Many readers envy Jia Mu's life. This old lady's life can be described as too smooth, want money and money, want status and status, taste and taste, and have a heart. She lived in the rich field for a lifetime, and when she reached old age, she had children and grandchildren around her knees, eating and drinking every day for fun, which was very comfortable.
In fact, no one's life is perfect, and more or less may have shortcomings. Perfect like Jia Mu, her life also has some unsatisfactory, but the old lady often uses an open-minded attitude to cover up the past.
For Jia Mu, the biggest regret in her life may be because of a wrong decision a few years ago, which caused her lifelong unspeakable hidden pain.
In Jia Mu's life, she had two sons and a daughter. For those two sons, Jia Mu was not satisfied. The eldest son, Jia Shu, only knows how to eat, drink and have fun every day, "let the good officials not do it, the Chengri family and the little wife drink", even the hair and beard are white, the son and grandson are in a room, and he still thinks about the maid in the mother's room. What Jia Yu did can be said to have broken Jia Mu's heart, and also made Jia Mu feel upset every time.
The second son, Jia Zheng, is not the same as Jia Yu, he loves to read, like piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. However, such a person, who should be more elegant, is becoming more and more "dogmatic". This also makes Jia Mu, who likes to be spontaneous and advocates the beauty of nature, feel dissatisfied. Although Jia Mu is a little more partial to the second son in her daily life, in fact, Jia Zheng can't really make Jia Mu like it.
Only the daughter Jia Min is the heart of Jia Mu. There is no positive depiction of Jia Min in "Dream of the Red Chamber", but we can faintly see some of Jia Min's shadow from Lin Daiyu. This woman, who was once the most delicate Miss Qianjin in Jia Province, must also be like Daiyu, smart and clever, frank and cute. This is exactly the type that Jammu likes. She will also be like Daiyu, under the knees of Jia Mu, and become Jia Mu's favorite "pistachio".
However, after Jia Min grew up, Jia Mu made a wrong decision - to marry her daughter Jia Min to the Lin family thousands of miles away.
From the door, the Lin family is certainly a good family, the fourth hereditary lord, Lin Ruhai is a former detective flower, the uncompromising scholarly door, the Zhong Ming Ding Food Home. However, unfortunately, the Lin family was too far away. The Lin family was originally from Gusu, and later Lin Ruhai served as a patrol in Yangzhou. How inconvenient the traffic in ancient times was, everyone has heard about it. From Yangzhou to Beijing, it is as fast as one or two months, and slower may take several months.
In this way, if Jia Mu wants to meet her daughter, it will become a very difficult thing. Even in today's developed transportation, parents are not willing to marry their daughters, let alone in ancient times.
It is also because of Jia Min's long marriage that Jia Mu has caused a huge hidden pain in Jia Mu's heart - from her daughter's illness to her daughter's illness, Jia Mu can't even see each other.
The servants poured tea, but they said how Dai Yu's mother got sick, how to ask for medical treatment, how to send her to death and mourning, and Jia Mu was sad again, because she said: "These children of mine, the only one who hurts is your mother, once I leave me today, I can't even see you, how can I not be sad when I see you now?" Saying, he put his arms around Daiyu in his arms and whimpered again.
In front of everyone, Jia Mu showed her reluctance to her daughter, only once. Since then, she has never shown this emotion again. Was it that she never thought of her daughter again? Definitely not. Sending a white-haired person to a black-haired person is the greatest misfortune in life, and Jia Mu cannot forget such pain.
But she could only hide this pain in her heart and never mentioned it again. Because she also knows that expressing too much remembrance of Jia Min is actually useless, and may also make others (such as Madame Wang) unhappy and affect other people's emotions.
When Jia Mu married her daughter to Yangzhou, thousands of miles away, she probably did not think at all that this would be the most wrong decision in her life, that she and her most beloved daughter would never see each other again, and that it would become a hidden pain that she could not say in her life.