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The original title of this article was "Hearing the news of Daiyu's father's death, why did Wang Xifeng and Baoyu react very differently?" 》。
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It is said that because Lin Daiyu's father, Lin Ruhai, was seriously ill, Jia Fu arranged for Jia Lian to escort Dai Yu back to the south to visit. During this period, a major event occurred in Ningguo Province, that is, Qin Keqing died suddenly. On Baoyu's recommendation, Jia Zhen invited Wang Xifeng to Ningguo Mansion to help take care of the aftermath.
It can be said that both husbands and wives are shouldering heavy burdens and are deeply trusted!
On this day, Jia Lian's entourage Zhao'er returned to report that Lin Ruhai had died:
"The second master took Aunt Lin with him to send Aunt Lin to Suzhou, and he will return at about the end of the year." The second master sent a small letter to please Ann, begged the old lady to show it, and also looked at the grandmother's house, and asked to bring a few large woolen clothes. ”
When he heard the news, Wang Xifeng was with Bao Yu and Qin Zhong. After Zhao'er finished his prayer, Wang Xifeng and Bao Yu behaved like this:
Sister Feng smiled at Bao Yu, "Your sister Lin can live in our house for a long time." Bao Yu said, "I don't know how much he cried in the past few days." He said, frowning and sighing.
You see, hearing the news of Lin Daiyu's loss of her father, the sisters and brothers "laughed" and sighed, and their performances were completely different. Bao Yu's reaction was very in line with the norm, but Wang Xifeng seemed to be "ruthless". Why?
I think there are 4 reasons why they react very differently.
The heart is different
Jia Lian escorted Lin Daiyu back to her hometown, and Wang Xifeng and Baoyu were both worried. It's just that Bao Yu is worried about Daiyu, and Sister Feng is worried about Jia Lian.
Since Jia Lian left, Wang Xifeng's eating and sleeping have become "chaotic". At that time, it was no more convenient than now, and now it is simply too convenient to contact, but at that time, it was all about the situation. From The capital to Jiangnan, the mountains are separated by heavy waters and the road is far and round. Sister Feng is not like Baoyu, there are a large number of friends such as Yingying Yanyan plus Qin Zhong to accompany him, the daily pair is just busy affairs, and the feeling of missing is deeper than Baoyu. It can be said that a heart is always hanging.
We noticed that when we heard Zhao'er return, Sister Feng was "anxious to summon in a hurry", and the "urgency" here was that she was anxious to hear Jia Lian's news, and she also had worries about Jia Lian, and her heart was hanging up.
When she heard Zhao'er say that Jia Lian had arrived in Yangzhou safely and had gone to Suzhou with Daiyu, her heart was safe and stable and returned to its original position. The joy was beyond words. And this is far more important than the death of Daiyu's father. Thinking in my heart, Baoyu and Daiyu have such a good relationship, and Daiyu is homeless and can return to Jia Province for a long time, is it not a good thing for Baoyu? So I couldn't help but "laugh" out.
Baoyu is different.
He and his uncle Lin Ruhai should have never met, I am afraid that there is no emotion. But he has a good relationship with Daiyu! Although at this stage, there is still no talk of the love between men and women, but the two little guesses, green plum bamboo horses get along, enough for him to often remember Daiyu. At this time, hearing that she had lost her father again, he naturally felt sorry for her and worried about her body. Therefore, I can't help but "frown and sigh".
Intimacy is not the same
Bao Yu and Dai Yu are cousins, and Lin Ruhai is his uncle. In the relationship of relatives, the cousin belongs to the closest file. Bao Yu once said to the jealous Daiyu that his relationship with Daiyu was closer than Baochao's, because Baochao was an aunt and cousin.
Although Wang Xifeng is also a person from Jia Province, as the daughter-in-law of Jia Province, she is still different from the children of Jia Province; although her mother's royal palace and the Lin family are also relatives, they are connected through Jia Province.
Personally, her relationship with Daiyu is that of her cousin and husband (Jia Lian), which is much better than Baoyu.
Because of this, although Feng Jie and Bao Yu did not have any impression of Lin Ruhai, let alone feelings, they were obviously different for Dai Yu, and the degree of empathy they felt was not the same when they heard that she had experienced the situation of her parents' death in just a few years.
Jammu is not the same in the absence
As mentioned earlier, when he heard the news of Daiyu's father's death, Wang Xifeng was with Baoyu. What if it's around Jammu?
In just a few years, the old lady first lost her beloved daughter, and now she has lost her son-in-law, and her inner grief can be imagined. The point is that Dai Yu has since become an orphan girl, and the pain has doubled.
It is conceivable that even if Wang Xifeng was full of joy at Jia Lian's safe news, and even if she was completely indifferent to Lin Ruhai's death (it should be said that the degree was not deep), she would definitely "resonate with the same frequency" with the old lady. As she said when Dai Yu first entered the Rongguo Mansion, she said something like, "How can my sister have such a hard life, but my uncle has also died."
Because Sister Feng will never ignore the old lady's feelings, even if there is no sense of truth, she will "pretend" it.
But now that Jia Mu is gone, she doesn't pretend. In front of Baoyu, she didn't have to pretend deliberately.
It's not the same when you're not home
Wang Xifeng said with a smile:
"You Sister Lin can live in our house for a long time."
The implication is that Baoyu you can be happy, Dai Yu has nowhere to go except for us Jia Fu in the future.
It is estimated that Bao Yu did not think of this, and he was immersed in the emotion of grieving for Dai Yu.
Feng Jie thought of this, proving that her sense of role as a family member was too strong, and she remembered the "deployment work" almost all the time. I'm afraid that in her heart, even when Dai Yu grows up, the dowry old lady will have something like that, and she has already thought of it.
I think this is a family instinct: what should I do if something like this happens?
Baoyu never thinks about housework, can enjoy and enjoy, there is no need to enjoy, just turn the smoke into ashes. Everyone should remember that he once told Daiyu that it meant that the economic difficulties in the house had nothing to do with them, and they couldn't be short anyway.
Who is arranging their provisions? Isn't it Wang Xifeng!
Therefore, since he was not so close and did not have to pretend, Wang Xifeng, who was happy to get Jia Lian's peace message in his heart, immediately thought about Daiyu's arrangement after returning to Beijing according to the idea of being a family member, leaving his grief only to Baoyu.
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