Figure/Source Network Infringement Please contact to delete
Regarding beautiful love, it is written in the Book of Poetry: Holding the hand of the son, and the son with the old age.
Indeed, to be able to go through a lifetime of love and marriage hand in hand is indeed a great blessing in the world, in a lonely world, it is better to have someone to accompany and someone to hurt, than to be alone and alone.
However, in life, more is the opposite of the wish, less is the success of the heart, to the threshold of fate, we must eventually learn to say goodbye.
When people are old, it is common for the other half to quietly leave, although helpless, but also by others to control. For the person who is alive, how to spend the rest of his life and how to continue his life has become an important choice.
Some people will choose to remarry and restart a life while they are young, but after marriage, life is a few joys and a few sorrows. Some people choose to be alone, and although they look lonely, they also achieve a certain sense of freedom.
In fact, for those elderly people with pensions, there is really no need to find a wife.
Remarriage is risky and the choice needs to be made with caution.
One: Remarriage is prone to cause money disputes
People are old, unlike when they were young, they can be together, and at most consider whether the family conditions are right.
However, after getting old, each other often already have a family, have children, then what needs to be considered is not only the problem of mutual satisfaction, but also consider each other's economic conditions, children's social status, etc., a little careless is easy to cause disputes.
In the TV series "All Is Good", the nanny Cai Genhua said that she wanted to be with him because she liked Su Daqiang, but the real idea in her heart was to lean on Su Daqiang, buy a house, and seize the family property.
The children of the Su family can understand Cai Genhua's ambitions, but only Su Daqiang is pretending to be confused. In the end, when Su Daqiang completely discovered that Cai Genhua had been ignorant of his own money, everything came to light.
If you say that when you are young, it is only the consideration of your parents. Then people are old, and the economic conditions are right, which has become an unavoidable top priority.
When the elderly remarry, it is objectively easy to cause economic disputes.
Second: Remarriage can easily stimulate family conflicts
The remarriage of the elderly inevitably involves the children of the other party, and the children usually consider more problems than the elderly, so few children will willingly support the remarriage of their parents.
In the face of this complex society, children always have defenses in their hearts, and sometimes, defenses will give rise to contradictions.
In "All Is Well", the second eldest Su Ming became the second to prevent his father from remarrying, and did not hesitate to take a kitchen knife to push straight into the home, even if it was a threat, he also wanted his father to get lost.
However, such an extreme behavior invisibly stimulated Su Daqiang's rebellious heart, so the father and son complained and blamed each other, so that the parent-child relationship was once reduced to a freezing point.
People are old, it is true that they are lonely, but they cannot just think that they are lonely and blindly remarry, the elderly are simple, if they are not careful, they will be used by people with hearts, and the children are anxious, and they will not be inferior if they are not careful.
Coming and going is not conducive to family harmony.
Three: Remarriage is difficult to discern sincerity
Older couples who remarry do not treat their spouses as simply as they did when they were younger. Especially in the hearts of many men, the wife of the string is always no worse than the wife who used to tie the hair.
Therefore, choosing to remarry, it is difficult to discern the other party's sincerity.
In the TV series "The Belle Epoque of the Daughter-in-Law", Yu Wei's parents divorced early, and the mother and stepfather spent many years together.
However, after the death of her stepfather due to illness, the mother realized that the stepfather asked to be buried with the original match, as if her companionship for so many years was only the role of a nanny, which also greatly hurt the mother's heart.
There are many reasons why older people are together, women often want to find someone to accompany, while men want to have someone to take care of themselves. In the final analysis, the halfway couple is always separated by a layer, and it is difficult to confirm each other's sincerity.
Remarriage is no more important than first marriage, especially for the elderly.
If you have financial security and a source of income, you may wish to try to enjoy today's life, because the day of remarriage may not be as beautiful as you think, there are many ways to overcome loneliness, and you do not have to choose to remarry.
END