In "Dream of the Red Chamber", baochao's mature personality and firm mentality have actually surpassed the little girl of the same age, and her understated words only worry that I am not waiting for everyone to wait, and it is surprising that she cares about what it is, which is everyone's evaluation.
(1) The pearl of the Xue family and the guest of Jia Fu
When she was in the Xue family, Baochao should not be such a personality, her positioning made her mentality change, she entered the Jia family, became a guest, in fact, in the Jia family as a guest, she was the most difficult. Xue Pan is not the same, he is a faceless, skinless and shameless person, he will not mind, people look down on him, rich uncle, people are stupid and have more money, the author writes that he is accustomed to sending money with people, a golden rong, all given seventy or eighty two, he used money, found dignity and face. With joy and glory.
And Aunt Xue, in the end, people to middle age, more pragmatic, some are open, she recognized the relatives and friends, she is the little daughter, is relying on her brother to rely on her sister, is to marry with her sister's family, she is calm, to be at ease.
But Baochao is different, she is different from her mother and brother, she reads and writes, she knows the rules and etiquette, understands the situation of the family, in the eyes of Jia Fu, how embarrassing, so she is extremely strict in self-discipline, want a good reputation.
(2) The treasure that lives in the eyes of others
So BaoChao is almost perfect, only to learn people, good character, helpful, and all kinds of people to deal well, we think that she and Jin Jun did not intersect, because the author only wrote that she and the attackers, but when it comes to Jin Jun, she directly said that Jin Ju used to wear her old clothes, it can be known that there was an intersection.
It is Xiaohong of Yihong Courtyard, through the window, she knows which one, and Xiaohong is still worried later, let Lin Girl listen to it, what is said, Bao Girl listened to it, Bao Girl is thick, Xiao Hong, people like Xiao Hong, all evaluate Bao Chao generously.
This is Baochao, yahuan in front of them, it is estimated that they are also extremely gentle, so that the evaluation is extremely high, to the elders, Jia Mu wants to praise, Madame Wang wants to affirm, it is Aunt Xue, also proud of Baochao.
In the ordinary generation, they are more concerned about interpersonal relationships, even the love enemy Daiyu, must be resolved, using Daiyu to say the wrong wine order, the two open their hearts, but also first mentioned their own naughtiness, but also read miscellaneous books, in order to close the relationship with Daiyu, do not hesitate to mention their own juvenile naughty things.
And Dai Yu became a confidant and good friend, that is the best masterpiece of Bao Chao, turning enemies into friends, from love enemies to sisters, drinking a cup of tea together, Bao Chao's emotional intelligence, naturally people are amazing.
But does Baochao like to socialize with people? In fact, it is just etiquette, Xiangyun entered the courtyard, Baochao rejoiced, not rejoicing, she is not a warm person. However, it made Xiangyun think that her sister would not hurt without her parents, and she could know Xiangyun's dependence on Baochao.
It's just that people are too good at everyone to wait.
Author: Han Xueli