May affection and love be with you
When it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I believe that many married ladies will sigh, about the handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only those who have personally experienced it will deeply appreciate the difficulty and bitterness.
But for most wives, at the beginning of the friendly attitude with the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law does not seem to have any contempt for herself, but with the passage of time, gradually found that unconsciously, there are many contradictions between them and the mother-in-law, and some contradictions, there is no possibility of reconciliation.
01 When I got married, my parents gave me a suite
Qin Qin met her husband at the age of 28, when he was just an employee of a small company, but at the moment he saw him, Qin Qin found that he had completely fallen in love with each other. Later, the two interacted for a period of time, Andrqin did not choose to leave because of the poor conditions of his family, on the contrary, Qinqin fought through his own efforts and finally won the support of his parents, so Qinqin married her husband.
In fact, about the diligent can smoothly marry the beloved, and the diligent original family also has a certain relationship, diligent is the only daughter in the family, and the parents have a stable job, even when they learn that the conditions of the diligent husband's family are not good, it seems that the daughter really likes, as a parent, she has to bear everything.
When her daughter got married, Qinqin's parents handed Qinqin a real estate certificate, looking at his name on the real estate certificate, Qinqin was shocked for a long time and could not speak, although she knew that her parents loved her since childhood, but in the matter of their marriage, they actually paid so much.
Looking at the gradually aging faces of his parents, Qinqin's heart flooded with bitterness, but after all, the female eldest was married, and Qinqin also wanted to chase after the life he wanted.
02After marriage, there have been family problems due to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
After getting married, Qin Qin thought that he and her husband could live an ideal life, but they did not want to fall into endless troubles because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The relationship between Qinqin and her husband has always been very good, although her husband is just an ordinary office worker, but he is very enterprising, especially after marriage, in order to bring better living conditions to the family, he resolutely decided to embark on a journey to work.
It is also because of the husband's outing that the family is left with Qinqin and mother-in-law.
Since Qinqin's dowry house is an off-plan, Qinqin temporarily lives in her husband's hometown.
The diligent mother-in-law is a very unreasonable person, which was slowly discovered after three months of being with her, and not only that, the mother-in-law is still very eccentric, because the husband is two brothers, and the diligent also has a little uncle, but in the eyes of the mother-in-law, it seems that the importance of the little uncle is far above the husband.
It is precisely because of this that Qin Qin has said several times to her mother-in-law, hoping that she can treat her equally and not be biased, but this mother-in-law's ear has become the best reason for her daughter-in-law to accuse her of doing something wrong.
As a result, many contradictions have arisen between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
03 The mother-in-law concealed the daughter-in-law and gave the dowry room to the little uncle to get married, and the daughter-in-law found that the marriage was in vain
Originally, the relationship between Qinqin and his mother-in-law was not so harmonious, but then he suddenly became affectionate with Qinqin, and also took the initiative to propose to go to Qinqin's new house to see it, for the mother-in-law's initiative to show kindness, Qinqin thought it was a good opportunity to ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and readily agreed.
When the mother-in-law was taken to her marriage room, the mother-in-law looked at it for a long time, and finally asked Qinqin for a key to the new house, on the grounds that she could often come to see it in the future.
It happened that I was also busy during that time, and I didn't have time to go to my new house to see it, and the new house was shelved.
But the next time Qinqin opened the new house, she was stunned by everything in front of her, because the furniture had begun to move into the marriage room, and Qinqin did not know how these furniture came, but when she thought about it, she instantly understood that it might be what her mother-in-law did.
Qinqin was still very touched at first, thinking that in order to reduce her burden, she chose to help herself prepare some old furniture, thinking of this, Qinqin returned to her in-laws' house with a new heart.
When QinQin told his mother-in-law about this matter, the mother-in-law suddenly fell silent, and after a while he spoke: Daughter-in-law, you see that your house is not living for the time being, and your mother has prepared a lot of furniture for you, you see this is not OK, when your brother gets married, let him move in first, and then move out after he has his own house, then those furniture are yours.
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Qinqin understood her mother-in-law's meaning even if she was stupid, and it turned out that she had been coveting her dowry house, and after moving the furniture in, she told herself so that she could compromise.
But the house is his parents' life savings, how can he let others live in it first, for the mother-in-law's request, diligently refuse, and very solemnly said that this matter does not have to be discussed.
Seeing the attitude of the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law knew that she had no hope, and the next day she let people move the furniture out.
Looking at the mother-in-law's behavior, Qinqin really didn't know what to say for a while, and since then, Qinqin and her mother-in-law have never been intimate again.
Conclusion: About the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, has always been a difficult problem for eternity, in fact, about this matter, there is no need to worry, even the best mother-in-law relationship will have contradictions, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a heart, consistent with the outside world, even if there are more misunderstandings and frictions between the two people, it is harmless.