Lin Daiyu entered the Jia Mansion, and the original book explained very clearly that her mother Jia Min died and her father Lin Ruhai was still there. Lin Ruhai said very clearly in the conversation with Jia Yu Village, "Heavenly fate happened, because of the death of The Humble Jing, the mother-in-law of the Duzhong family remembered that the little girl had no one to rely on for education, and had sent male and female boats to pick her up", indicating that Lin Daiyu entered Jia Mansion because of Jia Mu's invitation, Lin Daiyu herself was not willing, she could not bear to leave her father alone, and only left her hometown to come to Jia Fu in a bit of helplessness.
It is said that Lin Ruhai's family is also a family of eunuchs, the ancestors have been hereditary marquises, to Lin Ruhai's generation is already the fifth generation, Lin Ruhai himself is a former science detective flower, successively served as the doctor of Lantai Temple, and is also a hand-picked inspector of salt royal history, even if Jia Min dies, with the favorable family conditions of the Lin family, Lin Ruhai also has a concubine, and there is no other child, and there is obviously no problem in helping to raise Lin Daiyu to grow up.
Moreover, at that time, Lin Daiyu was still young, and leaving her hometown, leaving her parents and relatives, and going to a completely unfamiliar place may not be good for her mental health. Modern psychology shows that children leaving a familiar environment and leaving their loved ones who spend time and night will produce severe separation anxiety. And people in separation anxiety will be reflected in the body, diet, digestion, sleep, etc. will have obstacles, personality is easy to be sensitive and suspicious, depressed and other characteristics, Lin Daiyu arrived in Jia Fu, everywhere to pay attention, always care, crying is her daily activity also shows that she is under the fence, psychologically extremely uncomfortable.
Especially in a large family like Jia Fu, she has many sisters and sisters in her adulthood, surrounded by relatives, and the loss under that contrast is even more obvious. But even so, Jia Mu still took Lin Daiyu into Jia Mansion, knowing that Lin Daiyu was not suitable for seeing outsiders and it was not suitable to hear crying.
Why did Jia Mu do this, let's first look at Shi Xiangyun, who has a similar life to Lin Daiyu. Shi Xiangyun is the grandnephew of Jia Mu's mother's family. Known as "Afang Palace, three hundred miles, can not live in Jinling a history", the historian ranked second among the four major families of the talisman, powerful and powerful, extremely rich, the historian who appeared in the dream of the Red Chamber had The Bowling Hou Shi Nai, Shi Ding was the Marquis of Zhongjing, one door and two marquises, and its degree of wealth even exceeded that of Jia Fu.
Unfortunately, Shi Xiangyun lost his parents at a young age and lived with his uncles and aunts. No matter how it is Miss Houmen, but the life of Shi Xiangyun in the book seems to be very ordinary, where can you see it, first see how Xue Baochao said Shi Xiangyun.
A poetry club was set up in the Grand View Garden, the girls often chanted poems together, Shi Xiangyun was interested in opening his mouth to do the east, Xue Baochao was in a place where there was no one, quietly reminded Shi Xiangyun, "Although it is stubborn, you must also look ahead and look back, and you have to be cheap yourself, and you must not offend people, and then everyone is interesting." Your family is not the master, a few strings of money a month, you are not enough to coil it. This is going to be such an important thing again, and your aunt hears it and complains more and more about you."
From this sentence, we can know that although Shi Xiangyun is Miss Houmen, she cannot be the master at home, and the monthly routine is only a few strings of money, even his own entanglement is not enough, there is no excess money to invite guests, and being complained by his aunt is the norm for Shi Xiangyun to face. The key is also that after listening to Xue Baochao's words, "Shi Xiangyun immediately fell short", which shows that what Xue Baochao said is true.
Xue Baochao guests living in Jia Fu can know Shi Xiangyun's living state, it seems that this is not a secret, when she was young, Jia Mu felt sorry for her, took her to Jia Fu to live for a few years, wait until she gets older, need to talk about marriage, and then return to her own home, and later Jia Mu every three to five years to bring Shi Xiangyun to Jia Fu is also out of love for her.
Look at the girls and ladies of Jia Province, living in the paradise of young people in Daguan garden, eating and drinking offerings from Jia Fu, worried that they ran around to eat against the cold wind, hurting their appetites, and specially set up a small kitchen in Daguan Garden to serve them.
Jia Fu girls' monthly monthly routine is two or two silver, Qingwen in Jia Baoyu's room is a hanging money, Shi Xiangyun is a few strings of money, some studies have shown that these strings of money are only an estimate, that is, a hanging or a hanging and a half of the look.
When Shi Xiangyun was young, she lived in Jia Province, and she felt that it was a very happy thing to go to Jia Province to play with her sisters, she was looking forward to someone from Jia Province to pick her up, and when Shi Jia picked her up, she was always in tears.
Or when Xue Baochao mentioned Shi Xiangyun to the attackers, he said, "She can't be the master at home at all, and the needlework in their family is all done by the girls themselves." When there were no outsiders, she said that she was very tired at home. Ask her a few more words about her daily life, and her eyes will turn red." It can be seen that Shi Xiangyun is bitter at home, although she is a young lady, but Shi Xiangyun has to do the needlework done by the servants in his own home, without the care of his parents, and he is more harsh on life. Although the historian is also a rich aristocrat, it is not bad for that little money, but the child without a mother is like a grass.
After the death of her mother, If Lin Daiyu continues to stay in her own home, because her father Lin Ruhai is busy with official duties, then Lin Daiyu's situation will be the same as Shi Xiangyun, Lin Ruhai also said his own concerns when he persuaded Lin Daiyu to enter the Jia Mansion in the third time: "Ru Father's year will be half a hundred, and there is no intention of continuing the room; and Ru is sick, very young, there is no mother to raise, there is no sister and brother to support, and now I am relying on my grandmother and uncle's sisters, just to reduce my worries, why not go?" ”
Jia Mu was rich in experience and foresaw the aftermath, especially although Lin Ruhai had several concubines, but more than half a hundred years old, there was only one descendant of Lin Daiyu, which showed that Lin Ruhai was not in good health, and he also served as a salt yushi, which belonged to the transitional fatigue type of errands, in order to avoid being like Shi Xiangyun, he insisted on taking Lin Daiyu to Jia Province, and really hoped to live a quiet and carefree life under his own care, but he did not admit that Xue Baochao's golden jade good fortune became Lin Daiyu's robbery in Jia Province, and eventually it was difficult to escape the red face and thin life.