For us, home means warmth, it means liveliness. And family, more means family affection and responsibility.
The so-called family, that is, the good to share, the bad to share, in order to have the courage to face the world, without fear and regret.
But in any case, in a family of two sons, the most important thing is the parents. The parents have a bowl of water and are not impartial, and the two sons will have a deeper affection, rather than tearing their faces for the sake of their parents' eccentricity.
However, if the parents are biased, the relationship between the two sons is bound to no longer be as deep as when they were young. And after the two sons get married and start a family, the relationship between the brothers is more delicate.
01, the door is not right, parents ask for 200,000 dowry
Tan Min and her husband have been married for five years, and the child is more than three years old. The couple was introduced to each other by others, and the feelings before and after marriage were very good. After having children, the relationship between husband and wife is even deeper.
In fact, the family situation of Tan Min's mother's family and the in-laws' family are somewhat different. Tan Min is an only child, her parents are in good condition, and she has never worried about money. If it were not for Tan Min's insistence on marrying her husband, perhaps her parents would have helped Tan Min find the right marriage partner.
The husband's family is generally poor, but Sheng is careful and considerate, and filial piety to his parents, which makes Tan Min particularly satisfied. Therefore, even if her parents obstructed everything, Tan Min eventually married her husband without hesitation.
Tan Min's arrogance was so angry that her parents directly proposed a dowry of 200,000 to the in-laws. At that time, the mother-in-law was very embarrassed, and negotiated with Tan Min's parents whether the bride price could be less. But Tan Min's parents insisted on not letting up, and her mother-in-law and husband had no choice but to borrow money everywhere to make a bride price. Finally, they had a smooth wedding.
After marriage, life is plain and happy. If it were not for the marriage of the little uncle and the husband secretly gave 50,000, perhaps the couple's life would be more comfortable.
02, the little uncle got married, and the wife stole 50,000 to 10,000 husbands
The husband and brother, three years younger than him, are tall and handsome, have a good temperament, and are very popular with girls. Not long ago, her husband told her that his brother was going to buy a house and get married, and that the future sister-in-law was an only daughter in the city, and the family conditions were good.
The little uncle wants to buy a house and get married, and the mother-in-law also greeted them early, saying that no matter how much, let them all help the lining point, and cannot let the woman's family look down on them. Tan Min thought that she still had a mortgage and had to raise children, and her and her husband's salary was not high, and they were only in their early 10,000s a month.
So Tan Min suggested that the little uncle get ten thousand, after all, ten thousand is also a month's salary for the couple, not less. At that time, her husband did not say anything, and Tan Min thought that he acquiesced.
Unexpectedly, when she went to the bank to withdraw money, when she was ready to wrap a red envelope for the little uncle, she inserted the card to look at the balance, and there was actually 50,000 yuan less in it. Tan Min thought that he was wrong, and checked the exit card several times, or 50,000 yuan less.
Until she checked the transfer records, she found that the 50,000 yuan was transferred out in the first half of the month. The password of this card is known only to Tan Min and her husband. She herself has not touched this card, that must be her husband secretly took 50,000 yuan to buy a house for his brother.
After returning home, Tan Min did not directly question her husband, she wanted to wait for her husband to take the initiative to confess this matter to her. But she waited left and right, and her husband just didn't say anything about it. Tan Min couldn't wait any longer and decided to take the initiative to puncture this matter.
03, the wife decided to send another 30,000
When she was about to talk about it, her mother-in-law came to the door at this time and said that she had come to see her grandson. Tan Min didn't care too much, although her mother-in-law didn't live with them, she would still come over from time to time to help bring down the child. Tan Min is also happy and relaxed, and naturally will not refuse her mother-in-law's overtures.
She handed the child to her mother-in-law and prepared her own meals, but she just turned around and went into the kitchen, but her mother-in-law secretly took a stack of money from the bag she had brought with her. The mother-in-law also deliberately looked at the kitchen, and then quietly said to her husband, this is 20,000 yuan, we and your brother thought for a few days, think that this 20,000 yuan or take it for you, otherwise Xiaomin found out, you must make a divorce.
When my husband saw the money, he was anxious at once, and he pushed the money back in a hurry, and also deliberately lowered his voice and said: Mom, don't worry, in order to make up 200,000 dowry for me, your pension was hollowed out, and my brother also gave 50,000, and borrowed 50,000 from relatives. Now that he's married, I should give 50,000 as well. If he doesn't have enough money, tell me again, and I'll find a way to lend him. Xiao Min's side I will explain, you don't have to worry, we are fine, the money is enough, first finish the brother's marriage and then say.
Tan Min, who was hiding behind the door, heard all this and her eyes were red. At the beginning, her parents wanted a dowry of 200,000 yuan, which was indeed a great burden on the in-laws. At that time, Tan Min also pinched the sweat for her husband and in-laws, but for the sake of her parents' peace of mind, Tan Min still acquiesced to her parents' approach.
Because she believes that if her husband really loves her and her in-laws value her, they will definitely try to get a dowry of 200,000. Later, her husband really made up a dowry of 200,000, but he never told her the origin of the 200,000.
Tan Min did not expect that in the 200,000 dowry, the in-laws took all their pension money, the little uncle took 50,000, and borrowed 50,000 from relatives. And this 50,000 foreign debt is also repaid by the in-laws, and Tan Min has not been let know.
The more Tan Min thought about it, the more she felt guilty, although later 200,000 dowry, her parents gave her a lot of dowry back, but this money she has been keeping privately, even her husband does not know.
Tan Min wanted to understand this and decided to send another 30,000 to the little uncle. Although the money is not much, the little uncle needs to spend money everywhere when he gets married, and this 80,000 yuan can also be regarded as solving his urgent need.
After all, the family, in-laws and husband treat her sincerely, and she should repay them with sincerity. Although her parents also advised her to keep more eyes and not to expose all her strength. But Tan Min believes that a family, harmony and harmony are the most important, and money is something outside the body.
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Do you think Tan Min's approach is atmospheric enough?
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