As the saying goes, saving the emergency does not save the poor, save the poor and the poor themselves.
As brothers and sisters, helping each other is a matter of course. After all, in this world, even brothers and sisters are not willing to take the handle, which can only show that people's hearts are unpredictable, and no one can rely on them anymore.
However, some people are prone to easily betray the trust and help of others. You thought it was the last help, but there were countless more. And your refusal this time has also been insulted for yourself: since you have all helped, you should help to the end, rather than leaving the scene halfway.
Therefore, it is a good thing to help others, but how to help others and where to help others, we must grasp it ourselves. You are too kind, and it is not necessarily a good thing to face those who are greedy and insufficient.
01, just married, but met the mother-in-law to borrow money
Before getting married, parents had said that marriages with wrong doors brought far more troubles than marriages with the right doors.
Before getting married, Zhong Ning swore an oath, did not believe his parents' words at all, thought that his parents were snobbish substances, and looked down on her husband from the countryside.
Until after getting married, after being borrowed by his mother-in-law just after getting married, and being kidnapped by his mother-in-law and selling the dowry house to repay the money to the little uncle, Zhong Ning completely believed it, but it was too late.
After learning that Zhong Ning was an only child and her parents had good economic conditions, her mother-in-law proposed to let her mother-in-law marry a marriage house, saying that they could not come up with a down payment on the house. Just to not be wronged by Zhong Ning, the mother-in-law still borrowed 100,000 dowries from the east and the west, saying that no matter how difficult it is, she cannot be wronged by Zhong Ning.
Zhong Ning was touched badly, and the parents were distressed about their daughter, and finally not only accompanied a marriage room, but also privately gave their daughter a dowry of 200,000 yuan. It's just that her parents have told her to keep it well and not tell her husband and in-laws.
But Zhong Ning was naïve, where to think of people's hearts unpredictable, as soon as her husband asked, she took the initiative to confess. And the next day, the mother-in-law came to cry about borrowing money, saying that in order to marry Zhong Ning, the mother-in-law did not whisper to borrow money, and now that the wedding is over, those creditors have come to the door to ask for money.
Zhong Ning was a little angry, but still took 80,000 yuan to her mother-in-law. And the mother-in-law took the money, the attitude towards her was more enthusiastic, the daughter-in-law was short, the cold and warm, and did not let Zhong Ning do housework.
02, the little uncle owes 500,000 yuan, and the in-laws let the eldest daughter-in-law sell the dowry house to pay him back
With the help of money, Zhong Ning felt the warmth and enthusiasm from her in-laws' family, and even once suspected that her parents were deliberately deceiving herself. It wasn't until the uncle owed 500,000 yuan in debt and her in-laws asked her to sell her house to pay off the debt, that Zhong Ning was willing to believe that she was wrong.
After a year of marriage, Zhong Ning was pregnant with a child, and after her mother-in-law ran forward, she served three meals a day. When Zhong Ning gave birth to a child, her mother-in-law also helped take care of Yuezi and the child, all of which made Zhong Ning especially grateful to her mother-in-law. Even if the mother-in-law never mentioned paying back 80,000 yuan, Zhong Ning planned not to come back.
But half a year later, the mother-in-law, who brought her children well, suddenly proposed a strike and wanted to work in other places to earn money. Zhong Ning was frightened, thinking that he had not done a good job and treated his mother-in-law badly.
As a result, the mother-in-law said with a handful of tears and a snot that the little uncle learned to do business with people, but he was deceived by people and owed a lot of money before and after. Not only did he lose his in-laws' pension house, but now he also owes 500,000 yuan, and the creditor chases after the door to collect the debt.
Hearing her mother-in-law say this, Zhong Ning was also frightened. The little uncle does not have much culture, nor is he a diligent and enterprising lord, he must have been deceived. It's just that now I owe 500,000 yuan, my in-laws have no savings, and my uncle can't pay back any money no matter what.
Zhong Ning retorted to her mother-in-law, even if you go out to work, you will not make much money, not to mention that you are all a lot older, what decent work can you find.
Upon hearing this, the mother-in-law burst into tears, and she pleaded: If you don't sell your dowry house, pay back the money for the little uncle, and then he will make money later, and then slowly pay it back.
03, mother-in-law: The dowry room is my son's
As soon as Zhong Ning heard it, he secretly said that it was not good, and his mother-in-law took aim at his own dowry room. But this dowry house, her parents spent millions of dollars before and after, and now she sells it, even if she has money to buy it later, but the price is still not the original low price.
Zhong Ning was reluctant to sell the house, and also took the initiative to let the little uncle come forward to write an IOU to reassure people's hearts, and then slowly work to pay off the debt. If they have the ability, they will also help one or two, and they will not see death and not save.
But the mother-in-law was stunned and could not listen to it, she thought that this was Zhong Ning's prevarication. Besides, she knew best what her youngest son was like. An IOU was laid, a foreign debt of 500,000 yuan, and the younger son could not bear it. Without the help of the eldest son and daughter-in-law, the younger son will not be able to turn his face in this life.
The mother-in-law insisted on disagreeing, and said with some displeasure, you married my son, your dowry house is my son's, you will not sell, then I will let my son sell, that is his brother, he can not see death and not save.
The mother-in-law did what she said, and her husband began to sprinkle after work, and she also made a cry, two, three hanging tricks. But let her husband's mouth be worn out, and even divorce had to be threatened, and Zhong Ning did not let go. Because she knows very well that once she relaxes, not only can she not keep her dowry house, but even her marriage and small family cannot be saved.
The little uncle is notorious for his good food and laziness, and this time she sold her dowry house to help him pay off his debts. What about next time? What else do you have to help pay off your debts? If you don't save the poor, if you don't save yourself, no one can save him from the sea of suffering.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Zhong Ning should sell the dowry house to help the little uncle repay 500,000 foreign debts?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!