Tanchun is the daughter born to Jia Zheng and Aunt Zhao, and unlike her brother Jia Huan, Tanchun was raised in the name of Lady Wang, jia huan can call Aunt Zhao a mother, while Tanchun can only call Aunt Zhao "aunt".
In fact, Tanchun was raised by Madame Wang, which is also a fortunate thing. Born Peugeot, the temperament of the quick tanchun, after the cultivation of everyone's boudoir model, it is more knowledgeable and talented, which also has the painstaking efforts of Madame Wang. Look at what Jia Huan looked like when he was raised by Aunt Zhao, like a little frozen cat, there was no anger from everyone, and anyone looked down on him.
What is the relationship between Tanchun and Madame Wang?
Tanchun once said such a sentence in front of Aunt Zhao, who was making trouble: My wife is full of heartache for me. It shows that she is very approve of Madame Wang and feels that Madame Wang also loves herself. It's just that the whole world tells that the mother-in-law is very good to herself, is this from the other side, revealing any information?
Where will the truly intimate mother and daughter, relatives, be so polite and exquisite? Like when did Baoyu say that Madame Wang hurt herself, when did Baoyu and Daiyu say that Jia Mu hurt herself? Of course, Jia Mu loves Baoyu and Daiyu the most, but what she says is also: two yu'er are hateful! Such casual laughter and ridicule is more like intimate and intimate relatives who do not need any prevention and cover.
In the final analysis, Tanchun and Lady Wang are not related by blood, Tanchun is not born to Lady Wang, even under the feudal system, all the children born of concubines belong to the concubine, Lady Wang's raising of Tanchun is also justified, from the perspective of human nature, the husband and another woman give birth to a child, which wife can have no mustard, no selfishness, and treat it with joy? It's just the relentless oppression of women by men.
Moreover, Tanchun's birth mother was Aunt Zhao, the inexorable, but energetic, wild family daughter, which brought Lady Wang a pleasant feeling. Perhaps, she and Jia Zheng had an old relationship earlier, and between them, there was feelings and even love. And Mrs. Wang married to Jia Fu, but it is more for the sake of family interests, and Jia Zheng is more like a partner relationship.
In this deep mansion compound, Madame Wang was grinded to the point that there were no edges and corners, and she was never a cheerful person when she was out of the cabinet, and became a boring wooden person in Jia Mu's mouth. Such a wife, not only the mother-in-law does not like it, but also the husband does not like it. In middle age, even if Jia Zheng did not take concubines again, he still cared for Aunt Zhao for ten years.
How much can Madame Wang like the child born to Aunt Zhao? There is no such heartless woman in the world. With mixed feelings, she raised Jia Tanchun, and the gradually grown Tanchun had the same beauty as Aunt Zhao, which may not surprise Madame Wang. However, Tanchun is a daughter's family, the conditions are outstanding, and the people are very smart, cultivate her well, and in the future, baoyu and even Jia Fu will be beneficial and harmless. The daughter who marries out will not compete for the family property, and if she marries a good husband, it will be of great benefit to the mother's family. For this reason, Tanchun can only be raised in the name of his mother-in-law.
No matter how much she does not like Aunt Zhao, Lady Wang, as a concubine, has never treated Jia Tanchun badly, and Tanchun also knows how to repay the peach, on the one hand, her birth mother has nothing, which will only drag herself down, which really makes her unable to respect, on the other hand, hugging Lady Wang means that she can get more and better resources. Otherwise, look at the Spring Festival next door and you will know how miserable an unloved girl is. If Tanchun wants to live a high light and want to compete for anger, he has to weigh the pros and cons and explore his own set of ways to survive.
After all, the so-called mother-in-law is not a real mother. And the mother who gave birth to herself was always pulling her hind legs. Tanchun understands that there is no unprovoked love in this world, and there is no good that does not ask for returns. Since Madame Wang treats herself well, she will also have to protect Madame Wang at all times, but Madame Wang is the leader of the horse.
Lady Wang's feelings are weak, she has lost her excellent son Jia Zhu, and her daughter Yuan Chun has entered the palace again, and it is rare to see each other, and only Baoyu is left under her knees, who is also an inattentive chaos demon king. If Tanchun didn't know her again, would Madame Wang be able to cultivate her with all her might? If she couldn't figure out the primary and secondary again, and was intimate with Aunt Zhao, wouldn't she be a white-eyed wolf who couldn't be fed?
It is difficult to do a woman, even if she is adopted by her mother-in-law, it is the same, and it will be even more difficult.
Because Tanchun is always close to Madame Wang, it seems that Madame Wang is her mother-in-law, and every time she is hated by Aunt Zhao for climbing the branches, and even wants to visit Chun to please Madame Wang, she also remembers to pull herself. This mother is really stupid enough, is this afraid that her daughter is too comfortable? It is no wonder that Tanchun is always upset with Aunt Zhao, and it is no wonder that Tanchun tries harder to please Lady Wang.
Tanchun is a person who lives in the mezzanine, but if she is weaker, she will not have a good life. Her pressure came from both Madame Wang above and Aunt Zhao below. Ping'er once said that if Tanchun is a petite child, "the wife will also let him have a point or two, and grandma does not dare to do anything," but Tanchun got all this, not without reason, without any additional conditions, she was won by her own strength, not really as she herself said, "Mrs. Full of heartache for me." ”
Tanchun was very angry, among the several girls in Jia Province, she was the best, and she put gold on the face of Lady Wang. Others will not say how good the daughter born to Aunt Zhao is, but only that Madame Wang has a good upbringing. Even when Lady Xing scolded yingchun with a soft face, she also compared it with Tanchun, and she became more and more angry. Such a long-faced Tanchun, Madame Wang naturally has to be more generous, whether it is not out of the cabinet, or will marry in the future, Tanchun is a trump card in Madame Wang's hand.
Although Madame Wang did not have rich feelings, she did not like to talk and laugh like Jia Mu, and her attitude towards Tanchun was more like that of superiors to subordinates. But Tanchun consciously made Lady Wang's little cotton jacket, in addition to saying good things about Lady Wang everywhere, after the Mandarin Duck anti-marriage incident, Lady Wang was implicated, and when she was publicly reprimanded by Jia Mu, only Tanchun stepped forward and spoke for Lady Wang, resolving the embarrassment. After listening to Tanchun's words, Jia Mu reacted that she was too impulsive and quickly asked Bao Yu to apologize to Lady Wang for herself.
Although Tanchun was not born to Madame Wang, but Madame Wang raised her, she also knew how to repay, and although there was no deep affection between the two, it was not completely without feelings. Later, during Wang Xifeng's illness, Lady Wang also sent Tanchun to work with Li Feng and Xue Baochao to act as housekeepers. This is not only a recognition of Jia Tanchun's ability, but also a careful support for Tanchun. The children she raised herself, a few pounds and a few pairs, Mrs. Wang could not be clearer, she was willing to give Tanchun this opportunity, in the end, it was also because Tanchun was worth it.
Speaking of which, do you still think that Madame Wang is full of heartache and loves to explore spring?
Not. Mrs. Wang, a person who has experienced most of her life as a rich man, has a fierce and boring heart, seems to be lenient, but in fact clings to the interests in her hands. She does not have much love for her son Baoyu, more as a reliance on him for the rest of her life, the guarantee of old-age care, she is also crossing the river and demolishing the bridge, eating dry and wiping clean, not to mention the daughter of a concubine!
She had to be nice to Tanchun, because there were so many pairs of eyes staring, but she didn't have to dig her heart and lungs, and she could just get by.
She did not do a bad job, showing the temperament and cultivation of a mother-in-law. Asking her to sincerely explore chun again is inevitably harsh.
And why didn't Jia Tanchun know how Madame Wang treated herself? How could she not know that there was no blood relation, always separated by a layer. Only in this way, she should be closer to Madame Wang, and as for the truest feelings in her heart, she can convince herself not to be so sensitive. She has respect, gratitude, flattery and flattery for Madame Wang, that is, there is no mother-daughter relationship that does not distinguish between each other and is casual.
When Tanchun said the words that my wife was full of heartache for me, she said them not only to everyone, but also to Aunt Zhao, who was not angry, and even more to Madame Wang. This teenage girl did not have an easy time. In this great Rongguo Mansion, in the end, there is no one who is really full of heartache for her, just like Jia Mu hurts Daiyu, Aunt Xue hurts Baochao, and even compared to it, Liu Sister-in-law has no complaints or regrets for her daughter Liu Wu'er, and pays regardless of return.
I wonder what kind of mood Madame Wang felt when she heard these words? In fact, it is very good that they can have such a relationship.
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.