WARREN BUFFETT: The most important decision in your life is who you marry. When it comes to choosing a partner, if you're wrong, it will cost you a lot. And the losses aren't just monetary.
The most important decision in life, besides career, is a partner. If you make a mistake in your career choice, you will fail and start all over again. And if your partner chooses wrong, it will make you doubt life.
Therefore, a good marriage is heaven and a bad marriage is hell. And between heaven and hell, there is only one companion. The quality of your partner determines the quality of your marriage.
01, phoenix male husband eat soft rice
Netizen Yang Li (pseudonym), how did not expect that because of true love, despite the opposition of his parents, he chose his current husband. But since the phoenix male husband ate soft rice, the mother-in-law took the little uncle's family to find ways to take advantage.
Yang Li is an only child, and her parents are well-off. Since she was a child, she has never worried about money, let alone been exposed to tedious family chores. Therefore, when her parents opposed her marriage to her husband, Yang Li once fell out with her parents, believing that her parents were materially snobbish and looked down on people.
It's just that the parents are dissatisfied with the dissatisfaction, after all, they are still reluctant to have the only daughter, and finally they buy a house and marry 200,000 yuan, so that the daughter is beautiful and married. Since passing through Yang Li, the phoenix male husband who ate soft rice did not have the slightest guilt about eating soft rice, but accepted all this very calmly.
The husband not only accepted calmly, but also tried to persuade Yang Li to ask her parents for money to buy a car, saying that Yang Li was an only child, and her parents' property would be left to Yang Li sooner or later.
Yang Li did not listen to her husband's advice, after all, she felt that her husband was still too anxious. Her parents were on her one child, and sooner or later the property was left to her, and there was no need to rush for a moment.
02, the mother-in-law brought the uncle's family to take advantage
Although my husband has eaten soft rice, in the eyes of his relatives and friends in his hometown, he has embarked on the peak of his life. After all, their parents did not need to spend a penny to marry back the only daughter in the city, and let the other party bring their own marriage room and dowry, such a skill, not everyone has.
Therefore, the mother-in-law in her hometown boasts that her son has the ability, and other people's families marry their daughters-in-law at a high price, while her son lets others spend a lot of money to marry their daughters. Whoever has the most ability can see it clearly.
And the mother-in-law not only boasted of this, but also took the little uncle's family to find ways to take advantage of it and try to get a piece of the pie. At the beginning, her husband discussed with Yang Li to take her parents to the pension, and Yang Li explicitly refused.
But the husband is not dead-hearted, coupled with the mother-in-law's good face, strong and domineering personality, uninvited, this time Yang Li wants to refuse there is no way to turn people away, can only reluctantly accept to live with the in-laws and uncle's family.
If after the mother-in-law comes, she will live a peaceful life and look at her husband's love, Yang Li will not be unable to tolerate her in-laws and little uncle. However, the mother-in-law is extremely envious of Yang Li's parents' wealth and wealth, and always tries to make Yang Li take money to help the poor.
After learning that Yang Li's parents have three houses under their names, her mother-in-law moved her mind even more and said to Yang Li in a serious way that young people now do not like to live with their parents. We didn't mean to disturb your lives. In this way, your parents have 3 suites, and then we have a set, I take my young son's family to move out, and you can also live in the world of two people.
03, daughter-in-law divorced, mother-in-law seconds
If she hadn't heard the request behind her mother-in-law, Yang Li would have been particularly grateful for her mother-in-law's reasonableness and felt that her selfishness was too narrow. But after hearing the request behind her mother-in-law, Yang Li suddenly woke up.
It turned out that the mother-in-law brought the little uncle's family to take advantage of this time, which meant that she must have targeted her parents' house early. Although Yang Li knew it all, she was still very angry when she saw her husband's unmoving appearance.
Ever since her husband had eaten soft meals with her and her parents, her mother-in-law had been trying to take advantage of her. First, he asked his husband to give 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, and then he often found an excuse to ask his husband for money, saying that he was uncomfortable somewhere and needed to see a doctor and take medicine.
The husband's monthly salary is 8,000, to repay the car loan to support the family, but also to adopt parents, deduct these expenses, he simply can not meet the mother-in-law's increasingly inflated requirements. And when the husband is embarrassed, he will naturally have some requirements for Yang Li, and finally the matter of filial piety to his in-laws will fall on Yang Li's head again.
Now her mother-in-law has to covet the house in her parents' name, which makes her unable to tolerate it any longer. She didn't want to marry a phoenix male husband, but also to paste all her parents' family property.
Yang Li did not say agree or oppose, directly filed for divorce with her husband, and asked him to take his parents and brother's family out of her house immediately. Hearing Yang Li's madness, the mother-in-law immediately froze, and hurriedly said that she was just joking, and it was not worth it to divorce for a joke.
Yang Li doesn't care if her mother-in-law is joking or real, her husband, this phoenix man, eats soft rice by herself, even if she thinks soft rice is hard to eat, which makes her intolerable.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Yang Li's divorce in time to stop the loss?
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