Jiang Changyi was originally a nephew of Jiang Defu.
As a result, because of a decision of Jiang Defu himself, Jiang Changyi became his nominal son.
Anjie also became his "titular" stepmother.
To this end, Anjie ran away from home for many days. Jiang Defu could only look at the sea from the roof, but there was no way to take it back.
To this end, Anjie has always had a "knot" in his heart for many years, and he can beat Jiang Defu with this matter at every turn.
To this end, the stepmother has become an angelic label, and has also become an anti-scale of Anjie.
But when the truth of the matter came out, Jiang Defu was a "real man" in the eyes of his sons and a "real man" in the eyes of his daughters.
Jiang Yaning once said to Jiang Yafei: "If you want to marry, marry a man like your father." And Anjie became what they called an unsatisfied mother.
However, for ten years, Domino has always felt that Jiang Defu's intention to conceal Jiang Changyi's life from Anjie is not worthy of recognition, let alone praise.
Jiang Defu insisted on hiding the reason for Jiang Changyi's life.
"If this matter is let her grasp the handle, our Jiang family is in her place, but we will never be able to turn over." This is the reason why Jiang Defu did not tell Anjie.
"Let her know that this mess in our family, you have a light on your face." This is Jiang Defu's original words that complained that Jiang Dehua told Lao Ding the truth.
These are the heartfelt words that Jiang Defu said to Jiang Dehua, and they are also the most important or only reason for him to conceal this matter from Anjie.
To put it more bluntly, Jiang Defu did this for the sake of face, for the sake of the face of the Jiang family.
But at that time, the two had been married for almost twenty years, and in Anjie's words: "The two have been living together for half a lifetime." ”
It can be said that Anjie has long regarded himself as a member of the Jiang family, so who is This face of Jiang Defu to be maintained?
Schopenhauer:
The most special weakness of human nature is to care about how others perceive themselves.
Not letting Anjie know the truth shows that Jiang Defu cares a lot about the face of the entire family.
From another aspect, it also proves that Jiang Defu attaches great importance to Anjie.
Therefore, he will be very concerned about the image of the An family in Anjie's heart.
But that's not what Anjie meant.
After the storm of Teacher Xia's portrait and the test of "sending a telegram", the marriage of Jiang Defu and Anjie can be regarded as having smoothly passed the mid-life crisis.
Two people tossing and turning are just more powerful proof: they both care about each other.
But Jiang Defu did not realize this, and did not understand the real reason why Anjie was angry.
The real reason Anjie was angry.
What Anjie was really angry about was that Jiang Defu had deceived himself.
Marriage is based on mutual need, and mutual trust built on mutual need.
"I don't have children." This is the promise made by Jiang Defu at the dinner table of the An family, and it is also the main reason why Anjie was able to marry Jiang Defu smoothly.
As a result, many years later, Jiang Defu personally admitted that Jiang Changyi was his son.
He has been "deceived" for many years, which is what Anjie cares about, and this is where Anjie's grievances lie.
Therefore, as long as Jiang Defu told the truth of that year, this secret was only the secret of the husband and wife.
Anjie has no grievances, and naturally will not laugh at what the second brother of the Jiang family and Jiang Guilan did.
In Anjie's mind, they were just a bunch of poor people.
Who would deliberately uncover the scars of a poor man, at least Not Anjie, because she had her own pride.
Domino believes that if Jiang Defu had personally told Anjie the truth about the whole thing, Jiang Defu would have re-acquainted himself with Anjie and appreciated her from another level.
Anjie does not laugh at the Jiang family, which is also determined by her personality.
Anjie knows how to be grateful.
For the so-called relatives in the countryside", Anjie can tolerate it. Only because she felt that Jiang Defu was good to her mother's family, she should repay the favor.
What reason does Anjie have to laugh at what The Second Brother Jiang Defu did?
For something unrelated many years ago, to hurt the cherished person in front of him, Anjie is not so stupid. And, there is no need.
Anjie is measured.
When they were just married, as long as Jiang Defu had a look, Anjie would be obedient to Jiang Defu, and even Lao Ding said that the two of them were "wretched and adulterous".
Later, Anjie would only ignore Jiang Defu's face in front of familiar people, such as Lao Ding.
Therefore, when encountering such a matter related to the family's reputation, Anjie will never make a storm in the city, and will only willingly become the nominal stepmother.
Because, this will make Jiang Defu feel at ease and comfortable, which is what Anjie cares about.
Anjie knife mouth tofu heart, will not be preoccupied.
For Jiang Dehua, Anjie is pitiful and disgusted from the bottom of his heart.
But what is certain is that Anjie never regarded this sister-in-law as an outsider.
Otherwise, Anjie would not have done her best to correct Her Jiang Dehua's living habits, and would not have even been willing to give Jiang Dehua one of her dowry boxes.
Therefore, if Jiang Changyi is only Jiang Defu's nephew, even if it is a nephew who cannot be put on the surface, Anjie will treat Jiang Changyi like a family.
Even for his own face, Anjie would have done so.
Anjie loves Gan Defu.
In fact, this alone is enough for Anjie to willingly recognize Jiang Changyi's son after knowing the truth.
The fault is not in Jiang Defu, but it is he who carries the pot. This is heartbreaking for Anjie.
Therefore, Anjie naturally would not mind standing behind Jiang Defu at this time and helping her.
In fact, Anjie has been doing the same since then. At least, Ge Meixia and others did not know Jiang Changyi's true identity. Anjie, the stepmother, still has to be the one who keeps going.
The reason why people hide it is often because they are facing some kind of pressure.
This kind of pressure makes it not know how to choose for a while.
The reason why Jiang Defu concealed Jiang Changyi's origin was because he cared too much about Anjie and how Anjie viewed his family.
In this world, half of the people are happy, and the other half does not understand. Half of the people's minds, the other half can not guess.
Even couples who have lived for many years have different times in their thinking.
Therefore, couples should learn to think in empathy and communicate diligently.
In the vast majority of cases, concealment is not a solution to the problem, but a sword to hurt each other.
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