Jin Gui is the wife of the Xue family, what does Bao Chao rely on to suppress his ambitions? How the Xia family put up the flag themselves

Question: Xia Jingui is the wife of the Xue family, why does BaoChao suppress his ambitions? How does the Xia family raise the flag on their own?

Text/Jiang Zi shushu

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- Preface to The Book of Stones

In the story of "Jin Ping Mei", Ximen Qing has many women in his family, but in front of the princess and Pan Jinlian, he said that he did not recruit a good one at home, and praised the late head lady Chen Shi was a lady who was in charge of the family, and everything inside and outside the words were saying that he now "has no heroine in the family" and waited for Pan Jinlian to take the bait.

The princess said, "It is better for the first lady of the great official to be the first lady." Ximen Qing said, "Hugh said! If my wife is present, but the house is unowned, the house is erected. Nowadays, there are three or five or seven people around to eat, and they don't care about anything. ”

In the story of "Jin Ping Mei", Xue Sister-in-law talked about Meng Yulou in front of Ximen Qing, and said that Meng Yulou was virtuous, and was the wife of Wangfu, who was the head of the family.

Sister-in-law Xue said, "This lady, speaking of which, you old man also knows that she is the head lady of the Buyang family who sells outside the South Gate." He has been widowed for more than a year, and he has no children around him, and he is young and young, what to keep him! There was a sister-in-law girl in his family who wanted to advocate for him to marry. This lady is not twenty-five or six years old this year, born with a long and tall figure, a table of characters, dressed up as a lamp person. Handsome and handsome, full of cleverness, the head of the family, the needle finger female worker, the backgammon is needless to say. ”

Sister-in-law Xue persuaded Meng Yulou to remarry Ximen Qing, and in front of Yang Girl and Meng Yulou, she also said that Ximen Qing's family lacked a hostess.

Sister-in-law Xue said, "It is one of the richest people in Qinghe County, Ximen Grand Official." In front of the county, a big raw medicine shop was opened, the family money was over the Beidou, the rice rot Chen Cang, and there was no lady who was in charge of the family. ”

However, in fact, Ximen Qing's family has a hostess, that is, Wu Yueniang, who fills the house. Later, Meng Yulou married into Ximen Qing's family, opened her mouth and said to Wu Yueniang, "You are a person in charge of the family", the so-called head of the family, that is, the woman who is responsible for the family's property management.

Since ancient times, "a man has no wife and no master", the person in charge of the family generally defaults to the right wife in the family, the eldest lady has the duty of husband and son, and also has the right to establish discipline in the family, and the internal rules of the family, the hostess has the final say.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Aunt Xue's husband died early, her son Xue Pan was an adult, and the head of the Xue family was indeed Xue Pan, and the responsibility for managing internal affairs fell to the wife and concubine in Xue Pan's room.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", when Xue Pan did not marry a wife, Xiangling, as a concubine of Xue Jiaming's fair and righteous marriage home, had the responsibility of being the head of the family, so I heard that Xue Pan married his wife, and the naïve Xiangling was such a situation!

(Xiang Ling) was busy day by day, Xue Pan had married relatives, he had obtained a talisman, and he shared the responsibilities on his own, in the end it was more peaceful than this; The second smelled like a talented and beautiful woman, naturally elegant and peaceful: therefore, the days he hoped to cross the door in his heart were ten times faster than Xue Pan's. It was so easy to hope that one day he would marry the door, and he was very attentive and careful.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Xia Jingui wanted to change the name of Xiangling, and when he heard that the name was given by Xue Baochao, he pretended to be worried that Xue Baochao was not happy, but Xiangling said such a thing.

Jin Gui smiled, "What you said is that you are only afraid of the girl's heart, saying: 'My name is not as good as yours?' You can come for a few days and then you will refute my reply. Xiang Ling smiled and said, "Grandma didn't know, when she bought me that day, it was originally called by the grandmother, so the girl got her name." Later, when I took care of my grandfather, I had nothing to do with the girl. Now that I have a grandmother, I am more and more irrelevant to the girl. Moreover, the girl is a very understanding person, how to annoy these things. ”

The official heard that Xiang Ling's words were clear and clear, in line with the etiquette of the big family at that time, Aunt Xue's servants were decided by Aunt Xue, and Xue Baochao could also be the lord of her mother's favor. However, Xue Pan's wife and concubine, Xue Baochao, had no reason to interfere.

In other words, Xue Pan's wife is the presiding mistress of the Xue family, the affairs of the Xue family, Xia Jingui has the final say, Xue Baochao said it does not count, if Xue Baochao is strong, it is called confusion, and it belongs to ultra vires and bullying. What Xiang Ling said was clearly to tell the world that Xue Baochao was still occupying the position of the Xue family's head of the family at this time, which was very inappropriate and had lost its integrity. Do you see how the original text explains the situation of this family?

That Jin Gui saw that her husband's flag was gradually falling, and her mother-in-law was kind, so she gradually tried to stand up. At first, he did not coerce Xue Pan, and then he relied on the charm of Xue Bao, and he would go to Aunt Xue and then to Xue Baochao. Bao Chao has long observed his ill-intentions, and every time he reacts to changes, he secretly suppresses his ambition with words. Jin Gui knew that it could not be violated, and every time he wanted to find a gap, there was no gap to take advantage of, so he had to bend and follow.

The official heard that Xia Jingui was facing Xue Baochao, what kind of charm could he rely on? What kind of misdeeds can he have towards Xue Baochao? No wonder Xia Jingui wanted to make a fuss about Xiangling's name, sneering: "Everyone says that girls are passable, but this one name alone does not make sense." It turned out that Xue Baochao's behavior did not make sense.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Xue Baochao secretly suppressed Xia Jingui's ambition with words, so what is Xia Jingui's ambition?

It turned out that this Miss Xia family was seventeen years old this year, and today she was out of the cabinet, thinking that she wanted to be the grandmother of the family, compared to being shy and gentle when she was a daughter, she had to take out this mighty wind to be able to suppress people; Moreover, seeing that Xue Pan's temperament was rigid and his demeanor was arrogant, if he did not take advantage of the hot stove to concoct and cook it in one go, he would not be able to erect a banner in the future.

The official heard that Xia Jingui was indeed the grandmother of the Xue family, and had the right to teach her husband and son, and he did have the right to manage Xue Pan, Xiang Ling, and Bao Toad, so she chose to make things bigger.

Jin Gui meant not to do one, two without stopping, and shouted more and more, saying: "I am not afraid of people's jokes!" Your little wife cured me and harmed me, I am afraid of people laughing! Otherwise, if you keep him, you will sell me. Who doesn't know that your Xue family has money, takes money to pad people, and has good relatives to blackmail others. If you don't act early, what are you waiting for? I don't think I'm good, who told you to be blind, and ran away from our house to do something! This will also come, the gold and silver will also lose, and the slightly eye and nose will also be occupied, and it is time to squeeze me!"

From this point of view, it is not much xue baochao, a lot of age is not out of the cabinet, after the end of the xue family to be a family discipline, no wonder Xia Jingui wants to spill, and the author says that Xia Jingui more and more added the meaning of "Song Taizu destroyed the Southern Tang", "the side of the bed will not allow others to sleep", to put up the banner, what should be the explanation? Could it be that Xia Jingui wanted the Xue family to be surnamed Xia Chengcheng in the future? It seems that "Dream of the Red Chamber" is not a romance novel.

The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record", "Golden Bottle Plum"