#头条创作挑战赛#
Author: Reilly (Rich Book Author)
Venus, who has not appeared in the public eye for a long time, has the latest news, and suddenly rushed to the first place in the hot search:
Last month, Venus officially announced that she had remarried!
She posted on Weibo: "In 2006, I had no choice but to divorce in order to settle a household for my children... Eighteen years later, I re-registered and remarried, which also witnessed our feelings and responsibilities along the way;
Today is Hans's birthday again, double happiness! I also wish the world's destined people to eventually become married! Everything life has to offer you is what you need to experience! ”
The date of receiving the certificate is Hans's birthday, and even the official announcement time is full of affection at 13:14.
Countless netizens have commented on their blessings.
It is rumored that it has been "banned" for many years, and now Venus still has such a high popularity, which is related to these qualities in her......
Venus first became popular because of the "poisonous tongue" in "The Venus Show".
Once, Venus found on the plane that the attitude of the flight attendants when serving Asians was significantly worse than when serving Europeans.
She suppressed the anger in her heart, and when the stewardess asked Venus "what to drink", she even said a few words, but Venus still didn't understand.
The flight attendant changed her usual tone of speech to Asians and asked her in full: "We have tea, coffee and Coca-Cola, what do you drink?" ”
Venus said directly: "I want orange juice!" ”
One sentence set off a boom in the audience, and the audience applauded.
Another time, Jin Xing was invited to South Korea to watch an art performance, and when he left the Korean customs, Jin Xing went out in accordance with the rules and regulations, but because he was Chinese, he was repeatedly harassed by the staff.
Jin Xing was directly furious and said to the staff: "You have made it clear to me, what is the problem with my visa, if there is a problem, I will re-apply for it, and I can queue up again, I tell you, it is not that I want to come to your country, it is your country that invites me to come." ”
Later, the incident ended with the staff apologizing to Jin Xing, and the audience burst into warm applause.
In addition, the sharpest thing about Venus's "poisonous tongue" is to expose the shady scenes of the entertainment industry.
At a certain awards ceremony, Jin Xing was invited to be the host, but the time of the ceremony was repeatedly postponed, and the audience talked about gossip.
"These stars downstairs, you are really difficult to serve, I received five versions of the hosting process in five hours in the afternoon today, this one is not coming, that one can't give me an award, I can't sit with him, this can't do that, you guys are so hypocritical."
It is expected that Jin Xing is also a person in the entertainment industry, and no one's time is delayed, but like her, she is really the first person in the entertainment industry to say it so bluntly.
She also complained about many unethical artists, such as Sa Dingding's lip-to-sing and disrespect for the audience and the stage.
Chinese celebrities turn foreign nationals to make money in China:
"If you are a foreign artist and star, I advise you to pay double income tax when you earn money in China later, don't say anything I was born here, if your heart is here, you will not change your nationality at all."
"There are also those who are greedy for money, get their wives and sons abroad, throw a mess and pat their butts and leave, this kind of people are the most angry. Sister Jin wishes you all the money spent abroad, and it is better to come back to prison. ”
In a dance program, the program team asked the actress to dance without leggings in order to attract attention.
Jin Xing was born in dance, she immediately stopped filming and scolded the director team angrily:
"The pas de deux just now, change the costume, it's too ugly! What kind of dance do you watch, just look at the girl's panties. It's too disrespectful to the actress, hurry up and change it for me! ”
Later, the Venus Show stopped broadcasting, and netizens were upset for her, and in the face of netizens' speculation about her "banning", she only laughed mockingly: "Banned? Oh, villain tricks. ”
In addition to the chaos in the entertainment industry, Venus is also very concerned about people's livelihood issues.
In an interview comment, Jin Xing sharply asked the expert: "Why is the food safety problem in our country never solved?" ”
The barrage floated over, "Sister Jin! ”
But some people like it, some people hate it, and those who hate Venus say that she is "not a man, neither a woman, nor a class", and that she eats "patriotic meals" and is "used to grandstanding", among which the attack on the gender of Venus is the most serious.
But what they don't know is how much effort Venus put in to stand in front of the stage as her daughter.
"I've lived in a man's world for 28 years, but I've always been very feminine at heart."
This is what Venus said before she had sex reassignment surgery at the age of 28.
Venus's gender consciousness is very early, when he was young, his family was poor, and his sister couldn't wear all the old clothes for him to wear, and his mother deliberately floated away the bright flower graphics on his clothes, Venus always asked his mother:
"Why do you get rid of flowers, I want to wear flower clothes!"
Later, when she was learning to dance, she grew her hair long, and an idea slowly sprouted in her mind: "I always thought I was a girl." ”
In 1995, Jin Xing returned to China after a tour abroad and found Dr. Yang Peiying, the first Chinese performer to perform breast augmentation and facelift surgery and intersex surgery.
When the doctor asked her why she didn't do it abroad, she said, "I was born in China, and I should be born again in China." ”
Everyone who wants to have sex reassignment surgery must first do 1,000 psychological test questions before the surgery.
Those who answered 60% correctly indicated that they had a tendency towards women, and those who answered 75% correctly indicated that their original sex was biased towards women.
And Venus has a 94% correct answer rate.
A few days before the surgery, Venus plucked up the courage to call her parents and inform them that she had made the decision to have sex reassignment surgery.
She thought that her father would be furious, but she didn't expect her father to say in a trance:
"When you were younger, I thought you were like a girl, and after 28 years, you found yourself. Congratulations on the number. ”
"Are you sure?" The mother asked in surprise, and then decided to respect Venus's choice: "Whether you are a boy or a girl, you will always be my child, I only hope that you are healthy and happy, keep dancing, you dance so beautifully." ”
At that time, the support of parents became a solid backing for the isolated Venus.
She also once asked her mother, "How are you going to explain to your relatives and friends that I have changed sex?" ”
"I will tell them that you have always been a girl, we just didn't raise you like this, and now you have chosen to go back to your true gender," the mother said. ”
Jin Xing smiled: "This lie is not easy to tell." The mother only looked at her tenderly and did not speak.
With apprehension and anticipation for the new life, and with the support of his family, Venus entered the operating room.
The 16-hour operation was over, and Venus was "reborn" as she wished, with all the pain and cost in her expectation.
Except during the operation, due to the nurse's error, Venus's lower leg was pressed by the rack for a full 16 hours, resulting in the necrosis of all the nerves from the left calf to the toes.
"This leg can't get better, and even if it does, you'll be a cripple."
With an operation, she went from a boy to a girl, and from an able-bodied person to a second-degree disability.
Venus, who learned the news, had only one thought in her head: I was going to jump off the building.
Her mother cried on the side: "It doesn't matter if Venus doesn't dance well, she dances so well, dancing is her life, how can she withstand this blow?!" ”
Twenty-eight years old is the best age for a dancer, and after crying day after day in her hospital bed, she asked herself, "Is this really the end?" ”
Until her eyes were swollen and her mouth was dry, Venus decided not to shed any more tears, she asked herself what she wanted, and if it was trophies and honors, these things were really going away.
If you love dance, even if you can't stand on the stage, you can do dance-related careers in the future.
Venus was thinking about the future clearly, she stared at her left foot, and suddenly felt one of her toes move, she rubbed her eyes in disbelief, and the toes moved again.
At that moment she knew: "My leg is not completely broken, it is just 'sleeping'." ”
In order to regain sensation in her left leg, Venus underwent electroshock therapy every day, and she lost more than 30 pounds, lost muscles, had no sense of shape and line, and no longer looked like a dancer.
At first she was confined to a wheelchair, then she was on crutches and crutches, and finally she was able to walk with a limp on her own.
Three months later, she reappeared on stage, even though she needed a masseuse to massage her left leg after a dance, even though some people said that she didn't dance as high as before, even though Venus felt cold in her left leg and warm in her right leg when dancing, she still persevered.
"When I danced the last move of Half a Dream and faced the audience, my tears flowed. My movements were stronger than ever, and I was free from life. ”
The doctor said in an interview: "It's a miracle that she can stand on the stage!" ”
In the face of the controversy over sex transfer, Jin Xing said: "I will use my life and my works to be a person, so that society will recognize me and accept me." ”
Until now, Venus's left leg is still recovering, and Venus said: "What supports me on my stage is not that nerve, but my belief in dance and the stage. ”
Jin Xing has loved dancing since she was a child, and began to learn dance at the age of 6, her father worked in the Intelligence Department of the Shenyang Military Region of the People's Liberation Army, and her mother was a data keeper at the Liaoning Academy of Light Industry Sciences.
When she was 9 years old, Jin Xing heard from her father about the recruitment of the song and dance troupe of the military region, and after Mao Sui recommended herself, she did not expect to be directly admitted to the song and dance troupe.
In the song and dance troupe, Jin Xing showed great talent, and at the age of 13, he enrolled in the Chinese People's Liberation Army Art Academy to study dance.
The teachers at the time thought that Venus was a genius in dance: "This child will become a great man in the future!" ”
Thanks to the experience of the song and dance troupe, Jin Xing has rich stage practice experience, which is more experienced than the stage of students from the professional class, she can quickly judge the improvement point of the stage through the reaction of the audience, and can also play on the spot to deal with many stage accidents.
In 1984, Jin Xing graduated from the Dance Department of the Academy of Arts.
The following year, she pioneered men's pointe dancing, which caused a sensation in the Chinese dance world.
In the same year, his mentor Song Zhaokun helped Jin Xing sign up for the first "Taoli Cup" dance activity, and Jin Xing won the first place and was also credited with second-class merit.
Later, a foreign performance trip made her feel a different culture, and she silently thought in her heart, I will come again in the future.
In 1988, Jin Xing received a full scholarship from the Asian Cultural Council to study modern dance in New York. At that time, there were countless students who participated in the election, and their abilities were all high.
Jin Xing could see the ability of her fellow competitors at a glance, and she was confident that she would be the first in the limelight, and in fact, as she said, she became the first Chinese dancer to receive a full scholarship from the United States.
In 1990, Jin Xing and his best friend's girlfriend Kempolin got married in New York, this "joke marriage" did not have much love between men and women, and the license was to help the friend solve the housing problem.
After a few years of marriage, they were each busy with their own careers.
10 years later, Venus receives a call from "Mrs. Kembolin" and learns that Kembolin is pregnant with the child of the man she loves and needs a divorce.
After the divorce, Jin Xing laughed: "Life is really a ridiculous play. 10 years ago, he was still a handsome guy, and when he divorced 10 years later, he had become a daughter. ”
In addition to a sexless marriage, during the years of studying dance in the United States, Venus's dancing skills have improved again, this time not only in movement, but also in choreography.
In 1991, she adapted the dance "Half Dream" based on the story "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", which won the Best Choreographer at the American Dance Festival.
In the same year, he was also hired as a TV choreographer by the Italian National Radio and Television Station.
In 1993, she returned to China to develop, and when asked why, she said, "I want the world to know about our Chinese artists." ”
In 1995, while recovering from sex reassignment surgery, Jin Xing co-founded the Beijing Modern Dance Company with the Beijing Municipal Bureau of Culture and served as the company's first artistic director.
The following year, Jin Xing premiered his choreography "Red and Black" at the Poly Theater in Beijing, the first public performance of modern dance in Chinese mainland.
"Red and Black" also won the 8th Wenhua Award for New Program in the Dance Category.
In 1999, Jin Xing founded China's first private modern dance troupe: Jin Xing Dance Company.
In 2002, he was hired by the United Nations as an artistic consultant of the Shanghai Center for Oriental Culture and Art.
In 2004, he toured Europe with the modern dance drama "Tango of the Sea".
Unexpectedly, this line not only harvested more flowers and applause, but also gained her love.
Venus once said: "I don't worship anyone, but if I want to worship anyone, it must be my future husband, the person who can marry me, the person who can really appreciate me and understand my value."
The person who can be my husband is so tasteful, too discerning, and too knowledgeable! ”
In February 2004, Venus met Hans, a silent and reserved German man, on a plane, and the two chatted very speculatively, leaving each other's phone numbers when they parted.
It wasn't until after getting off the plane that Hans saw many dancers around Venus coming to pick him up, and he realized that the person he had just spoken to was a famous dancer.
Hans searched for information about Venus, was impressed by Venus's personality charm, and was also impressed by the legend of Venus, and with a sincere heart, he took the initiative to call Venus.
When he learned that Venus had adopted three Chinese children from 2000 to 2003, he did not stop pursuing Venus.
In June 2004, the two established a relationship.
After 1 year of acquaintance, the two got married.
At first, Venus's mother did not support Venus and Hans in a relationship, she was afraid that the two parties would have difficulty communicating in language, that Hans was just curious about Venus's transsexual identity, that Hans might not love Venus, and that Venus would be hurt.
And Venus didn't think too much, for the object of love, Venus believes that as long as the physical and mental health, ability and wealth are not important, the most important thing is the essence and quality of the person.
But for the marriage partner, Jin Xing is more thoughtful and stricter: "I want to create the best conditions for the growth of my children and grow freely in an environment of love." ”
For this reason, she and Hans agreed that after marriage, she would focus on the Venus career, and settle in China for the growth and education of her children.
Talking about Hans's family status, Jin Xing told Hans bluntly: "In this family, the status of the child will always come first, and the child will always be more important than you." ”
Later, Hans's intentions for Venus and the stable relationship between the two resolved the worries in Venus's mother's heart.
Over the years, Venus's mother sometimes even blamed her daughter for not being good enough to Hans, she thought that Hans had left her hometown to come to China for Venus, which was very hard, so many times, her mother became the intermediary between Venus and Hans to resolve the conflict.
In a talk show, the host asked Jin Xing how Jin Xing's mother views the relationship between the two and whether she has any objections.
Hans, who had always been silent and silent, suddenly said in broken Chinese: "My mother-in-law loves me very much. ”
Living with children, Venus rarely goes out to play when he is resting, and friends come to China to ask Venus where to play, and Venus says: "How can I have that time!" I'm a mother! ”
On a family outing, Hansdo glanced at the lady in the miniskirt.
The next day, Venus appeared at home in a miniskirt, and Hans asked, "Why are you so beautiful today?" ”
"I just let you know that your wife also has the leg you saw yesterday!"
"But I can't always wear it, yesterday we went to the park and climbed up and down with the kids, can I wear that? I'm a mom! ”
"I am a mother" has become Venus's mantra, and as a mother, she has always enjoyed it and is even more proud of her children's education.
Children sometimes ask her, "Mom, where do we come from?" ”
Venus did not choose to hide it, but honestly told them that he was once a man and could not have children, but could only adopt: "Because I love you and have been waiting for you for too long." If I didn't become a woman, I couldn't be your mother. ”
Once, the 8-year-old adopted son came home and told Jin Xing that his classmates laughed at him, "Your mother used to be a man", and the son directly countered after hearing it: "So what, what's the matter with you?" Venus was very moved when he heard this.
Because of the hukou problem of their adopted son, Jin Xing and Hans chose to divorce in 2006 and did not remarry until 2024.
On the career side, Venus has also gone to the next level.
She has created and participated in more than 50 famous dances, and has been awarded honorary doctorates in dance by two universities of the arts in the United Kingdom and Scotland;
He has participated in and directed dozens of dramas, including the famous dramas "Sunrise" and "The Sound of Music";
She also often appears in variety shows, "Dance Forest Conference", "Mamma Mia", "Super Speaker", "Chinese-style Blind Date", "China's Got Talent", "Chasing the Light, Brother", "Tucao Conference", etc., all of which have received an increase in ratings due to Jin Xing's participation;
She is also featured in the hit movie "Breakup Master" and the TV series "Lin Hai Xueyuan";
Jin Xing also wrote two autobiographies, "Half a Dream: The Autobiography of Venus" and "Loud and Sound: The True Energy of Venus's Life".
For the past two years, Venus's dance troupe has toured around the world, and when the curtain call is over, Venus always pushes her students to the front while she watches them quietly from the back of the stage.
The scene was like this, and netizens commented: "It's so elegant." ”
"God gave the wrong gender, but she engraved the elegance of a woman in her bones, how much she suffered to find her true self."
"Pushing young actors to the front, and retreating to the back, makes people cry, this should be inheritance."
"She respects every actor and does everything she can to push her kids forward and let them shine! Her pattern is too big! ”
Looking back on the second half of his life, Venus said:
"Why is my life getting better and better after the surgery? That's because I had stored a very high score in Heaven for the previous 28 years.
I haven't hurt anyone, and I won't retaliate when someone hurts me. These stored scores will come out to help you when your life naturally needs it, and I especially believe that. ”
And when faced with setbacks in life, big and small, Venus always says: "Be kind to others in good times and be kind to yourself in bad times." ”
This sentence speaks to the pain experienced by Venus, and also explains the reason for her success.
Chic as her, strong as her, now with a happy marriage, a happy family, and a high career, Venus has lived her best appearance, and she has also lived the dream of a Chinese woman.
Everything is in line with her words: everything life gives you is what you need to experience, and the legendary experience of Venus will continue......
May Venus get better and better both in career and life.
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