The Tao is different, not conspiratorial.
On the road of life, no matter how good you are, in the eyes of people who hate you, you are useless.
This feeling, without being clear, a look, a subtle movement, has been fully revealed.
In this regard, stupid people give "immediate counterattack" and tear in public; while the really powerful people are not in a hurry to tear their faces, but in a seemingly careless way, they are doing the most decisive and powerful counterattack.
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Work silently to "escape the day".
Hating a person, concealment is only a temporary measure, jedi counterattack, "escape from heaven", is the most brutal revenge.
In the movie "The Shawshank Redemption", the male protagonist Andy is a superb banker who is imprisoned for being accused of "killing his wife", he has been wronged, and under the quiet appearance, there is an unyielding heart.
In order to combat the suffocating prison environment, on the one hand, he used his special skills to win the trust of prison guards and prison directors and continue to work in "finance", on the other hand, he treated people sincerely and won the friendship of a group of inmates such as Red.
With these covers, Andy was able to safely complete the excavation of the escape tunnel and recreate a new identity for himself.
When Andy managed to climb out of the prison's sewer pipe on a rainy night, he got a new lease of life,
As the classic line in the movie says, "Some birds are destined not to be kept in cages because every feather of theirs shines with the radiance of freedom." ”
You and I in the workplace, more or less, or at a certain time, have had similar encounters with Andy: stepping into a work environment that they don't like at all, facing harsh leaders, tricky colleagues, and malicious villains, no matter how hard they try, in exchange for not respect and recognition, but jealousy and oppression.
If you are angry about this every day, it is tantamount to torturing yourself. If you clash with people at every turn, you are likely to be "swept out of the house".
At this time, the wisest thing to do is to preserve the foundation, prepare for the momentum, and achieve a transformation in the long river of time.
If you really hate the boredom, gossip, snobbery, and calculation of the people around you, it's better to spend the time others spend drinking coffee to study, and the time others spend resting to improve their abilities.
Just like the courier brother Lei Haiwei, he seized all the trivial time outside the courier, copied and memorized the poems, and finally, passed the hurdle at the "Chinese Poetry Conference" and became the champion.
After becoming famous, Lei Haiwei also became a teacher who taught poetry as he wished, and made his hobby into a career, which attracted the envy of many people.
Therefore, in the face of the people you hate, the environment you hate, don't let your heart be "imprisoned", freedom is not far ahead, as long as you work hard enough, you can open this door full of happiness.
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Stick to your dreams and turn around gorgeously.
Tagore once wrote: Dreams are beacons, guiding the way forward in life. A man without a dream is like a bird without wings; a man without a dream is like a ship losing its way.
People with dreams, even if they are desolate, can blossom in the crevices of the stone.
The poet Yu Xiuhua, in the face of not understanding and not loving her husband, in the face of the poor life of "endless work", she also cried bitterly, and even died in her heart. Fortunately, she used words to heal her wounds and used poetry to weave a colorful dream for herself.
When this ridiculed "unattainable" dream finally became a reality one day, those who laughed at her finally dumbfounded and shut up. And she can finally "on her toes" announce the departure of the people she hates.
This kind of "do whatever you want" is what everyone longs to have. It is also achievable through hard work.
When you are not seen, not valued, not cared for, and not cared for, the only thing that can save you is the firm and solid dream in your heart.
After watching an inspirational story from "assembly line migrant girl" to "Silicon Valley programmer", Hunan girl Sun Ling became a female worker on the Shenzhen assembly line after graduating from high school.
At that time, like many of her peers around her, she was so inconspicuous. She was not willing to accept her life, so she was written. So, when the people around her spent money to dress up her appearance, she saved money to learn herself and became a software engineer step by step.
She finally went to the far side she wanted to reach and lived the new life she had dreamed of.
Although Sun Ling is now facing the pressure of re-employment, her vision pattern has long been the same as the original, and she undoubtedly has more opportunities and more choices that fit her ideal life.
Sometimes, people will miss the comfortable small town life, but once they indulge in it, they will find that the people they hated are still so annoying. The root cause is that I hate the values that cannot be agreed with, and I hate that way of life.
So, stay away from these nasty people, don't let yourself fall into the most unwanted life situation, then always remember, fight for your dreams, fight for yourself.
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Conclusion:
The older you get, the more you will understand that those who make themselves annoying are actually a kind of panic and disgust for their own inadequacies.
They are like a mirror that illuminates their own shortcomings and illuminates their wishes.
As a result, I became more and more determined to "love what I love and do what I do." For the rest of your life, you will reap more happiness.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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