The mother-in-law dislikes the small dowry room, so that the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family takes money to change the big room, and the daughter-in-law: take your two sons to move away

What kind of mother-in-law relationship is the safest? That is to keep a certain distance and always be polite.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, far away from the smell, is annoying is the face is big and there is no self-awareness. The mother-in-law's face is big and she has no self-awareness, and she still thinks of the anti-guest as the main, and the son's marriage will most likely be disturbed.

No one can allow others to eat their own soft meals, bring their parents and siblings, and finally be rejected by each other's parents. When encountering such a mother-in-law, women only need to drive people away, and they do not need to circumvent it, dragging down the second half of their lives and tiring their parents.

01, the mother-in-law does not pay to buy a house, but does not invite herself to the pension

Song Min never thought that she would allow her husband to eat soft rice from herself and her parents, but in the end, even her husband's mother and brother would follow to eat soft rice. If the husband's original family just came to eat soft rice, it would be enough, but it was still reasonable to put forward unreasonable and excessive demands.

Song Min and her husband, originally because of similar hobbies and interests, coupled with the matchmaking of people with hearts, the two talents slowly developed into lovers. After a year of love, her husband took her back to her in-laws' house. When she went to her in-laws' house, Song Min found that her husband was a child of a single-parent family, and he and his mother and brother had been dependent on each other since childhood, and the family situation was not very good.

Parents are not satisfied with their husbands and worry about their daughters being wronged after marriage. But Song Min didn't care much, she had always been optimistic that as long as her husband loved her and was good to her. As for other material conditions, two people can struggle out by hard work.

When getting married, the mother-in-law cried that the family conditions were too bitter, and it was not easy for her single mother to pull the eldest two sons, and there was no way to buy a house for her son to get married, so that Song Min's parents could be more considerate.

Song Min's parents, under the pleading of their daughter, had to compromise, not only exempting the in-laws from the bride price, but also paying for Song Min to buy a dowry house, and Song Min paid the mortgage

Considering that after marriage, only Song Min and her husband lived alone, her parents made a down payment of 300,000 yuan to buy a small three-bedroom with more than 90 square meters. But a few days after the good days, the mother-in-law came uninvited with the little uncle.

The mother-in-law said that the house was too dilapidated, and her health was not good. The husband was distressed by his mother-in-law, so he took them over and lived with them. Although Song Min was not happy, he did not say anything more.

02, the mother-in-law hates the daughter-in-law to accompany the marriage room

After the mother-in-law and the little uncle lived in, Song Min's life was very painful. The mother-in-law can't cook, she just puts everything in and stews in one pot. Song Min could not eat, and was scolded by her mother-in-law for picking and choosing, wasting grain. Moreover, every time the mother-in-law and the little uncle finished eating, they threw the bowl away and finished.

Every day the kitchen and living room is a mess, Song Min can't look down, every day no matter how late she leaves work, she has to clean up. The mother-in-law and the little uncle's hygiene habits are not good, but the mother-in-law often interferes with Song Min, and Song Min will receive a courier or buy something, and will be talked about by the mother-in-law and scolded her for being a loser.

Such a problem, Song Min has long been strange. But the mother-in-law made moths at both ends for three days, complaining in front of Song Min that the bed in the guest room was too small and she slept uncomfortably. Therefore, Song Min spent more than a thousand to change the bed for her mother-in-law.

When the bed was changed, the mother-in-law said that the room was too small, she lived uncomfortably, and some complained that Song Min's parents had money, why not buy a bigger house directly? The mother-in-law also rightfully proposed that Song Min go back to her mother's house to get money for a bigger house, so that she and her brother-in-law can live more comfortably.

When her mother-in-law brought it up, Song Min was a little stunned. When she reacted, she was a little angry. When the mother-in-law saw that Song Min was angry, she immediately said very impatiently that Song Min was not filial piety, hated her, and wanted to drive her away.

The mother-in-law said that she was still crying bitterly, just when her husband came home from work, she saw her mother-in-law crying, did not ask about the blue and white, and directly gave Song Min a slap, saying that Song Min was bullying people, bullying his two orphans and widows, paying for a house from her mother's family, yelling at his mother, shaking her face, and ordering Song Min to do what his mother asked.

03, daughter-in-law: Take your two sons to move away

Covering her hot face, Song Min was angry and sad. She didn't expect her husband to be so foolish and filial, even if she loved him again, he couldn't force her to go back to her mother's house and ask her parents for money to change the big house. Her parents paid 300,000 yuan to buy them a house, but her mother-in-law did not pay a dime.

The more Song Min thought about it, the angrier he became, and the more chilled he became. At the beginning, she was willing to marry her husband upside down, not to help the poor. But in the eyes of the in-laws, Song Min's upside-down stickers are no different from poverty alleviation.

Song Min has a showdown with her husband, either his mother and little uncle will move back to their hometown immediately, or we will divorce, you will leave the house and follow your mother and brother back to the farm.

Seeing through her husband's foolish filial piety and understanding her mother-in-law's provocation, Song Min did not give them another chance and directly told her mother-in-law that you should immediately pack your bags and move away with your two sons. My parents and I are not obligated to let you eat soft rice for a lifetime.

Song Min's resoluteness, let the husband some instigation, he interceded with Song Min, but also played the family card with Song Min, saying that his mother pulled him and his brother up with Hard Work, and now it is difficult to follow his son to enjoy the pension, Song Min can not be so unkind.

Her husband's intercession made Song Min have a little soft heart. But thinking that if the mother-in-law and the little uncle did not leave, the couple would never have a peaceful day, Song Min still made up his mind.

Today's Topic:

Do you support Song Min in driving away her mother-in-law and little uncle?

Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!