In the process of dealing with girls, why are boys with high emotional intelligence so easy to get comfortable?
And men with low emotional intelligence are running into walls everywhere?
Because men with high emotional intelligence know the five rules of the game of chasing girls.
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Men with low emotional intelligence are too anxious, and when they first start to know each other, they are forced to invite women to dinner, watch movies, eat supper, and send gifts. But the problem is that you haven't known each other for a few days, the two of you are just ordinary friends, and once you know each other, you have all kinds of reasons to please, and some of you still confess to women in front of colleagues.
Do you know?
This will make women very disgusted, because you have no sincerity, colleague relationships are not good, you want to engage in lover relationships, what identity do you take to get along with women, you at least have to understand the circle of friends around her! Also find out what her strengths and weaknesses are. You can't do the basics, let alone be friends, and you can't talk about lovers.
A normal girl, she can't be so casual with you, and she is even less likely to accept your gifts casually.
Therefore, men with low emotional intelligence should learn from those men who have scriptures. Look at it more, and you will naturally understand.
2.
Women are attracted by men's charm and maturity, to rely on their own efforts and sincere hearts to chase girls to hand, do not think that according to your way to do, women will be moved, love is a matter of two people, rely on both sides to cultivate, rely on one side to work hard, the other party will only feel that you are self-made.
In fact, women don't want to circle around women all day, they want your sincere, dedicated men to love.
Confessions should be the clarion call for final victory, not the charge that launches the charge. Confession as a higher mental energy, it is the ultimate emotional release. If love is a game, a negotiation, confession is your bottom card.
If you have a relationship that is not in place, that is, you have not yet entered the state of hot love, you express your foundation as quickly as possible, and the other party will let you fall into passivity, and things are as simple as that.
What is the difference between a woman who attracts to her and a woman who chases after her?
Attracted to the woman,
Be captivated by your handsomeness, women chase you backwards, and you don't have to effortlessly get the woman. The problem is that you have to be good enough, and have a strong background, otherwise love will come and go in a hurry, and once such a woman can't see your excellence, she will soon fall out of love.
The woman who chased after her hand,
If you don't chase her, then in the end the good girl will be chased away by others, this is all a lesson of blood and tears, don't look at yourself too golden. The woman who chases you have to love him well, because women are emotional animals, and once they are chased by you, they will always yearn for you. If your own conditions are not particularly excellent, then the pursuit of love must be a protracted battle. This kind of good thing at first sight is often the patent of handsome men and beautiful women. So don't think of yourself so beautiful, many things depend on yourself to work hard, don't always think about the pie in the sky, the effort is always much stronger than the lucky,
Therefore, in order to belong to their own love, we must work hard to pursue our own happiness.