Friends who have read "Dream of the Red Chamber" may know that Madame Wang in the book has always disliked Lin Daiyu, and is even more opposed to lin daiyu's marriage to Jia Baoyu, and insists on giving Baochao to Baoyu. In fact, this is related to the 4 words that Jia Mu said to everyone when Lin Daiyu first entered the house.
Lin Daiyu is the only daughter of Jia Min, the youngest daughter of Rong Province, and Lin Ruhai, the inspector of Yangzhou, although she was born in Shuxiang Mendi, her father was still a tanhua, and she successively served as "Doctor of Lantai Temple" and "Inspector of Salt Yushi".
But Lin Daiyu lost her parents when she was young, and Jia Mu looked at Dai Yu pitifully and raised her in Jia Fu when Dai Yu was 10 years old. When Lin Daiyu first entered Jia Mansion, Jia Mu once said sadly:
"My children, those who hurt, are your mother. Once you leave me today, you won't even be able to see me. How I am not sad to see you today! ”
And it was the four words that Jia Mu said, "Only your mother", which made Madame Wang's impression of Lin Daiyu from the beginning not very good. You know, Madame Wang is Jia Zheng's wife, and Jia Zheng and Jia Min are brothers and sisters, and when Jia Mu says this, it is not obvious that she is partial to her own little daughter and does not take her other children in her eyes. If Jia Mu had said this privately, it would have been okay, but at that time, so many people were present, and Madame Wang was also there, and Jia Mu did not care about Madame Wang's affection at all.
After listening to Jia Mu's words, Madame Wang's heart did not say much unhappiness. Of course, some people think that this is just our speculation, but a sentence that Madame Wang said later completely expressed her jealousy and dissatisfaction, and she said to Wang Xifeng:
"From the public point of view, I think she has several sisters, and she is also very pitiful. Don't go far beyond that, just say now your sister Lin's mother. When I was not out of the cabinet, how pampered and habitual, how golden and jade noble, that was like the body of a Miss Qianjin! Now these sisters are only slightly stronger than other people's handmaidens. ”
From the above passage we can see that Madame Wang should also be dissatisfied with Jia Min, the whole article is full of jealousy, presumably when Jia Min was still in Jia Mansion, she has always been favored by Jia Mu, she does not like Jia Mu's exclusive favor for Jia Min, and now Jia Min is finally gone, but a lin Daiyu has come in, like Jia Min's appearance, Lady Wang is not even more angry.
Not only that, Madame Wang did not like Lin Daiyu, but also had a relationship with Lin Daiyu's own personality. We all know that although Lin Daiyu is beautiful and intelligent, she is too capable of speaking, often unforgiving, and likes to satirize others. And because of Lin Daiyu's tragic life, she lived in Jia Province and developed a proud personality. It was precisely this that made Madame Wang very dissatisfied with her.
And Xue Baochao is the daughter of Aunt Xue, aunt Xue is the sister of Lady Wang, so in terms of blood, Xue Baochao should be closer to Lady Wang, plus Xue Baochao's personality is very different from Lin Daiyu, she is good at handling the relationship between people, and she is also a knowledgeable Dali, so it is more recognized by Lady Wang.
Although Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are green plum bamboo horses, and the two are indeed deeply affectionate, baoyu is not wanted by anyone except Daiyu, but Lady Wang still strongly supports Jin Yu for the sake of Jia Baoyu's reputation and future considerations, hoping that Xue Baochao will become her daughter-in-law.
Reference: Dream of the Red Chamber