Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Marriage is all about finding someone who is right and complementary to you, and then living together and being a better person together. Many people have their own standards and requirements when choosing a mate. Men like to look at looks, women like to look at personality, of course, this is not absolute. Everyone has their own set of metrics.
The older people have clearer goals and clearer guidelines. They fall in love and marry for a person they like and are suitable to go to, and once they have a clear goal, they will have a decisive decision.
Liu is a 40-year-old lady who has not been married for so many years because she has been hesitating between choosing and being chosen.
When she was young, Liu Yuanyuan was busy fighting for her career and work, and her expectations for love were still very high when she was older, and her requirements for her other half were also very high, so this also led to her not entering marriage until she was 40 years old.
Liu Yuan's own feeling that marriage cannot be rushed, and that the other party must be suitable and like it, so that such a marriage is meaningful. But this year, at the age of 40, she will still have some anxieties, after all, she has passed the optimal age for childbearing. At this time, if she has not found the right person, then it will be difficult for her to have her own children in this life.
So under the persuasion of relatives and friends, Liu Yuan began the road of blind date. Blind dates are indeed a good way to find love for many people now.
Liu Yuan also met with some blind dates one after another, but many of them did not have the following article. Most of the blind dates are Liu Dollar's disdain for the man, because although Liu Dollar is 40 years old, she has a car and a house and a deposit, so she still has this confidence, and she also wants to find an ideal object in her mind.
Liu Yuan feels that the man's income cannot be lower than her own, she has an income of 20,000 yuan per month, and she feels that finding a partner should not be lower than her own standard. And Liu Dollar has two houses in the city center and a car worth 300,000 yuan, so Liu Dollar himself has not lowered the standard.
The recent blind date Liu Dollar himself is still relatively satisfied, the blind date of the man Lao Meng is about the same age as himself, but also because of his own relatively high requirements, until now has not been married.
Old Meng himself also has a car and a house, and the three views of the two people are still relatively unified. Liu Yuan feels that he has found the ideal object, and the personality of the two people is more compatible.
At this time, Liu Yuan proposed that two people can continue to develop, but the premise is to get married, after all, he should indeed get married at the age of 40.
Liu Yuan also proposed that the two people must give the man a dowry of 300,000 yuan to get married, although his salary is not low, but the bride price represents the attitude of the man.
After this topic came out, Old Meng was obviously not happy. Old Meng felt that his age of being able to look up to Liu Yuanyuan and accept her had lowered his standards. Judging by his own conditions, Old Meng felt that he could completely find a younger woman.
Old Meng said directly: The bride price will be exempted, after all, we have all reached this age, let's be realistic.
This makes Liu Dollar unhappy, although he is 40 years old, but the maintenance is very good, it looks like he is in his early 30s, why can't a 40-year-old woman get married without a bride price.
Old Meng spoke again: "You are too old." In old Meng's heart, Liu Yuan's age is still a hurdle. He felt that he could spend 300,000 dowry to marry a young and beautiful woman, but if he wanted to marry Liu Yuan, he felt that the bride price was completely unnecessary.
In this way, the two people did not come together in the end. Sometimes two people who are obviously suitable can easily break up because of some disagreements. It may be that fate is not enough, or perhaps one party is too attached to its own principles.
Uncle Epilogue:
Meeting is a kind of fate, and it is even more rare to be suitable and liked. If you don't grasp it when fate comes, then it is likely that you will miss it in this life.