After entering marriage, many women will hope to be able to get good treatment from men, so they often regard whether men spoil women as the standard of women's happiness. Many men want to give women a happy life, so they will spoil women without any bottom line.
To be too good to a person is to give the other person the right to hurt himself, and the same is true in marriage. Peng Yu said frankly: "After experiencing two failed marriages, I understand a truth, too accustomed to women is harmful to themselves! ”
Peng Yu's family is not good, and peng Yu feels extremely honored to be able to become a husband and wife with Chen Fei, because Chen Fei almost gave up all the bride price, and the two belong to naked marriage.
Chen Fei's temper is more grumpy, before marriage, the mother-in-law once talked to Peng Yu about this matter, and Peng Yu naturally tolerated it.
However, Peng Yu's forbearance did not exchange Chen Fei's restraint, but became more arrogant. She also lost basic etiquette for her mother-in-law, but she would always be critical of her mother-in-law, and often spoke coldly to her mother-in-law in front of outsiders.
Peng Yu is a filial piety, he can unconditionally and bottomlessly endure Chen Fei's various behaviors, but he does not allow Chen Fei to hurt his mother, Peng Yu has talked to Chen Fei many times, but Chen Fei does not know how to restrain.
Because the mother-in-law's cooking was too difficult to eat, Chen Fei deliberately spilled the rice on the mother-in-law's body. Chen Fei's move completely angered Peng Yu, the two people had a big fight, did not think, Chen Fei thought that Peng Yu had changed, has not loved himself, and took the initiative to file for divorce.
In this way, Peng Yu ended his first relationship. When she met her second wife, Peng Yu's mother happened to be hospitalized because she didn't have enough money on hand. Xiao Yan gave him 30,000 yuan so that his mother could be hospitalized smoothly.
When the two people entered the marriage, Peng Yu vowed to be good to Xiao Yan. However, he never imagined that Xiao Yan would actually make himself a joke.
After the two got married, Peng Yu almost obeyed Xiao Yan's words. No matter what he wants to do, Peng Yu will take the initiative to support. But later, the neighbors often pointed at Peng Yu, and at this time Peng Yu learned that Xiao Yan often fooled around with various men.
Peng Yu asked Xiao Yan to stay away from the other men, but Xiao Yan'er said unscrupulously, "Don't you mean to be good to me for the rest of your life?" Why interfere with my freedom?
Although Peng Yu raised objections, Xiao Yan still went her own way, because he knew that Peng Yu would definitely tolerate himself and did not take Peng Yu's opinion to heart at all.
However, later Xiao Yan was actually pregnant, and for this child, Peng Yu did not think it was his own. Therefore, he wanted to have this child, but Xiao Yan insisted on having a child, and Peng Yu naturally refused to ask for a child from an unknown source. The two people often quarreled and finally had to choose divorce.
Peng Yu often borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows and talked about his marriage with friends. He confessed: "After two failed marriages, I understand a truth, too accustomed to women is harmful to themselves!" ”
Most men are always like this, taking being nice to women as their own standard for being a good man. In fact, too good for a woman, often equivalent to harming themselves, men must understand the truth that everything is too late, women of course to be spoiled, but some rules must not be crossed, if the bottom line is violated, then men must also be justified in rejecting.