miserable and tired, irritable, anxious, insomnia, restless all day, then you must be bound by something invisible that prevents you from achieving emotional freedom.

The woman who realizes emotional freedom must be the happiest, must be the happiest, and the highest realm of being a woman is to achieve emotional freedom.