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"Insisting on marrying a phoenix man, in less than a year I understood how childish this practice is"

Rural high-quality boys always shine, they have too many excellent qualities, it is precisely for this reason that the rural high-quality boys are always sought after by many people of the opposite sex, despite this, they still retain many problems of the original family.

Rural boys take root in the city, they are like a phoenix flying up the branches, and from this point of view, they have a new name, phoenix man. Marrying this type of man, many women think they have found a potential stock, but often ignore the problems in the other party, and are likely to regret it.

"Insisting on marrying a phoenix man, in less than a year I understood how childish this practice is"

When Chen Fei chose Sun Jie, her parents had raised objections, they were worried that their daughter would suffer, but Chen Fei believed that Sun Jie was a potential stock and did not marry him.

Sun Jie is cheerful and enthusiastic, has an extraordinary temperament for people and things, has a lot of pursuits of the opposite sex, and Sun Jie has a good job, which is also the reason why Chen Fei is willing to marry him.

However, Chen Fei did not think that she had just married into the family, and her mother-in-law asked Chen Fei to get up and make breakfast. Chen Fei wanted to refute it, but Sun Jie helped her mother-in-law and said, "Tomorrow I will set an alarm clock for you, it is not easy for our mother, let our mother rest more." ”

In this way, Chen Fei got up early to make breakfast, and it was difficult to finish, but the mother-in-law hated that Chen Fei's breakfast could not be eaten, and reprimanded Chen Fei fiercely. Chen Fei had suffered this kind of grievance and couldn't help but talk to her mother-in-law, but Sun Jie said: "This is mother, no matter what she says, you have to listen!" ”

After listening to Sun Jie's words, Chen Fei was extremely aggrieved in her heart. After a while, Chen Fei and Sun Jie moved out. Chen Fei thought that she was finally free, but the hard days had just begun.

"Insisting on marrying a phoenix man, in less than a year I understood how childish this practice is"

Chen Fei and Sun Jie also go to work, but Sun Jie believes that all housework is what women should do, and when she returns home, she is like a hand-waving treasurer, neither cleaning up the housework nor cooking, just sitting in front of the computer playing games, and talking to others.

Relatives and friends in the hometown saw that Sun Jie had settled in the city and came to sun jie to settle down. It is not that Chen Fei dislikes his relatives, but because most of these relatives want to get benefits from Sun Jie, some relatives directly open their mouths to borrow money from Sun Jie, Sun Jie himself does not, but he still has to borrow from others, punching his face and making him fat.

Sun Jie's cousin borrowed 100,000 yuan from him and prepared to open a shop, but due to lack of experience and poor management, he lost all his money and could not return the loan in time, so Sun Jie had to pay it back slowly.

Sun Jie's mother came every three to five to inspect the work, and Chen Fei didn't like her mother-in-law to come, so she wanted Sun Jie to stop her mother-in-law, but Sun Jie said, "This is my mother, how can I not let my mother come to our house?" Directly ignoring the contradiction between Chen Fei and her mother-in-law, he let the two people pinch each other.

The mother-in-law has the support of her son, and naturally intensifies her bullying of Chen Fei, and Chen Fei is like a chicken that is slaughtered, she will always lose, even if she wins once or twice, she will be accused by Sun Jie.

Insisting on marrying a rural phoenix man, less than a year, Chen Fei understood how naïve her insistence on marrying this man was, but everything could not be turned back, and she had to slowly survive.

"Insisting on marrying a phoenix man, in less than a year I understood how childish this practice is"

Most of the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are due to the inaction of sons, especially for boys in many rural families, who often care too much about their parents and cannot see the hardships of their wives. Due to the lack of position of the man, the two women often pinch each other. Most of the rural men have the inferiority of the original family, they often regard the friendship as more important, thinking that the daughter-in-law should obey the family and unconditionally filial piety to their elderly, otherwise they are likely to drive each other out of marriage, so when choosing a rural man, the woman should polish her eyes, but do not bury her happiness.

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