Those moments of maternal love bursting out in the dream of the Red Chamber are written about the world's obsessive parents

In the Tang Dynasty bard Meng Jiao's "Wandering Zi Yin", it is said: The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer is clothed. The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late. Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui.

A small poem, just 30 words, but it all writes a mother's worries and concerns about her long-distance son, and praises the greatness and selflessness of maternal love. This is also what we often say, the child goes thousands of miles and the mother is worried.

Mengjiao also has a poem, which also praises maternal love, and he wrote in "Wandering Son": Xuancao shengtang steps, wanderer travels to the end of the world. Loving relatives lean on the door of the church, and there are no grass flowers.

Since the Tang and Song dynasties, Xuancao has also gradually become a synonym for mothers. Jia Ling misses her mother's movie "Hello, Li Huanying!" The theme song of "Xuancao Flower" is "Xuancao Flower", and the crown of the Yuan Dynasty has a poem: Cancan Xuancao Flower, Luo Sheng North Hall. In ancient times, the North Hall was generally the residence of the mother, and later "XuanTang" was used to refer to the mother.

It is said that when Kangxi was touring the south, he gave his nursing mother Sun a plaque with the words "Xuanruitang" and called him "the old man of my family", which was treated like a mother. This Nursing Mother of the Sun clan is also Cao Yin's wife and the grandmother of Cao Xueqin, the author of the Dream of the Red Chamber.

In the dream of the Red Chamber, when Dai Yu and Xiang Yun joined the mid-autumn festival, there were also "Xiangxin Rong Yu Gui, Se Jian Mao Jin Xuan." In the eighty-seven times of the continuation, it is also mentioned that "there is Xuan Xi in the North Hall, so why forget your worries?" "The grass here refers to the mother, and the grass is also called Yino grass and forget worry grass.

In the dream of the Red Chamber, many mother images are written, as well as those unforgettable moments of maternal love bursts, which can be said to be written about the world's obsessive parents, and it is tearful to read.

Twenty-five times, Baoyu returned from his uncle Prince Teng's family to participate in his aunt's birthday, because he drank too much wine, and when he saw Madame Wang, he rolled in his mother's arms, "Madame Wang was stroking him with her hands full of face, and Baoyu also moved Madame Wang's neck, saying gossip." ”

This is a warm picture of the mother's kindness and filial piety, and when the critic Li Yanzhai saw this, there were three criticisms in succession, the first of which was "Yu Jiji lost his voice and cried bitterly." The second is that "those who have lost their mothers at an early age in the whole world will cry together." The third is "The mother and the child are all written." ”

When Li Yanzhai saw such a burst of maternal love, why did he cry bitterly? From the criticism, we can see that Li Yanzhai should have lost his mother at a young age, he had no mother to drill, no evil person to spoil, and no one could give him maternal love anymore.

For Madame Wang, although she had three children, the eldest son died early, the eldest daughter entered the palace early, she only had one baoyu by her side, although she was a bane and a demon king of the mixed world, how could she not love it?

When Bao Yu was beaten, Madame Wang cried bitterly to her husband Jia Zheng: I am now fifty years old, only this evil obstacle... If you want him to die more and more today, don't you mean to kill me? If you want to strangle him, take the rope and strangle me first, then strangle him.

After Madame Wang said this, she lay on Baoyu's body and cried loudly, and Jia Zheng also burst into tears when she heard this. As the saying goes, hitting the child's body hurts in the mother's heart, about the same as the mother under the sky, and always plays the role of protecting the children in family disputes.

A comment from Li Yanzhai said: Let people read it, and their voices will choke and they will burst into tears. Another comment says: Those who have not lost their mothers come to play carefully, and those who have lost their mothers come to cry bitterly. Yes, if the mother is gone, who will protect us when she is beaten again?

As the saying goes, children bite the old man more. Many people also say that Jia Mu in the Dream of the Red Chamber is eccentric, likes the younger son and does not like the eldest son, and even the eldest son, Jia Shu, has also satirized his mother's eccentricity through a joke.

Is Jammu really eccentric? Not really. The title of Rong Guofu made him attack, not to mention, but also gave him another house to live in, to marry a little wife, let him just buy it outside, and spend as much as he wanted.

Jia Mu looked down on her eldest son, and hated that he did not maintain a good body, and the officials did not do it well. This is clearly a mother's "hatred of iron and steel" for her indisputable son, ah, "anger and indisputable"!

Twenty-four times, Jia Pardon felt cold, and after Jia Mu learned about it, she immediately asked Bao Yu to go over to ask for peace, and also brought Jia Mu's question, where is this eccentricity? This is clearly a mother's concern and concern for her son's body.

We often say that no matter how old the son is, in front of the mother, he will always be a child, Jia Yu's children and grandchildren are full of eyes, but just feel a wind chill, Jia Mu sent Bao Yu to ask for Peace, is this not a touching mother's love?

Seventy-six times, in the mid-autumn of the year of Jia Fu, Jia Mu and her family were enjoying the moon, and suddenly heard that Jia Yu was tripped by a stone when she went out, jia mu quickly sent two mother-in-laws to see, and then asked Lady Xing to hurry up, and only after learning that there was no major trouble was she relieved.

Isn't this a mother's deepest concern for her son, and isn't this the most touching and unforgettable deep mother's love? For Jia Mu, the palms of her hands and the backs of her hands are all flesh, and she hurts every child, but the expression is different. Those moments of maternal love burst out are enough for us to see a mother's most selfless love for her children.

Not only for the son, for the only daughter Jia Min, jia mu who liked girls was even more pampered, after Jia Min's death, Jia Mu, who first saw Dai Yu, completely disregarded etiquette, and put her arms around Dai Yu and cried out in her heart.

This is a rare public cry of Jia Mu, not for anything else, only for the mother to hear about her daughter's death, but she did not even see the last side, only for her to see her granddaughter, more miss the deceased daughter.

Jia Min's death was undoubtedly the greatest pain for Jia Mu, just like Madame Wang, who even Jia Zhu cried when Bao Yu was beaten. Who in the world who is a parent can bear the weight of life of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person?

These moments of maternal love bursting out, these plots overflowing with maternal love, can always touch us. Because the love of parents is selfless, unrequited, and purest, it is innate, from the time we are born until they leave this world, children are the eternal concern of parents.

When we argue with our parents, calm down and think, we should not be angry, but should be happy, because our parents are still alive, we still have the opportunity to honor them, in front of them, we can always be children.

Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.