After getting married twice, I found out that the three truths of marriage, the sooner I know, the better
With the development of society, the pressure on young people is now increasing. Everyone is under different pressures.
Some men have a more grumpy personality, in some things encounter troubles, always take their own partners out of anger, many people in the angry head choose to change a partner to solve the problem, this is the biggest misunderstanding, you are not solving the problem, but to end the marriage smoke. It is to create problems, and such an impulsive personality is not good for a family at all.
Don't fantasize about changing a marriage cigarette and you will be absolutely happy.
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Whoever you live with has to go through these sufferings. Life! There are gains and losses, bitterness and sweetness are the norms of life, so this is the value of life. Everyone needs to know how to find a sense of contentment between unlimited needs and limited gains.
A person is not happy because you have money, but you know how to be satisfied and know how to let go. The heart will not be so tired. Life is actually very simple.
No matter how rich you are, with a normal heart, your family can have a happy life, otherwise every family member will have a hard time.
If we want to get happiness in marriage, in fact, there are many experiences we need to get from practical life to make up for its shortcomings. Have fun with it.
For the sake of family happiness, every couple must understand marriage, which is a necessary premise for running a marriage, and only in this way can happiness find the right direction.
What is the nature of marriage?
The essence of love is a kind of "feeling" exchange, and the essence of marriage is a kind of "value" exchange, husband and wife do not owe anyone, husband and wife can come together is fate, should do mutual respect, because after marriage are real life.
In life, it is inevitable to encounter troubles, inevitably encounter bumps and bumps, some people think of divorce on a whim, I advise you, when you want to divorce, first calm down for a minute to ask your heart, in some things, can a partner solve the problem, if you can't solve the problem, delete this idea of divorce from your heart. Go back to the right mind and single-mindedly run your family well from now on.
How many of the three truths about marriage do you know.
first.
Try to have more contact with friends of the opposite sex before marriage, communicate more, and try more, so that you can understand different men, and when you are really married, you will know what kind of men are worth your life. Once a man's personality has formed a habit, don't expect to change him, the habit carved in the bones, you can't change it.
My classmate married a man who was five years older than her because his parents said he was good, but after spending some time together, he found that he was quite bad for me and originally wanted to leave, I think that men after marriage, have children, have pressure, and will definitely change themselves. However, after marriage, not only did not change, because the pressure was too great, two days a small quarrel three days a big quarrel, we lived more and more painfully, helplessly, ended their marriage smoke.
second.
The most unreliable marriage comes from the introduction of the matchmaker.
After completing my studies, I am 28 years old, my parents are traditional culture, seeing that I am old, they rush to urge me to get married, and I face the introduction of the matchmaker and the urging of my parents every day. I also lost my mind at that time, in order to reassure my parents, I relied on my own feelings to judge men, marriage is of course not to say that there is no need for feelings, but on the basis of feelings. It also needs to be rationally analyzed by a man. After considering whether to get engaged to him, after a period of engagement, whether you can finally enter the marriage hall or not depends on the nature of this man.
Marriage is like this, not acting, whether you like it or not, like it or not, as long as you step into the palace of marriage, you have to accept its essence and truth. In the couple's life, there is a strong desire for change and control over the partner, then you are very wrong.
When you are willing to change yourself, your partner will definitely change with your changes, rather than always thinking of others changing for yourself, only if you are strong and independent of the economy, your partner will be attracted to you. Marriage smoke will be more stable. Instead of thinking about how to get a divorce.
Divorce doesn't end all the problems, it's just the beginning of the problem. A grumpy man with low emotional intelligence wants to change a partner as soon as he is impulsive, in fact, you have turned a large circle on the earth, and the final result is to enter the original life. Why bother with yourself?
third
Whoever you marry has a difficult time.
After all, you are two different homeschoolers, and it is normal to have personality discord, and even if you have the same common ground, it is purely coincidental. When encountering problems in life, couples will inevitably have fierce arguments, and some will make a big fuss, which depends on how you run into this relationship.
Couples temper and personality of each other, habits into nature, let you know that it is not easy to stick to a marriage. It is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and after the quarrel, we must learn to be tolerant and tolerant, and take a step back from the sea and the sky.
Husband and wife have passed the run-in period, life is willow dark flowers, and everything will be smooth in the future.
Forbearance is not to be afraid of the wife, it is responsible for marriage smoke, and it is to show the generosity of men.
How many couples have had a very stiff and hurtful relationship because of this sentence of their friends.
Of course, you have passed the run-in period, does not mean that you are a perfect fit, husband and wife must learn to be tolerant and generous, but also to perfectly accept each other's shortcomings. A harmonious couple is a concession, an appropriate one, so that the couple can be more harmonious and live happily and healthily.
Editor's Note.
In the life of marriage smoke, the goal pursued by husband and wife is not the same, men like to pursue fresh stimulation, women pursue quality of life and materials, both husband and wife should manage their desires, do not compare, appropriately lower their expectations, do not panic when encountering things, good discussion between husband and wife, encounter quarrels, first calm down, running marriage smoke is also a heavy responsibility, how to manage marriage, I think both men and women have a sense of responsibility for the family, cherish each other's fate, tolerance and understanding, in order to grow old.
I wish a lover to become a family member!