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Jia Lian does not take care of her younger sister Jia Yingchun, and Jia Tanchun does not take care of her younger brother Jia Huan

Question: Jia Lian does not take care of his sister, Jia Tanchun does not take care of his brother, who is responsible?

Text/Jiang Zi shushu

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- Preface to The Book of Stones

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Lian does not take care of his half-sister Jia Yingchun, and Jia Tanchun does not take care of his half-brother Jia Huan, what is the hidden feeling?

Let's first look at the brother and sister Jia Lian and Jia Yingchun, their father is Jia Shu, their stepmother is Lady Xing, and their birth mother is unknown.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Yingchun ranked second among all the girls in Jia Province, with the name of "Ermutou", a cowardly and eventful lord, poking a needle and not knowing how to beep, no self-protection ability, and not much sense of existence.

And Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng were responsible for managing the daily affairs of the Rongguo Mansion, but it can be said that internal and external affairs were all taken care of by the two of them, and they did their best, so Lady Xing said such a thing.

When Lady Xing saw him like this, she sneered: "It's always your good brother and sister-in-law, a pair of children who are very proud and yang, Grandma Lian's second grandfather and grandmother, two mouths to cover the sky, Pepsi thoughtful, even a total of this one sister, don't care at all." ”

The officials heard that Jia Lian really did not take much care of Jia Yingchun, not to mention Wang Xifeng, who only cared about her own interests and convenience, just like Lady Xing's mother's family came to jia province, Wang Xifeng arranged for Lady Xing to go to Jia Yingchun's courtyard, in order to turn around and there was a problem, lady Xing's mother-in-law could not find her head.

Lady Xing then handed Xiuyan over to Sister Feng. Sister Feng calculated that there were many sisters in the garden, and her temperament was different, and it was inconvenient to set up another place, so if she sent it to Yingchun, if Xing Xianyan had some undesirable things in the future, even if Lady Xing knew about it, she had nothing to do with herself.

In this way, Jia Yingchun was even more embarrassed, she was originally under the jurisdiction of the nursing mother, and because of the addition of the envoy fee of the Xing girl, the daughter-in-law of the second girl's nursing mother also had to take this matter to settle accounts with Jia Yingchun, which made Jia Yingchun unable to be clean.

And Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng treated Jia Yingchun so weakly and unrighteously, and their parents Jia Shu and Lady Xing could not escape. Jia Shu is an inconspicuous father, and Lady Xing is an outsider who does not treat them as children, what do you think Lady Xing said?

Madame Xing sneered, "But everything that hangs from my body has another word to say--it is only up to them." Although you are not born to the same mother as him, whether you are the same father, you should also look after each other and avoid others from laughing. Even his brother and sister-in-law are like this, what else is going on. ”

Coincidentally, the relationship between Jia Tanchun and Jia Huan, a pair of sisters, is also very awkward, and Aunt Zhao often complains that Jia Tanchun does not take care of Jia Huan.

Aunt Zhao: "Serious brother, shoes and socks, no one can see it, and make these things!" Why did you give the money you saved to Bao Yu, but not to Huan Er? ”

On this point, Jia Tanchun heard that Dengshi sunk her face, she talked to Jia Baoyu, and explained very clearly that she saved money to let Jia Baoyu bring the stubborn things for her, not to give the money to Baoyu, to make shoes for Jia Baoyu, but also to exchange courtesies as a thank you. As for Jia Huan, there is no shortage of these things, and Aunt Zhao is blindly crying and poor.

Tanchun said, "What kind of field is this stupid?" How am I supposed to be the shoemaker? Isn't there no case for huan'er, no one's? The general clothes are clothes, shoes and socks are shoes and socks, the bride and wife are a room, how to complain about these words! To whom! I am just idle, making a pair and a half, loving to that brother and brother, as I like. Who dares to care about me! This is also white gas. ”

As for the reason why Jia Huan was not welcomed in Jia Province, Wang Xifeng said it clearly, because he learned badly with Aunt Zhao and did it himself, you look at Aunt Zhao's parenting scriptures, you know what is going on?

When Aunt Zhao saw him like this, she asked, "Where is the mat kicking nest again?" When he didn't answer the question, when he asked again, Jia Huan said: "Sister Tongbao is stubborn, Ying'er bullied me, relying on my money, and Brother Baoyu picked me up." Aunt Zhao said, "Who told you to go up to the high platform?" XL faceless stuff! Where is it stubborn? Who told you to run away, it's not interesting!"

As the saying goes, teaching by example and leading by example is the best education. As a parent, they have not played a good leading role, they are carrying a humble and contemptuous insight, they are self-conscious and calculating their own interests, they are confused, they provoke their children to have to come out and say what they do, and they still expect their children to be filial piety, are you not putting the cart before the horse? It can be seen that the children are not harmonious, and Lady Xing and Aunt Zhao cannot escape the blame.

The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"

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