Many novice mothers will find that when the baby is full moon, it begins to become grumpy, obviously there is no good belt in the month, if the baby in the month is an angel, then the baby after the full moon is a "little devil", the older generation of people call this phenomenon "January sleep, February trouble", so why only a short month, the baby will change his temperament and become crying more than once?
Sleeping in January and making trouble in February are mostly these reasons
1. The baby feels external stimuli. Babies in the confinement spend almost all of their sleep time, and by the second month, sleep time will be 1-3 hours less than before, and babies will spend more time awake and active. Some babies are awakened at this stage when they hear the slightest movement, and then cry continuously, because the baby is already able to accept the stimulation of the outside world. During this time, your baby's nervous system will also become more sensitive and you can even feel pain noticeably.
2. The baby is hungry or sleepy. Moms must watch carefully, sometimes children cry not for other reasons, but because they are sleepy or hungry. At this time, mothers should stop playing with the baby, and quickly feed the baby or coax the baby to sleep. If it is not the above two points, it may also be because of the baby's bloating, because the baby at this stage can clearly perceive the pain, and the bloating will cause the baby's abdominal discomfort, so the mothers must be careful.
3. The baby is choking. After the baby is born, try to eat your mother's breast milk, because breast milk is the most nutritious for your child. New mothers may sometimes have non-standard feeding positions, which can easily lead to their babies being choked by milk. If choking is not treated in time, it can lead to lung infection. Therefore, at this time, mothers should pay attention to choosing the correct feeding position, and learn to control the flow of milk when feeding to prevent the baby from choking. You can also burp gently after each feeding.
Parents must be aware of several cues of baby crying
1, the baby's cry of "looking for someone"
This crying usually occurs when the baby just wakes up. If the parents are not with the baby at this time, the baby will cry tentatively. The specific performance is that the baby first makes an "ah" sound, waits for a few seconds after each "ah" sound, and does not "call" the parents several times, and the baby begins to cry.
2. Baby hungry crying
Similar to finding someone, the baby's hungry cries are "cyclical and progressive" At first, it "hummed" softly, turned its head to the side, and opened its small mouth as if it were going to be fed. If parents don't feed, it will turn into a crying baby.
3. Heart-rending cries accompanied by the twisting of the body
When the baby feels uncomfortable, the crying will be more harsh and the parents will not be given a chance to coax him. After twisting their bodies a few times, they cried loudly and looked irritable. Your baby may express dissatisfaction because he is full of urine or uncomfortable clothes. When the baby can't cry well, it may also be colic.
4. "Wipe your face and cry"
When the baby is sleepy and wants to sleep, when crying, he will close his eyes, rub his eyes, rub his face with his hands, and then extend his arms to make a hug, indicating that he needs to fall asleep in time.
In addition, two-month-old babies are prone to intestinal spasms, also known as colic. If there is colic, the baby will become irritable and cry constantly, so the new mother must pay attention. However, this may last for an hour and then return to normal. The mother can try to hold the baby with the baby's stomach facing down, so that the baby's stomach has the feeling of falling, which may feel more comfortable.
Write at the end: If you are coaxing a crying baby, don't blame your baby or be sad, after all, they cry for a reason. Moreover, it is not easy to be a mother. You have to believe that as your baby grows up, they will experience the difficulty of their mother and grow into a loving and well-behaved baby.