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In the world of male and female feelings, the most intolerable thing is the existence of a third person.
Because the relationship between the opposite sex is exclusive, this can never be changed.
Once there is another person between two people, it will set off a bloody storm.
The hero in the next case is trapped in a troublesome triangle relationship in his feelings.
Zhang Ruohua and his girlfriend were recently engaged, and the good conditions were that the man's family would go out of the marriage room and the bride price would be 150,000.
The woman's family said that it would not only return the dowry in full, but also marry a car of 100,000 yuan.
It seems that this is a regular wedding arrangement, but in fact, there are still many problems between Zhang Ruohua and his girlfriend.
It turned out that his girlfriend Song Min had been disconnected from her previous boyfriend and was entangled.
Even when she is in love with Zhang Ruohua, Song Min sometimes goes out on dates with her ex-boyfriend.
Although he had tried his best to hide from Zhang Ruohua, the paper could not cover the fire, and this matter was still known to him.
Like the reaction of all men, Zhang Ruohua found his girlfriend with a fire in his heart and clearly proposed that he must completely disconnect from his ex.
However, Song Min was a sweet-hearted person, and on the surface promised to be good, but privately he still had to do what to do.
Zhang Ruohua knew that his girlfriend had knowingly committed a crime, and he wanted to have a big fight. But after thinking about it, I was afraid to break up, and finally I just reminded me tepidly.
This time it is naturally ineffective, Song Min still can't forget her ex-boyfriend, and the contact information is also stored.
In fact, the girlfriend is so excessive, Zhang Ruohua also thought about whether to break up.
But he had wasted a lot of energy to catch up with Song Min, and the sunk cost made him unwilling to cut it off like this.
Later, the two spent more than a year together, and were urged to get engaged by both parents. Although Zhang Ruohua also wants to get married early, his girlfriend still makes him a little uneasy.
After the two parents met, he found Song Min and asked seriously: "Min Min, our parents have eaten, have you thought about it, do you want to live with me?" ”
Song Min naturally replied in the affirmative, and said that after marriage, she really would not associate with other men again.
Zhang Ruohua didn't know whether Song Min's words were credible, but he still wanted to believe her and give them a chance in the future.
Next, the two families prepared for the engagement banquet, and Zhang Ruohua was also closely watching the renovation progress of the new house.
Song Min's dowry car was also bought during this period, and after getting the car, she took a self-driving tour everywhere in the surrounding cities.
Sometimes Zhang Ruohua didn't have time to accompany her, and Song Min asked her little sister to go out to play.
Until the last few times at dinner, Zhang Ruohua saw that Song Min often stared at the phone and smirked.
As soon as she craned her neck to see, Song Min immediately sat up straight and put the phone upside down on the table.
Looking at her abnormal appearance, Zhang Ruohua felt a chill in his heart, afraid that his fiancée would not be clear with her previous boyfriend.
Seeing that the wedding date was getting closer and closer, Zhang Ruohua did not have a trace of joy in his heart.
He seems to have a suspicious heart disease, always feeling that his fiancée is still lying to him, or he is still not broken with his ex-boyfriend.
Once Song Min told him that after work and eating with friends, he could not go to his house as a guest.
Zhang Ruohua, who was suspicious of ghosts, actually ran to Song Min's unit and waited, just to see if she was telling the truth
He sat nervously around the corner, his eyes staring blankly at the gate. He secretly told himself that if Song Min went on a date with her ex-boyfriend, he would go back and get married.
But I didn't expect that after Song Min got off work, she really went to dinner with a few colleagues.
Zhang Ruohua watched his fiancée and five colleagues enter a restaurant, and then he left with relief.
He didn't say anything about this, but only temporarily reassured him and prepared for the next wedding event.
Wedding hotels have been booked in advance and their dresses and invitations are being prepared recently.
As the wedding day draws closer and closer, Zhang Ruohua is also busy. But he never expected that something like that would happen next.
During the weekend holidays, the two had set up a place to eat, a Western restaurant that Song Min had always wanted to come to.
Just when Song Min went to the toilet, Zhang Ruohua picked up her mobile phone and quickly unlocked it.
Naturally, the password was not told to him by Song Min, but he wrote it down by himself.
Opened the call page and the WeChat page, and sure enough, I found the cat grease.
It turned out that Song Min had been in contact with her former boyfriend until now, and even had a few late-night phone calls.
With a nervous mood, he clicked on the Chat page on WeChat. Inside, there are not only Song Minfa's selfies, but also very ambiguous language.
Song Min even said that Zhang Ruohua is not her ideal marriage partner, and her ex-boyfriend is, but unfortunately there is no distinction between them.
In the end, the ex-boyfriend actually asked Song Min to go to his house the day before the wedding, and Song Min actually agreed.
Seeing this, he immediately exited the page and put his phone on the table.
After Song Min came out, Zhang Ruohua, who did not perceive that his mood was wrong, also looked at the menu by himself.
The last bill of the meal was paid by Song Min, because Zhang Ruohua did not have the heart to spend a penny for her.
He struggled with his thoughts at home for several days, but he failed to make up his mind to quit marriage and break up. Because all the invitations had been sent, he didn't have the courage to stop.
The day before the wedding, he deliberately glued Song Min to see if she could go to her ex-boyfriend's house.
Sure enough, in the afternoon, Song Min seemed a little impatient with his entanglement.
One will explain that tomorrow I will get married and go back early to prepare, and the other will say that I have some urgent matters at work to deal with.
Looking at Song Mingu's appearance around him, Zhang Ruohua understood everything.
He walked away sensibly, but he hid in a hidden place and waited for three hours before he saw Song Min dressed up and driving away.
He ordered a car to follow carefully, and finally watched her car drive into a strange neighborhood, and a young man came to the front.
He asked the driver to turn around and send him home, and Zhang Ruohua lay on the sofa, tears flowing out of his eyes.
Although the wedding the next day was held as scheduled, everyone could see that Zhang Ruohua's face was very ugly.
On the night of the wedding, Zhang Ruohua slept alone in the study, leaving Song Min confused.
And Zhang Ruohua thought more and more in the study, and angrily smashed things on the table.
At dawn, he angrily pulled Song Min and asked her to roll this family.
In the face of Song Min's righteous questioning, Zhang Ruohua said loudly: "Because you were at your ex-boyfriend's house on the eve of your wedding, this reason is sufficient enough, do you still want to tell the world?" ”
Song Min, who choked on these few words, had nothing to say, and finally could only leave with his luggage, and it wasn't long before the two went through divorce procedures...
The hero in the case overestimated his patience and finally chose to end the ridiculous marriage.
This tells us that when we get married, we must not only be honest with each other, but also keep the following two requirements in mind.
02
One: Disconnecting from the predecessor is the biggest harm to the incumbent.
Under the development of the fast food era, the pace of young people's love is also getting faster and faster.
Therefore, many people have had several emotional experiences, so the word "ex" came into being.
Although men and women are becoming more and more open-minded on the issue of marriage and love, the core essence of tradition remains unchanged.
That is, whether it is love or marriage, it is only a matter of two people, and there is no room for the existence of a third person.
You must know that breaking the connection with the predecessor is the greatest harm to the current
Because love or non-love should be a pure and clear thing.
Sometimes I play a game of triangles that I play smartly, only to make myself a laughingstock.
I hope that all men and women can understand that if you love, please love deeply, and if you abandon it, please be complete.
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Two: Completely disappearing into the other party's world is a qualified ex.
As an ex, the greatest quality is to completely disappear into the other person's world.
Don't bother, and don't let it go.
Because once the two are separated, it not only represents the end of the relationship, but also means that they are about to start a new life.
As the other person's memories and past, it should not continue to be disturbed after the breakup.
If you really can't forget each other, you can also reunite and continue the good relationship.
Don't be like in the case, you are all married and in touch with your ex-boyfriend.
In the end, it is his own reputation that is injured, and it is his own interests that are damaged.
To know mature feelings, should not bring trouble and trouble to both parties.
04
In fact, falling in love and breaking up is not so complicated in itself.
It is just a temporary game psychology, so that the trust between people no longer exists.
Hopefully, in the world of feelings, we can all do love and self-love.
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