Many men have entered a misunderstanding, they all think that the current girls are not easy to chase, think that the current girls are very cold, you just need to master some chat skills, pay attention to language expression, it is not as complicated as you think.
Pay more attention to the method, the girl can fall in love with you, and look down at you will definitely learn.
There is a male colleague in our factory who likes a girl very much, working in the same position, looking up and not looking down, this girl also has a good feeling for this man, just look at the man's expression and pursuit.
This man has two drawbacks of not chasing the girl.
1.
There is no experience in love, it is very nervous to see a beautiful woman, I know that I love this girl in my heart, but I don't know how to express love, and I pretend to be indifferent on the surface.
2.
Always keep silent, have always maintained a colleague relationship, do not know how to develop a relationship with a lover, be an honest person in front of women, colleagues have helped them to draw a red line, but he just does not know how to heat up the topic, does not understand the relationship closer, the woman who is about to be chased, and finally makes two people very embarrassed.
Originally, the girl had a good feeling for him and gave him so many opportunities before the boys had to pursue. After the dilution of time, the girl's heart was disappointed.
Here's a passage of how men and women chat to see how many people are like this.
The girl said, I have a cold
The boy said, go to the pharmacy to buy some medicine, do not affect the work.
The girl tried again, the weather became colder, and I felt so cold.
The boy said again, are you out of clothes? Wear more clothes and buy them on the street if you don't have them.
This is the topic of the girl testing you, she wants to further develop the relationship, but you don't know how to cherish.
Such an answer is equivalent to telling the girl that we are just ordinary friends. This time did not seize the opportunity, in the eyes of the girl you are an idiot, she will never give you a chance again, and your relationship can only maintain a colleague relationship in the future. This type of man is single life.
The girl said to the boy, I have a cold. Why she told you this topic, she is to create an opportunity for you to heat up, let you further deepen your impression, but you will use your colleague to answer her. Let her heart feel cold and whizzing, and the girl will not like you anymore, because she knows that you have not taken her to heart.
Men with high emotional intelligence will certainly not answer like this, and the question raised by the girl is already very clear, she just wants you to bring the relationship between each other closer.
A guy with a high emotional intelligence will lead the relationship closer to each other, and he will answer your questions as if you were a relative.
The second question for girls, this is already the second time to give you a chance, you can do this, take off your suit, put it on for the girl, thoughtfully say, put it on, I am worried about you, don't catch a cold for me, the woman must be very warm when she listens.
Suddenly from the concern of friends to the relationship between lovers, even if it is rejected, it also increases the feelings between friends.
If the girl says, who wants your concern, the man with low emotional intelligence must think that the girl is angry, she is not angry, as long as she is not a superficial ruthless refusal, then you must attack again, this time it is the girl who tempts you again. As long as we have enough sincerity, girls are emotional animals, as long as they persist, girls will be moved.
The girl coldly replied to you, who wants your concern.
Men with high emotional intelligence will answer women in a warm tone on the side, I am very responsible to care about you for a lifetime.
The girl will definitely be embarrassed to hear it.
Impatient can not eat hot tofu, love can not be too urgent, your expression she has been clear, do not give the woman too much pressure, otherwise she will think that you are a licking dog.
Give girls room to consider, after all, falling in love is a matter of two people.
What you have to do next is to ask for warmth every day, and care more about it.
Can't pay unconditionally, and can't talk about conditions directly like straight men, you can say so, we are all so familiar with people, help each other at work, this is what I should do, so push and pull, it is easy for girls to have a good feeling for you, care can develop to the second layer.
In the whole process, as long as you have enough patience and perseverance to touch her with sincerity, the girl will have an emotional investment in you, and once there is emotional investment, you have begun to develop a lover relationship.
In this way, girls can't help but fall in love with you.
In front of the girl to express their own ideas, do not go straight, if you read this article, then congratulations, you successfully off the list, I wish you a lover to eventually become a family.
Editor's Note.
In the world of love, everyone has their own ideas and practices, knowing that they love someone in their hearts, and will not express, waiting for the rabbit is always the wrong choice, love sometimes really depends on themselves to create opportunities, you do not know how to further develop the relationship, that can only give the opportunity to others. In the emotional world of adults, there is no easy word.
As long as you really pay, you will definitely get your love.