The beauty of love is speechless, love needs sweet words to lay the foundation, and its true connotation can only be understood, and finally no language can be broken.
Good love is like a beam of light shining into the darkness, which can dispel the night and give this confused person a way forward.
For a woman, being able to have such a relationship depends on whether the man is willing to love her or not.
Love is unique, it is limited, it can only accommodate two people, and once it is determined, it must be unique and unchanging.
It's just that when men express their feelings, they are always uniformly introverted, they are not good at expressing, and they are not embarrassed to say "I love you" directly, which provides us with difficulties in judging whether men love themselves.
But fortunately, if you love someone or not, there will be "clues", and we can judge according to the details.
Psychological research has shown that in a love, these 3 physiological reactions are a signal that a man is in love with a person.
Will uncontrollably want to talk to you
Men are inherently hunting animals, and what they prefer is practice, plus their way of thinking is focused on decision-making.
The chat focuses on a process, so men actually don't like to chat much in essence, and what needs to be done is concise and concise.
It is not necessary to talk at length, and every day "good morning, good morning, eat it" is a waste of time.
If a man can do something to another person that he doesn't like, it must be because he is in love with the other person, and love itself can challenge all the impossible.
Wang Xiaobo wrote in his love letter to Li Yinhe: "I have now developed a habit of saying something to you every three or two days that I don't want to say to others. ”
Like Ke Jingteng in the movie "Those Years, the Girl We Chased Together", such an unruly person will also want to share with Shen Jiayi because tonight's moonlight is very good.
Language is a tool that can elongate each other's feelings to a certain extent.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Is it money? Is it family status? Is it a sweet love story?
None of them, the most important thing in a relationship is to share.
Because of sharing, they have an intimate connection between each other's feelings.
Sharing is the beginning of the fall of all feelings.
Will suddenly become shy
Paul Ekman is a psychologist from the United States who has made great achievements in the study of the expression of individual emotions and their physiological activities and interpersonal deception.
In the view of psychologists, everyone living in the universe has "real body language."
Sometimes people choose to lie in order to cover up certain facts, such as we are afraid of being ridiculed by others and saying that we are not afraid of snakes at all.
But people's body language often betrays them, for example, people who say they are not afraid of snakes will tremble involuntarily when they see snakes.
Every body movement of each of us is actually the most authentic expression of the individual, and at the same time, it also reveals the true thoughts in the subconscious of the individual.
No matter how crazy the mouth is, and no matter how calm the appearance is, when it encounters something that makes your mood fluctuate, you will still show your horse's feet.
Of course, in a relationship between the sexes, when a man loves a woman, even if he has not said a word of "I love you", his body language will still reveal his true inner thoughts.
In the TV series "The Legend of Wulin", Bai Zhantang once said such a sentence: "When you speak, I can't leave, because my legs are soft, my back is numb, my palms are full of sweat, and I can't say a word of truth." ”
People often say that they have a long-term love, but Bai Zhantang himself knows that he fell in love with Tong Xiangyu at first sight.
All the embarrassment, all the looking ahead, all the fear, are all due to the timidity that can only be found in love with a person.
Will unexpectedly become stingy
Readers feel that their boyfriends don't know why, and they become particularly stingy and jealous.
When the relationship is not determined, the boyfriend is notoriously dashing, rarely see him have bad emotions, in his words, there is nothing in this world that he cares about, where is the sadness?
All of this changes after the relationship with the reader is determined.
Because he said a few words to the other opposite sex, the boyfriend was jealous and unhappy.
Later, when I asked, I learned that it was because the boyfriend loved himself too much and cared too much about himself, so he would regard the opposite sex that appeared around the reader as an imaginary enemy, afraid that they would rob the people they cared about most.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "When I met you, I became the most angry person and wanted to get your wholehearted love." If I have you, I will become the richest person, your love is the most precious, even if the whole world gives it to me, I will not change it. ”
We all know that men's way of thinking is predominantly rational, so they don't feel sentimental easily.
When they fall in love with a person, their hearts will be filled with emotional emotions, and they will suffer from gains and losses and become very angry.