There are many noble ladies in "Dream of the Red Chamber", but not every noble lady can be pampered and pampered.
Shi Xiangyun, a miss shi of the shuanghou family, is an uncompromising Miss Qianjin, but what kind of life does she live? Because of the death of her parents, she lived on her uncle and aunt, had to do needlework every day until three more midnight, tired to the point of back pain, and wished to go to Jia Fu to relax and relax.
It is true that life in Jia Fuzhong is much easier than that of historians. Not to mention those few misses of qianjin, even the servants often idle and have nothing to do, wandering freely in the Grand View Garden. However, not all the Qianjin ladies in Jia Province were loved by thousands of people.
Xi Chun was a young lady in the Ningguo Mansion, because there was no mother, and her father was in the Taoist Temple, so she had to live in the Rongguo Mansion. Jia Mu gave her a life of fine clothes and food, but did not give her much love. This girl, who was very fond of painting, lived a life of slaves in the flower-studded Rongguo Mansion, but there was no paint or brush that could be used to paint. It can be seen that no one in the Rongguo Mansion really cares about this fourth lady, it is just a face.
Yingchun's situation is not much better than that of Xichun. Her birth mother also passed away, and her father only knew how to indulge in indulgence, "drinking with his little wife", and he did not pay attention to this daughter. Lady Xing knew the problem of picking Yingchun, saying that she would not do this, not that, not even one-tenth of Tanchun. Jia Mu actually didn't care much about this granddaughter, and even her marriage only said "I know."
Lin Daiyu, who lives in Jia Province, is favored by Jia Mu, but she has to act carefully so as not to attract the pickiness of Lady Wang and those who are cruel in Jia Province; Tan Chun is a smart and capable girl, and Jia Mu attaches more importance to Lady Wang, but she is not very favored, after all, Lady Wang is only her mother-in-law, and her birth mother, Aunt Zhao, is afraid that the world will not be chaotic, lest her daughter have a satisfactory life, and in a few days she will make a fuss.
Even in Jia Province, none of these thousand golden ladies could really be loved by thousands of people. In fact, this statement is not accurate, but there was once a Miss Qianjin in Jia Fuzhong who was loved by thousands of people. This Miss Qianjin is Lin Daiyu's mother, Jia Min, jia's biological daughter.
When Leng Zixing gave a speech on Ning Rong's second house, he once mentioned that Jia Min's generation had four sisters, but Jia Min's biological daughter was only Jia Min. Jia Mu originally liked girls very much, and for her only daughter, she was even more pampered. Jia Min's pampering, so that many years later, Madame Wang, still remembers it vividly, and sighed at Wang Xifeng, who was also Miss Qianjin: "At that time, your sister Lin's mother was the real Golden Dignity and Jade Gui, and the real Miss Qianjin's system..."
Madame Wang and Wang Xifeng, both misses of the Jinling Wang Family, were still impressed by the style of Jia Min, Miss Qianjin. Especially Wang Xifeng, she thinks that the ladies of these ladies in Jia Fu are now more honorable than the ladies of other people's families; but Madame Wang believes that the living conditions of these ladies in Jia Fu are far worse than jia Min's. It can be seen that compared with Wang Xifeng and Jia Min, the living conditions are actually very different.
However, Jia Min, the miss of Qianjin who is loved by thousands of people, faced a very embarrassing situation after marriage - she had to work hard for the issue of her husband's heirs.
Jia Min's husband is Lin Ruhai. The Lin family is also the noble family of the fourth hereditary lord, but the Lin family is thin and has always been a single transmission, and it is very urgent for Lin Ruhai to have a son. However, Jia Min has been married to Lin Ruhai for many years and has only given birth to a daughter, Lin Daiyu. Of course, in "Dream of the Red Chamber", it is also mentioned that Lin Daiyu also has a younger brother. Whether this younger brother of Lin Daiyu was born to Jia Min is difficult to say. Because Lin Ruhai also had several concubines. Unfortunately, this boy who could have inherited the incense of the Lin family died of illness at the age of three.
As Miss Qianjin, Jia Min also has to face the problems that ancient women often faced - her husband's concubines and heirs. Shortly after Lin Ruhai's only son died of illness, Jia Min also fell ill. Therefore, Jia Min's illness, to a considerable extent, must be related to Lin Ruhai's heirs. This incident put too much pressure on her, until soon after, Jia Min died of depression because of this matter.
Miss Qianjin, who was once the most delicate, finally ended up depressed because of her husband's heir problem, which made Jia Mu cut off her liver and intestines. When Jia Mu saw Lin Daiyu, she cried and said a word, "My children, the only thing that hurts is your mother." It can be seen how deep the pain caused by Jia Min's death to Jia Mu really is.
Jia Min has passed away, and the noble woman in "Dream of the Red Chamber" continues to work hard because of her husband's heir problem, and the most obvious of which is Wang Xifeng. She became the next Jia Min, suffering from not being able to give birth to a son for her husband, Jia Lian.