The philosopher Lassalle said: Love is the egoism of two people. I once read a book called "How to Make Your Loved One Fall in Love with You", and there was a sentence in the book that if you want someone to fall in love with you, you must convince the other person at the beginning that falling in love with you is a good thing.
So I think the essence of the love of two loves is that each other feels that falling in love with each other is a cost-effective thing, and this relationship is beneficial to both parties.
That being the case, if a boy wants to successfully catch up with a girl, then it is only natural for the girl to understand that she is an absolutely cost-effective thing to be with you, and it is beneficial to herself.
However, to be honest, in this era of materialistic desires, if you want girls to feel that it is good to be with you, the most direct shortcut is indeed to solve it with money.
There is no woman who does not love money, but if you have some economic conditions and are generous to girls, then there is definitely no shortage of girls around.
Money is a good thing, but also understand that most of us are ordinary people, not born in a rich and noble family, not everyone has money, naturally not everyone has capital, use money to impress girls.
It is undeniable that most women love money, but this does not mean that most women are very materialistic and gold-worshipping, and many women love money, but they also value feelings.
So this article is very suitable for women and men who don't have any money, but want to chase after their favorite women and men. Women are emotional animals all the time, their hearts are softer, and a woman's reality is only aimed at men she doesn't love or that she hates.
Once a woman likes you, the woman is willing to give up some of her requirements for you, including material, just to be with you. After all, chasing a woman is very simple, you can create a feeling of love for her, you don't have money and she will like you.
What is the feeling of creating love? Maybe a lot of men don't understand what I'm saying. In fact, the essence of love can only be created by providing emotional value, you want women to feel the feeling of love and being loved in you, and you can only provide emotional value to women by improving their emotional intelligence and ability to get along with women, and achieve the goal.
Women are a delicate animal, and women like to talk to people. Why do women like to confide in people? Because women are more eager to be understood than men.
Some older leftover women have played this point to the fullest. Including some of the older leftover women around me, looking at their looks to their ability to work, they are not bad, but they have not married. Their personalities are also not problematic, but their requirements for love are often unable to meet them by the men around them.
They complained to me that they didn't meet a few men who shared their interests and hobbies, and they said that no man could talk to them, so that they felt that the other person could understand her, like her soul mate, and could give her the feeling of love.
The concept of a soul mate is rather hollow, and we will not discuss this for the time being. We judge things by facts, do their words make sense? I think it makes sense.
They also do not require the man to have good financial conditions, but only hope that the other party can satisfy them on a spiritual or emotional level, so that they feel that they can be understood.
Although some scumbags are not good-looking and have poor economic ability, they have seized on the weakness of women and won many battles in the love field. These scumbags have relatively high emotional intelligence, know how to please girls, know that when chatting, they must take care of girls' interests and hobbies, and often deliberately chat about the words that girls love to hear, so as to please girls. In this way, the whole process, the girls and the scumbags get along very happily, the two sides talk very much, the girl will have a wrong judgment, thinking that the boy is her soul mate, so the girl feels that she has met true love.
There is also a kind of scumbag who is very calculating in his bones, but they will pretend to be very empathetic girls, such as saying to girls That although I am a boy, I also think that girls are not easy to be similar and so on.
In the end, you can provide the girl with the emotions she wants, let the girl feel that she has met true love, you know how to chat with the girl, please the girl, let her feel that she has a good chat with you. Or you have a wide range of knowledge, you can be backward compatible with girls, you can talk to girls about her interests, cater to her values and so on. You did it, and it is true that the girls you don't have money will like you.