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01. Preface
Whether a person is rich can be seen from his own temperament, the charm value he exudes, and his words and deeds.
Master Xuecheng said, "What you say is actually what others see as you." ”
From a person's attitude of speaking, it can be seen whether he has money or not.
Rich people have different insights and cultivation.
Money can give a person more opportunities to contact better education, learn etiquette, cultivate sentiments, and have the opportunity to improve self-cultivation and taste.
Rich people, can create wealth, have strong ability, and speak concisely and confidently.
Rich people, who pay more attention to education, will make up their minds to let themselves learn more about wealth management. Know how to be humble and courteous, learn endlessly, no matter in what state, will not forget to improve themselves.
Getting along with people, from the way a person talks, you can see if he has money.
02, speaking, can reflect a person's cultivation
What a person says can expose his cultivation.
Being good at making money is a proof of ability. People who can make money tend to be more cultivated.
Chen Shouting in "Breaking into the Guandong" wants to do business with Lin Xiangrong, and Lin Xiangrong feels that his family is big and does not look at Chen Shouting in his eyes.
Once, when he asked him to meet, he deliberately set up a shelf and let Chen Shouting wait for him and hang him.
Later, Chen Shouting went to the Lin family's cloth shop and deliberately dressed up as a flower child. The guys in the Lin family, like the boss, had no one in sight, and their words were full of ridicule.
The two men made a bet, and in the end Chen Shouting bought Lin Xiangrong's 8,000 pieces of cloth at a very low price.
Lin Xiangrong was still unconvinced, did not realize the problems in his body, has been arrogant and rude, and finally almost let the business go out of business, and let his father come forward to properly solve the crisis in the business field.
A person, if he does not have good cultivation, as well as the humility of treating others, excessive inferiority or excessive arrogance, will become an obstacle on the road to his own success.
Cultivated people know how to speak well. Even if he is angry, he knows how to make money with anger.
When the time comes, it is impossible for human beings to control it. However, what people can control is the geographical advantages and people who can make money, often have a good cultivation to continuously create opportunities for success.
Well-cultivated people, who can talk, are often more likely to make money.
03, can talk, is a kind of ability
Capable people, good at "talking". Rich people can create wealth by "talking".
There is a very classic story in the sales industry, a salesman in a jewelry store accidentally sprinkled a small plate of diamonds on the ground. She panicked and found that the last diamond could not be found.
Sweating profusely, she looked around and saw a man getting ready to go out.
She walked over and chatted with the man in a very gentle tone, saying that she had many children in her family, all of whom were very cute, but the family was very poor and relied on her alone to support her.
The two men chatted for a while, and the man looked at her and shook hands with her before leaving, and the last diamond came back into her hand.
People who can talk will deal with problems in a much more ingenious way, can give people room, and can achieve their goals.
People who can talk can deal with problems, can make big things small, small things, free up more time, and do what they want to do.
When communicating with people, people who can talk know how to take care of each other's dignity, but also know how to express their own wishes, so that each other can eliminate doubts and achieve a win-win situation.
Solving crises with words, not creating trouble, and not offending people is an ability and one of the qualities necessary to become a rich person.
04, talk, see knowledge
From the language of a person's speech, one can hear one's knowledge.
Rich people, when they speak, know how to convince people with reason. A person who can use language rationally is a science.
A truly rich man can see his knowledge and the rigor of his thinking when he speaks. If a person has no knowledge and no brain, then no amount of words he says are convincing.
Many people think that making money depends on opportunity, it is luck, standing on the cusp, there are opportunities to get rich.
Actually, this is not the case. People who can really make money not only love to learn, but also have vision, can identify which "opportunities" are traps on the road of life, and which "opportunities" are mines that can be excavated into real money.
Rich people, on the way to study hard to make money, will also constantly improve themselves. Constantly absorb new knowledge, keep up with the changes of the times, and make money while still holding on to money.
A person can make money, which is a manifestation of comprehensive ability.
Rich people, speak logically, react quickly, and have the ability to export chapters. This is because, on the way to creating wealth, they have accumulated experience and have a strong reserve of knowledge.
The richer the man, the more obvious his pattern and knowledge become when he speaks.
05. Summary
Live in the world, cultivate yourself well. Only by constantly improving their cognition and constantly improving their level of speaking can they create more wealth.
Ben Johnson said, "Language is the most revealing thing about a person. ”
Whether a person has money or not can be seen from what he says. Rich people, more cultivated in speaking, understand things, communicate with anyone, are not humble, let people have a solid feeling in their hearts.
Getting along with people and learning to speak well is an ability.
Get along with people, please do not provoke right and wrong, do what you say, and do what you do.
If you want to say good things and make your language have depth, then you should learn more and improve your knowledge reserves in order to reach a higher level and become a rich person.
No matter what kind of situation you are in, don't be lazy and slack. Only by continuously cultivating and improving from all aspects can we firmly grasp the opportunity when it comes.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.