In the "Taishang Induction Chapter", it is written: Fate is made, and it is born from the heart, and there is no way to do misfortune, but people call themselves. This means that life is created by oneself, that all phenomena are caused by the mind; that calamities and happiness are not predestined, that they are all brought in by man himself.
This sentence, placed in the workplace understanding, is that instead of waiting for the "noble" to appear, being able to discern the pearls and pull themselves, it is better to cherish the self and make yourself a noble and patron.
Only in this way can we stand in an invincible position in the fierce competition.
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Standing in the industry, the real nobleman is himself.
The Master leads into the door and practices in the individual.
People who are on the same starting line, some people have become industry benchmarks after three or five years, some people have abandoned their craftsmanship and have to find another way out, behind the huge difference, is different "practice".
A young boss who has successfully started a business in itmaking tells the story of his hiring employees:
At the age of twenty-eight, in order to develop a new piece of software, it was urgent to recruit an experienced software development engineer. Among the applicants, there is a thirty-one-year-old "grandpa", compared with other graduates of famous schools, this "grandpa" professional foundation is much worse, but because of "fast learning" and was "proposed to be hired".
During the three-month internship period, this "grandpa" worshiped his colleagues as a teacher, and no matter how perfunctory others treated him, he could do "one point to understand", the professional level improved by leaps and bounds, and finally became the "bellwether" of the project, and it was natural to turn positive. Moreover, later facts also proved that by relying on "love to study" and "willing to endure hardships", he became the "top pillar" of the company.
It can be seen from this that when a person complains that the job is not easy to find, or it is difficult to win the competition, it is not that there is no job, nor is the rules unfair, but that your ability is enough to match the job requirements.
The old saying, "Do a line, love a line, fine a line", is not a slogan that flaunts high character, but a wisdom of survival.
Don't expect to have a "Bole" that falls from the sky, and all the good luck is not empty, it is the excellence that has been honed for a long time, and finally it is seen.
Therefore, instead of complaining about the harshness and pickiness of the leadership, the exclusion and calculation of colleagues, it is better to make yourself a benchmark in the industry, to become a person in the company who "cannot be replaced", and to make yourself "flat and green" with excellent strength.
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Changing the course of fate, the real nobleman is himself.
On the stage of the "Chinese Poetry Conference", The courier brother Lei Hai, with his solid poetry skills, passed the hurdle and won the championship, which makes people remember it vividly.
After winning the award, Lei Haiwei's life course also changed, and in the face of the "olive branch" issued by many cultural companies and training schools, he chose to become a teacher and engage in poetry teaching and creation.
People are touched by Lei Hai because a person can really change his fate by his own diligence, hard work and persistence.
Just like the classic line in the movie "Big Fish and Begonias": "Fate is in your hands." ”
Some people say that after a person enters society, no one can get used to you anymore.
Even if you are a graduate of a prestigious school and have a high degree, if you do anything with a low eye, the education is worthless and you must learn from scratch.
If you choose to give up at the age of study, when facing the "beating" of society, if you want to change your fate, you need to redouble your efforts.
Don't think that the "starting line" of life is only once, as long as you don't give up, you have a chance at any time.
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Struggling to find a way out, the real nobleman is himself.
I once read the story of a businessman who made a fortune by "replenishing the good":
During the Song Dynasty, there was a rice shop owner named Zhao An who opened a rice shop in the provincial city, and due to the scarcity of customers and fierce competition, the business was difficult to sustain.
In the blink of an eye, the number of people buying New Year goods gradually increased, and Boss Zhao had a plan, and quickly asked the guys to mix high-grade rice into inferior rice and sell it to the poor at the price of inferior rice.
In this way, the poor can eat the same amount of rice for the same money, and the news is not far away, it is very popular, and soon after, Zhao An Rice Shop became the largest rice shop in the provincial city.
Zhao An brought the rice shop on the verge of closure back to life, relying on his own kindness and wisdom.
The story of Zhao An, a rice merchant, tells people that life is facing difficulties, complaining is useless, expecting others to help or take the initiative to give in is useless, the most important thing is to take action: build bridges in the water, open the road in every mountain, and rely on their own minds and actions to turn around the predicament little by little.
Just like in the workplace, in the face of the distrust of leaders, the exclusion of colleagues, to find a way to get along with them in harmony, who comes up with ideas is useless, who to "support" is useless, can only rely on themselves to cooperate and work together again and again, as well as ordinary little things, run in with them, and finally reach a "balance".
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Conclusion
In this world, there are people who like you and don't need a reason, and likewise, some people hate you and don't need a reason.
When you are penniless, you cannot even defend yourself, because before you can speak, you are interrupted by all kinds of distrust and disdain.
Contempt and bullying in the workplace are normal, and if you want to escape from this barrier, if you want to give yourself the right to speak, the right to choose, and the right to decide, the only way out is to constantly be better than your past self.
Cheer yourself up and encourage yourself along the way, hurt yourself and take care of yourself along the way, firmly believe in the path you choose, bravely do what you want to do, and continue to climb to new heights. Only in this way will your life be wonderful and reach the poetry and distance of your dreams.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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