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Author: Wang Yuhang, a native of Qiqihar, Heilongjiang Province, is currently a doctoral candidate in electrical engineering at North China Electric Power University. He has published articles such as "Father and" on the public account of the Red Fan Society, "Interesting Discussion on the Embarrassment of Xue Baochao" and other articles on the public account of the Red Chamber Dream Research, and published "Eight Ancient Poems on the Theme of Spring" on the public account of young poets.
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Wang Yuhang
We secretly think that the reason why readers are not very willing to accept the last forty times of "Dream of the Red Chamber" is probably because Jia Baoyu's "scum" behavior is really too collapsed.
So what are the "scum" behaviors of Jia Baoyu? And listen to our people in detail. If the ranking officials feel that there is some truth, I implore you to raise your noble hand and praise it, and if you feel that our people are talking nonsense and writing nothing, it will be a pastime during the epidemic period, and please be magnanimous and laugh it off.
The first of the "slag" behavior - Lin Daiyu's bones were not cold, and Jia Baoyu wanted to be dissatisfied
As we all know, after forty times, Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochao, in fact, he could not complain about him, nor was he a negative heart. Song Dynasty Liu Yong has such a sentence:
Tie my heart for the rest of my life, bear you a thousand lines of tears.
When we first read this sentence, it was as if we saw Yi Hong Gongzi stroking all over the cultivation of bamboo, standing at dusk, and he had already sighed and burst into tears. We are not talented, and feel that such "contrivance" is in line with his personality.
But what did Jia Baoyu actually do? In the ninety-eighth time, "The Soul of the Bitter Daizhu Returns to Hate Heaven and the Sick God Ying Tearfully Sheds Lovesickness", Jia Baoyu discovered that he had married the wrong woman, and obviously wanted to marry Lin Daiyu, but he was "occupied by the magpie's nest" by Xue Baochao, and he immediately became depressed and unconscious. That is, as clear as the film is, it is also secretly pulling the flower raider at the back of the person to explain the "aftermath":
"I'm going to die!" I have a heartfelt word, I only ask you to return to the old lady: Sister Hengzhu Lin is also going to die, and I can't protect it now. Two patients are going to die in both places, and it is getting harder and harder to die. It is better to vacate an empty house and carry me and Lin sister there as soon as possible, so that they can heal and serve in one place to live, and one place to park when they die. According to my words, you have not wasted years of love. ”
Hearing this, not to mention that the flowers attacked the human body in it, the outsider of ours could not help but choke on his throat, and the pen noted the sentence in Yuan Shu's mourning wife's "Three Songs of Sorrow and Sorrow and Sorrow":
With the same cave meditation, his birth will be more difficult.
Hearing that Lin Daiyu was dead, Baoyu cried even more to death and live, and even went to Yinsiquan Road for a while, teaching people to read it with compassion. Up to this point, Jia Baoyu is still an amorous man, there is nothing wrong with it. Crashing is his next act.
Still this time, in fact, it was not long before Dai Yu died, and Bao Yu should still be sad about this, and he changed from a heart to a kidney.
In order to unravel Jia Baoyu, Baochao accompanied Baoyu to relieve her worries after Lady Jia Muwang had gone through the family ceremony.
Although Bao Yu could not sit up from time to time, it was also common for Bao Chao to sit in front of the bed and could not help but be born with old diseases. Bao Chao persuaded him with righteous words, and comforted him with the words 'It is important to maintain your body, you and I are husband and wife, and we are not in a moment'. Although that Baoyu did not go well, mrs. JiaMu and Aunt Xue took turns to accompany her, and at night Baochao went to sleep alone, and Jiamu sent someone to serve, so she had to rest in peace. Seeing also that Bao Chao behaved gently, he gradually moved his heart and intestines for Lin Daiyu slightly to Bao Chao's body, which was the last word.
After waiting for Lin Daiyu to cry, he immediately wanted to sleep xue Baochao's behavior, where is the amorous prince, it is clear that it is a big pig's trotter.
It is not that Jia Baoyu must keep his loyalty to the "Wooden Stone Former Alliance" and should not perform the conjugal ceremony with Xue Baochao in order to live up to his love. But before that, there must have been an insurmountable threshold in his heart—the joy of fish and water that he had originally wanted to give to his deepest loved ones, but now he had to give it to others. If love is "subtle and beautiful", then reality is "helpless heaven". Parents and lovers, on the one hand, are difficult things in the world, on the other hand, the unrefined feelings of red dust, mixed with the period, is an innocent woman who also longs for someone to coax someone to spoil.
Physical, psychological, moral, ceremonial... This kind of intricate intertwining will inevitably make Jia Baoyu dazed and flustered, unprepared and helpless.
In Zhang Ailing's novel "Half Life", Shen Shijun's description when he married Shi Cuizhi vividly wrote the five tastes of people who did not love each other in the face of the night of the cave flower candle: the sadness of having to let go of their loved ones, the embarrassment of doing intimate things with estranged people, and the vastness of the ownerless face of all this. So Shi Cuizhi pulled Shen Shijun's clothes and whimpered and asked:
"Are you saying it's too late?"
This should also be Jia Baoyu's mood towards Xue Baochao.
If he is also a person who is anxious to "delight in his color and return to his feelings", then what is the difference between him and Jia Lian and other people who are obscene? How can you see a love affair in talent?
The second act of "slag" - looking forward to the return of Daiyu's soul, to the rain and clouds of wu'er
It is said that the 109th time "Hou Fang's soul five children accepted the wrong love and repaid the evil debt to meet the daughter against Zhenyuan", Jia Baoyu, under the guidance of Xue Baochao's heart, had a whim, and wanted to sleep outside by himself, waiting for Lin Daiyu's fang soul to fall asleep.
However, in the process of waiting, he was not idle, thinking about Qingwen and teasing Wu'er. This is a proper act, the scumbag behavior, not only hanging on the head of the sheep, selling dog meat, but also eating in the bowl and looking at the pot and worrying about the plate. Don't say that Lin Daiyu already has a "small sex", loves acid and jealousy, how broad a heart can accommodate this part of Jia Baoyu's sea.
Or that Jia Baoyu only cared about Wu'er, saw her dressed thinly, and was afraid that she would be infected with wind and cold like Qingwen, so why did she say Qingwen's sad and indignant words to Wu'er when she was dying:
"I already knew that I had assumed a false name, so I made a serious idea."
Don't say that the fifth child of the party feels that he is being lightened, that is, I and other people on both sides of the world look at it, and I also feel that it is a naked flirtation.
We feel that this should not be our personal feeling. When the late Qing dynasty painting wizard Sun Wen was painting this scene (see "Qing Sun Wen Painted the Dream of the Red Chamber"), in the middle of the night, before the bed, Jia Baoyu half-lifted his naked upper body, reached out from the bed, and moved his hands and feet on Liu Wu'er... The painting is so ambiguous that it can only be "salted pig hand" that can be stretched out.
Treating a woman as a stand-in for another woman, euphemistically speaking, is the denial and disrespect of the woman herself, which is very offensive, and who does not want to splash him with tea and let him sober up.
What woman doesn't want to be an unparalleled being and be treated uniquely?
Rejected by Wu'er, Jia Baoyu also had a more "riotous" operation. He asked Wu'er to go to bed and sit next to him. Wu'er refused, and Jia Baoyu told her about the plot of Qingwen going out on a winter night to scare musk moon, and when she came back, she was afraid that she would freeze and wrap her in the bed. The conclusion is that if Wu'er does not drill into his bed, it is "sour fake vinegar".
Is there any difference between this logic and the routine of Aquaman coaxing his sister to go to bed with him? Isn't this "flirting" and what is it?
Many people have misunderstood Jia Baoyu's "amorousness" towards his daughters. Among the misplaced people is my favorite fairy tale poet Gu Cheng. In fact, Jia Baoyu's "amorousness" is divided into two stages: the first stage is the self-centered naïve cognition of youth; the second stage is the thoughtfulness that stems from compassion for people. The dividing line between these two stages is the thirty-sixth "Love Enlightenment Pear XiangYuan".
Thirty-six times ago, Jia Baoyu was very "egotistical", he felt that every girl should surround herself, like herself, he was good to them, gentle to them, what they wanted, it was a favor. Therefore, when he is smooth with his eyes, he can do low and small, and fill the servants for the beards; when he is not pleasing to the eyes, he can also throw tea and pick up Xi Xue, lift his feet and kick people. He can be careless and flowery, and he can also monkeys eat the rouge on her mouth on Mandarin ducks; in his definition, his daughters want to play tricks on him. So, his wish was for all the girls to bury him in tears. In fact, not only Jia Baoyu thinks so, but the hero in "Shijing Guofeng, Guofeng, Sangzhong" also thinks so, and the modern "Puxin man" (ordinary and confident man) also thinks so.
However, on the thirty-sixth occasion, he went to Lixiangyuan to find Ling Guan'er to sing "Peony Pavilion" to him, and when he had a close interaction with Ling Guan, he was actually disliked by Ling Guan, and he understood the deep meaning of The Rose. At that time, he realized that not all girls need their own "grace". When he realized that he was "voyeuristic" and "from now on everyone will only have everyone's tears", he jumped out of his own barriers and began to become macroscopic.
After thirty-six times, he no longer ate the rouge on other people's mouths, nor did he envy other people's wrists like crisps. I just want to stay with Lin Daiyu for life and death, and I have to belong to my own tears. From the dialogue between Chun Yan and her mother at the beginning of the sixtieth episode of "Jasmine Powder For Rose Salt Rose Dew Attracts Poria Cream", it can be known that Jia Baoyu will return to Madame Ming Wang in the future and let everyone in the house out. At that time, he could put himself in the shoes of Xiangling and write "Furong Daughter" affectionately to speak for Qingwen. Thirty-six times later, Jia Baoyu made a qualitative leap in his thinking.
There is a detail, that is, after the "Shouyi Hongqunfang Night Feast", Bao Yu woke up and found that there was a charming and moving Fang Guan'er lying next to him. At that time, Jia Baoyu had already opened the meat, but what he wanted was to paint Fang Guan'er's face with some black ink like a child, like a naughty little boy. Qingwen is facing such a "back to basics" Jia Baoyu, so she can safely drill his bed, while Liu Wu'er is facing a man with a sperm worm on his brain, so she will be more vigilant.
Jia Baoyu's ideal daughter country has never existed for him alone, he is not the sun in it, all people must revolve around him, what he wants is a country that is not infected by the world, and all daughters can live innocently and romantically in their favorite way. Gu Cheng is because he misunderstands this, self-centered, and circling between the two women Xie Ye and Ying'er, will step by step, resulting in future tragedies.
The third of the "slag" behavior, Jia Mu's coffin board, can it still be pressed
As we all know, for Jia Baoyu to Jia Mu, that is the existence of the root of life. Jia Mu loves Jia Baoyu, that is really in response to the old saying, holding it in her hand for fear of falling off, containing it in her mouth for fear of melting, eccentric eyes are biased.
We feel that we are still very experienced in this regard of the eccentricity of the elderly, because our people, like Jia Baoyu, also grew up in the extra pain of the elderly, and the one who is unique in both parents. Grandpa's ten grandchildren, the most important thing is me; Grandma and Grandpa's seven grandchildren, the most painful is also me. Serious grandchildren have to be at the back.
In fact, when I was young, I was unremarkable, brothers and sisters who were better looking than me, smarter than me, livelier and lovelier than me, and more obedient and sensible than me. Naturally, they also have times when they are not convinced, thinking that I have something to do. My grandmother had a powerful reason: my granddaughter had patience (love) human flesh, deserved to be spoiled, and whoever told you would not grow, did not grow.
However, Heaven is fair. I was the one who was blessed when my grandfather and grandparents were alive; when they died, I suffered the most. My grandmother died in junior high school, twenty years later. My cousins gave up long ago, but to this day, I still miss them. Once I dreamed that my grandmother came to Beijing, I helped her to climb the Great Wall, to eat Beijing roast duck, to take a boat in the Summer Palace...
Grandma had never stepped out of Heilongjiang in her life, and this was a landscape she had never seen before. After waking up, I can't help but cry tears, and it is sad and comforting. The heartache is because it is a dream that can never be realized, and the comfort is because she can still see this magnificent world through my eyes.
Why would we write about our own experience here? Because we feel that we should be able to empathize with Jia Baoyu, who faced the death of Jia Mu. However, Jia Baoyu's performance is really unreasonable, and it is not too much to say "white-eyed wolf".
Jia Mu died, and Jia Baoyu also cried with sorrow. However, this kind of sadness is not for Jia Mu, but for Lin Daiyu. After forty times, Jia Baoyu had been running away, waiting for Lin Daiyu's soul, he wanted Qingwen; at Jia Mu's funeral, he died for Daiyu's injury, and there was no time on the right topic.
Jia Baoyu watched Shi Xiangyun play at Jia Mu's funeral, sad about his own fate, infinite sorrow, and also:
Overwhelmed with sadness, and it was not good to go forward to persuade him, seeing that he was wearing light makeup and plain clothes, not putting on fat powder, and it was better than when he was not married. Looking at the light vegetarian decorations such as Baoqin, there is a natural abundance of its own. The unique Treasure Treasure is full of filial piety, which knows that it is more elegant than the usual color. I thought in my heart: "Therefore, thousands of reds and purples finally let the plum blossoms be the crown, but I don't know that it is not the early bloom of the plum blossoms, but the four words of 'white and fragrant' are out of reach." But only at this time, if Sister Lin is also dressed like this, I don't know what kind of charm it is! "Thinking of this, I don't feel sad, the tears will roll down straight down, taking advantage of Jia Mu's matter, may as well cry loudly... Everyone only thought about the benefits of Jia Mu hurting him, so they were sad and sad, and they didn't know his heart.
I just want to know, if Jia Mu knows the psychological activities of her most beloved grandson Jia Baoyu, can the coffin board still be held down? Is this a human affair? Life and death, this is a painful process, especially the one who walks, is the person who loves himself the most, this is how ruthless and unrighteous, no heart and no lungs, in order not to see sadness, single-mindedly "sister".
In fact, in Jia Baoyu's heart, Jia Mu's status is no less than lin daiyu. The twenty-eighth time "Jiang Yuhan gave Qian Xiangluo Xue Baochao a red musk string", what Jia Baoyu said to Lin Daiyu' confession:
"It is difficult for me to say to you what is in my heart, and I will naturally understand it in the future." In addition to the three people of the old lady, the old man, and the wife, the fourth is the sister. ”
Although the origin of Jia Baoyu and Sun Wukong is both stone, Sun Wukong is truly jumping out of the stone, and Jia Baoyu is a real flesh and bone body, so he has one more layer of blood than Sun Wukong.
Affection and love, which is more important? We think that Mr. Jin Yong's psychological description of Duan Yu in chapter 46 of the Eight Parts of the Heavenly Dragon, "Drinking and Asking Jun", is the best answer. Duan Yu's obsession with Wang Yuyan was obvious to all, and out of political needs, Dali Guo wanted to marry the Western Xia Kingdom, so he asked Duan Yu to ask to marry the Western Xia Princess. Before meeting the Princess of Xixia, you need to answer three questions, and you have to meet them when you are satisfied. One of the questions is:
"What is the name of the person the prince loves most in his life?"
Duan Yu's courtiers were afraid that he would "overturn the car" and answered "Wang Yuyan", so they lay down in their ears and taught him to answer that it was his father or mother. So Duan Yu pushed the boat along the water and answered:
"Of course, my favorites are Daddy and Mommy."
At this time, the psychological description of him is:
When he said the four words "father and mother", he naturally admired his parents in his chest, and felt that the love for his parents and the love for Wang Yuyan were not the same, and it was difficult to distinguish between the depth and shallowness, saying that he loved his parents the most in the world, but it was not a lie.
Logically speaking, this should also be the state of the balance in Jia Baoyu's heart of Jia Baoyu, although the love is not the same, but the same destination. Jia Baoyu absolutely could not have ignored Jia Mu's death and remained indifferent.
Generally speaking, in the first eighty times, Jia Baoyu was more and more alive, so it was fascinating; after the last forty times, it was obvious that Jia Baoyu was really more and more alive and more dazzling (huixuan, Northeast dialect, the meaning of regression), so it was boring.
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