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01. Preface
Love is like a sudden tornado, urgent and sweet, and in an instant, people are trapped in it, unable to extricate themselves, and willing to give up everything for it.
Love has a great magic power, it will make people not like themselves, with the only trace of faith, no regrets.
Love makes people obsessed, makes people lose themselves, lose their way.
Bacon said, "Even God, it is difficult to remain intelligent in love." ”
In the world of love, there are no intelligent people and no one can really stay out of it. Once you encounter love, no one is spared, and you are willing to become a slave to love.
Love is ageless, and at all times, there is the right to pursue love. A man over fifty years old, his heart will also look forward to finding a wife, spend the future days together.
Men are over fifty years old and still looking for women for three reasons.
02, alleviate loneliness and loneliness, want to find someone to live together
People are over fifty, and men are looking for the other half, in fact, they want to live together. Longing for the rest of my life, I can live a little happier.
In the TV series "All Is Good", after Su Daqiang's wife died of illness, the children bought him a big house in order to give him a pension, and hired a nanny to take care of his living and living, and gave him a living allowance every month.
Su Daqiang was quickly impressed by the nanny's carefulness and thoughtfulness, and had the idea of marrying the nanny and obtaining a license.
No matter what the children warn, they will always do what they want.
When the nanny knew that she would not get any benefits from Su Daqiang's body, she simply left neatly. And Su Daqiang, who wanted to live with the nanny, began to lose his soul after seeing the true face of the nanny.
When men are older and have a lot of free time, they will feel the loneliness and loneliness that is everywhere in life, and they always want to do something to attract the attention of their children, or find the right person to accompany them for the rest of their lives.
They don't want to continue to endure life alone, they need someone to ease their inner emptiness and make themselves not seem too lonely.
Men are over fifty, and the reason why they still want to find a woman to spend the rest of their lives is because they are too lonely.
03, from true love
When a person reaches the age of fifty, he will still have true love. Sunset love, just as beautiful
Not all love in this world has ulterior motives, and some people also treat others with sincerity, and the same can be exchanged for sincerity.
Isakovsky said: "Love, this is not one heart to beat another heart, but the spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
In the movie "Embracing You Through Winter", the love between grandpa and grandma is particularly touching.
They were twilight love, and by chance, they met. When the grandmother was on the front line of the fight against the epidemic, the grandfather volunteered and insisted on delivering food to the grandmother.
This kind of husband and wife is really enviable, and the two people coddle each other across the fence, which makes people's hearts sweet. Under the cherry blossom tree, although the two are separated by a fence, they can still make people feel their love.
When a man reaches the age of fifty and wants to find a woman to live with, it may be that he is sincere.
Even if it is more than half a hundred years old, love will bloom regardless of time and place.
When a person reaches the age of fifty, the roses bloom too late, but they will still be beautiful. When a man is truly in love with a woman, he will pamper her and hurt her.
Love blooms regardless of age. It will be beautiful at the moment of bloom.
04, life needs, find someone to take care of themselves
When a man reaches the age of fifty, he still wants to find a wife because in his old age, he longs to be taken care of.
Wang Tuanzhen said: "Life is a trek, but also a journey; it is waiting, it is also a meeting; it is an adventure and a treasure hunt; it is tears, and it is also a song." ”
On the road of life, there are too many winds and rains, too many tests, and it is a blessing that someone can help each other in the same boat.
Men are over fifty years old and still want to find a woman to live with, in fact, a large part of the reason is the needs of life. In the long years, if there is a person who can do something about life, then the sense of happiness will be more intense.
When people are over fifty years old, many men no longer expect love, and what they need more is a stable life.
Therefore, after fifty years of age, men may look for wives because women are considerate and patient, can take care of the family virtuously, and can take care of the family.
Women, at the age of fifty, when a man shows love to you, don't rush to give, but see how much he can give for you.
At the age of fifty, love may become "utilitarian." Don't let your life fall into a difficult situation in order to blindly chase love.
05. Summary
When people reach the age of fifty, run their own lives well, and don't easily go to the luxury of seeking true love.
Mark Twain said, "In the first half of life, there is the ability to enjoy without the opportunity to enjoy; in the second half of life, there is the opportunity to enjoy without the ability to enjoy." ”
Life, like a white colt passing through the gap, passes in a flash, and when you look back, you will find how ridiculous the things you used to cling to are.
On the road of life, you don't have to live for love. Especially if people are over fifty years old, if they do not have true love, then they should manage their lives with their hearts and make themselves comfortable.
Women, people are over fifty years old, you don't need to get a sense of existence from others, and you don't need to explore the real intention of the other party to approach you, and running your own life is the most important.
Man, since he has reached the age of fifty, there is no need to dwell on illusory love.
Instead of chasing love, it is better to make yourself better and live the rest of your life more abundantly and wonderfully.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.