Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are a natural pair and are in love. However, the marriage caused internal contradictions in the Jia family.
Through the comparison of the plots of the before and after text, Jia Mu and Jia Zheng supported Bao Dai's marriage as representatives, while Madame Wang and Jia Yuanchun supported Jin Yuliang's marriage.
As Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao grew up, the contradictions between the parties intensified day by day. In particular, Madame Wang's opposition to Lin Daiyu has almost reached the point of "hysteria".
After the embroidery spring sac came out, Lady Wang targeted Qingwen and copied the Grand View Garden to take away Qingwen, and after her death, "frustrated the bones and ashes", all of which were cathartic to Lin Daiyu's dissatisfaction and even "hatred".
Lin Daiyu's marriage to Jia Baoyu is "inappropriate or inappropriate", which is also the focus of debate among onlookers. The core problem was Lin Daiyu's sick and weak body.
Jia Mu supports Bao Dai's marriage, is she not afraid of the consequences of Lin Daiyu's bad health?
Lady Wang's opposition to Bao Dai's marriage was also due to Lin Daiyu's poor health?
Looking at Lin Daiyu with modern thinking, lin daiyu is indeed not suitable for being a daughter-in-law, and her poor health will affect her fertility, and she may not have a long life.
However, the marriage of the ancients was not the same as that of modern people. Daughters-in-law are in good health and can have children and raise children are all low-level thinking. Men in high society have polygamous concubines, and although there is a need for heirs, the absence of concubines does not affect the succession and family inheritance.
On the contrary, it pays more attention to the daughter-in-law's door, upbringing, and the power and background behind the mother's family.
In this way, Lin Daiyu's disadvantage is not a problem. She was not in good health, and even if she did not give birth, she would have other concubines to give birth in her place. And her advantage is what Xue Baochao does not have.
Lin Daiyu was born in the last Marquis, his father Lin Ruhai was the last marquis, and his grandfather was the Marquis. Her mother, Jia Min, was the daughter of Jia Daishan, the second-generation Duke of Rongguo, and her grandmother, Jia Mu, was the daughter of Marquis ShangshuLing Shi of Baoling. The noble bloodline was destined to make Lin Daiyu born extraordinary.
The Lin family is different from the Jia family's martial arts and rich heirlooms, and is a typical scholarly door. Lin Ruhai was able to enter the last Houmen Yijie in white and the gold list titled High School Tanhua Lang, if it were not for the family's accumulation of wealth, it would not have been possible.
What makes Lin Ruhai most envious of the Jia family is that he has the ability to enter the high school at the first time after the end of the hereditary title, and still continue the family's famous inheritance.
Therefore, since the Duke of Rongguo, the Jia family has been carrying out the transformation of abandoning martial arts and conforming to literature, and strives to move the family towards "poetry and book heirloom" to ensure that future generations will continue endlessly, produce more talents, and prosper and develop.
Therefore, in addition to setting up a private school and educating their children to study, the Jia family also actively married Xiang Mendi. Jia Min married Lin Ruhai, Jia Zhu married Li Feng, and even Yu Baodai's marriage was like this.
A good daughter-in-law, Wang Sandai, married to a woman with outstanding virtue in the Shuxiang Mendi, can have a subtle influence on her children and grandchildren and lintels.
The value of Lin Daiyu lies in the fact that she inherits the deep scholarly background of the Lin family, and can influence her children and grandchildren, which is an indispensable role for a "good daughter-in-law" and is also urgently needed by the Jia family.
As for her poor health, it doesn't matter if it's her own child. In any case, in ancient times, the children of concubines and concubines were all raised by the mother-in-law.
Lin Daiyu's advantage also lies in her ability to demote talents in an eclectic manner. It does not strictly and dogmatically observe "female morality and female rules".
For example, she herself is good at the Four Books and Five Classics, poetry and song endowments, and is also inclusive and not exclusive. She was really fond of it.
On the other hand, Xue Baochao also learned to be rich in five cars, but it was only a decoration of himself. She obeys her daughter's duty more, pays attention to female red and female morality, and cannot "apply what she has learned".
This is very clear from the poetry of Xiangling. Xiang Ling was interested in learning poetry, and Xue Baochao did not agree with it or teach her.
Lin Daiyu encouraged Xiangling to see that she really liked the careful teaching of teaching according to her aptitude. Xiangling soon learned to compose poetry.
Xue Baochao and Lin Daiyu also educate children, Xue Baochao's children only have a "duty" to go, boys read and study, and daughters teach their children. It's all dead ends.
Lin Daiyu's children can be taught according to their aptitudes, unfettered, but can slowly hatch the vitality of a hundred flowers.
Jia Mu and Jia Zheng precisely saw Lin Daiyu's quality and Xue Baochao's upbringing, and would choose Lin Daiyu to become the future second grandmother of Bao and the head of the Rong GuoFu.
Madame Wang did not like Lin Daiyu, and poor health was not the most important factor.
Madame Wang lacks the overall situation view of Jia Mu and Jia Zheng. She didn't care what the future of the Jia family was, she only thought about her son's life.
Lin Daiyu has nothing and is weak, which is Jia Baoyu's "drag". And Xue Baochao has the business of the Xue family and the support of the Wang family behind him, and he can re-bind the Jia family, the Wang family, and the Xue family, which can ensure that he will be rich and idle in his life.
The problem is that Madame Wang only sees short-term benefits, but ignores that behind the marriage of Jin Yuliang is the Wang family's leadership.
As the Jia family's power weakens and the Wang family's power increases, in the end, it will only be the Wang family that "swallows" the Jia family, and there is no harm to the Jia family.
The marriage of the Wang family is exactly what Lin Daiyu said about the "mother locust" strategy, and Madame Wang is bent on the mother-in-law's family, ignoring the interests of the in-laws, and inevitably elbowing outward.
In summary, Lin Daiyu's problems were never all physical reasons. Jia Mu's overall view is much stronger than Madame Wang's.
After all, Madame Wang was a selfish mother, not the hostess of the Rongguo Mansion.
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