"Love does not exist for the sake of losing one's self, true love is to enable one to find oneself in the process of love." --------- the path of Carnegie's life, but also the road to growth, whether you are in good times or bad times, high or low, if you can have hope and dreams, you have the opportunity to be a better self, touch everything beautiful! Liu Mintao Broke the Cocoon into a Butterfly Many people know Liu Mintao through jingfei in "Langya List" and the eldest sister in "The Pretender", and she was 39 years old at that time. But many people may not know, in fact, she was very good when she was a student, the first professional course was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, at that time was also called "Xiao Gongli" by the teacher, after graduating from college, she continued to make films, and at the peak of her career, because she met love, she had a strict tutor since she was a child, and at that time she chose to return to her family and teach her husband and children.
However, life is not a fairy tale, when Liu Mintao became a good wife and mother according to the conventional way, but he lived a humble and pale life in marriage. Once, on a trip to Japan with her husband, she wanted to eat a matcha-flavored ice cream, but she didn't. She said: "Because I am penniless, I can only give up." She realized she couldn't control her own life, and then, she got divorced. 7 years of marriage, let Liu Mintao miss the golden period of the deduction of the career, in the face of the breakdown of the marriage, she told herself: "I will be myself, rely on myself, let go of myself, achieve myself, take risks as I want, live, and try where my limits are." In her 40s, she was stunning in "Sound Immersion", successfully appeared in the circle in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", and a song "Red High Heels" reached the "top of the sister circle" overnight, challenging various roles in film and television dramas. She said: Now I have become my own backer. Living authentically and stylishly, without having to look into the eyes of others to restrain my desires, I ate the matcha ice cream I wanted to eat.
Faced with the failure of her marriage, she chose to rekindle hope and challenge herself. Although she missed the most beautiful years, she cherished her dreams, and finally broke through the cocoon into a butterfly, became a better self, and touched the beauty of life again! Create opportunities with actions, from the beginning of treating her work well, my friend Xiaoqing graduated from an ordinary college, no family background, no high education, and her parents' expectation of her is to find a good husband after graduation, get married and have children. But she "wants to live a sample", drifting north alone, starting from the most basic copywriting, others are at the end of the work, but she is always working overtime, she cherishes every task arranged by the leader, insists on writing 2 sets of plans every time, and chooses for the superior. Sometimes when other colleagues are busy, she also offers to help.
Once, the leader couldn't help but ask her: Why are you so diligent. She said that I just wanted to learn a little more, and helping others was also improving myself. It didn't take long for her to jump from clerk to assistant to department manager, the envy of all colleagues who were more educated than her and had been doing more than her. Later, when the department manager jumped ship, when the position was vacant, she took the initiative to find the boss and said that she wanted to try, and the boss gave her a 3-month probationary period, but she worked for 3 years until she was assigned to the newly established branch. Ten years after graduation, although she did not do as her parents wished, she lived a wonderful life and became the pride of her family!
Others always say that big cities are full of talents, and high education and backgrounds abound, but Xiaoqing said that the diploma is only a threshold, and ultimately it depends on personal ability and see if you can seize the opportunity. Yes, in fact, we don't need to set limits for ourselves because of the so-called external rules, and make excuses for the so-called mediocrity. How much potential you have, only after constantly cherishing opportunities and constantly trying hard will you know. Everyone can have a chance to break through themselves, depending on whether you want to or not. Do you remember the person you wanted to be? Are you always trying to keep yourself motivated! As long as you can keep working hard, you will find that when you break out of the cocoon, it becomes your best work.